Reality check on “necessary” release

Is it considered a “release”, if one gets no orgasm through physical contact but by nocturnal emissions? Curious as to if a “release” is the same as a “ruined O” or “nocturnal emission”?

 

It's whatever you want it to be

 

"Release" can mean lots of things, so I prefer - if I'm trying to describe what's going on - to use "locked", "unlocked", "teased" and "orgasm". Or "ruined orgasm."

 

The OP's question was "cum release" i.e. "ejaculation" to reduce pressure on her husband's balls.

 

I haven’t had an ejaculation or orgasm for that matter since the middle of January. My owner and keyholder trained in medicine and she has told me there is absolutely no reason for any milking etc. that the body doesn’t need to ejaculate let alone orgasm and it’s perfectly safe health wise to go without.

 

I haven't been allowed a release since April 2022. I'm pented up but other wise fine

 

In my case release is being released from my cage

 

End up at 99, the 100 days is still yet to cum. What an amazing keyholder I have

 

Aside from the uncertain increase in risk of prostate cancer, there is no biological necessity for males to have orgasms or erections. Both of those functions are only necessary for reproduction. If the keyholder is not wanting those things to occur, there is no necessity for them to occur. If the keyholder wants to completely deny their male of those functions for extended periods or even permanently, there really isn't any medical reason not to as long as it is consented to. In spite of the lack of medical necessity for orgasms or erections, it can be very psychologically and emotionally taxing if the male is not consenting to it. Thus it should be consented to.

 

Can't comment on prostate health, but the ball don't need ejaculations. After a vasectomy, the sperm can't leave the balls anymore (the ejactulate is just prostate fluid without sperm) so from the ball's perspective it's like going years and years without orgasm.

 

The prostate will secrete a nocturnal emmission to keep healthy, there's no choice or avoiding that, if it wants to do it, it will.
Having done a six month lockup myself with no erections, ejaculation, orgasm, and not being unlocked at all (it was a quite open steel cage and easy to keep clean) I had a swift return to normal functionality immediately after, there's no such thing as a medical "need to cum".

What need there is, is not physical, but all in the mind.
And that's quite a powerful thing to have manipulated, for both the chastised, and the keyholder!

PS. I've just re-read the OP...

9 days! Some married couples who don't practice chastity (ie have a "normal sex life") have sex less often than that! Given the male hormonal cycle, you can't really determine if being locked up is having any effect at all if he's having orgasms as often as every couple of weeks.
It's a bit like saying you're dieting, but only between meals!

To really understand what chastity does for a man, you have to go at least a month without orgasm, many suggest three months.

 

Succinctly put.

I asked two urologists and they assured me of this. Yes, the ache and urge is real, but it is not important. There is no need to orgasm. Spermatogenesis is a continuous process and they get reabsorbed. Arousal is good and healthy. It can feel urgent, but it’s not.

Feel good that you have a libido. Embrace the ache.

Just make sure his trapped balls have good blood flow, and aren’t cold. One can tweak the vas differens sometimes when installing the caged, and that gets uncomfortable.

 

Just want to add my experiance

I usually go months without any ejaculation. Once i have been chaste for 15 month! No ejaculation, no wet dreams, no milking. And i had no issues at all (beside being super horny all day)

Sperm is just a small part of the ejaculation, balls dont really swell from not cumming. Semen just die after a while and get absorbed. I think semen have a lifespan of 90 to 100 days.

I dont think that release is needed at all. The body just takes care of this. And 9 days is nothing, its just in his head

 

I always laugh when people talk about ejaculation regarding prostate cancer. Maybe, maybe not.

However, why do these same people NEVER mention the other supposedly stagnant glands if one does not ejaculate? The seminal vesicles, The Cowper's Gland, etc. Semen comes from at least four different glands.

Testes, Cowper's Gland, Seminal vesicles and the prostate.

 

Probably because nobody's doctor tells them to get checked for Cowper's Gland Cancer every year after they turn 50, so they don't freak out about it.

 

Cowper's glands are the primary source of "Tears of Denial" i.e. pre-cum.

"The bulbourethral glands or Cowper's glands (named for English anatomist William Cowper) are two small exocrine glands in the reproductive system are responsible for producing a pre-ejaculate fluid called Cowper's fluid (known colloquially as pre-ejaculate or pre-cum), which is secreted during sexual arousal, neutralizing the acidity of the urethra in preparation for the passage of sperm cells."

 

My wife is my keyholder and she makes me wait at least a month usually several to let my little penis out and then there are restrictions if I get to masturbate or not. The last time I was let out, 3 weeks ago, she allowed me 30 seconds to cum but only 20 seconds to masturbate and if I was to not succeeded, my balls would be damaged. I did it and got a hard squeeze because I begged to much.

 

My balls don't swell. When there's too much build up, it comes out peeing. Usually after a morning poop.

Peeings starts then stops on its own. Sitting. Then blub blub some cum comes out then peeing finishes off.

 

You may want to read this:
https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...-male-reproductive-system-and-chastity.51367/

As it relates to the biology.

The short answer is no release is required as unused semen and sperm are re-absorbed into the body.

As someone who is 60+ in chastity and has also been snipped the need for release is not there. Just had labs and my prostate is very happy.
If you want to be nice, perhaps a very humiliating prostate milking may quell his needs.
Otherwise don't lose sleep over it.

 

People on this site talk a lot about having enlarged balls from a lack of orgasms / ejaculation and a need for prostate milkings. But here are some interesting facts about semen. The fluids produced in semen come from the testicles, seminal vesicles, prostate, bulbourethral glands (Cowper's glands) and urethral glands. Somewhere between 2-5% of semen is sperm from the testicles (balls). This is why those who've had a vasectomy notice little difference in their semen output after having their vas deferens tied off. The seminal vesicles produce between 60-85%, the majority, of semen output. The prostate produces about 10-30% of semen. The rest comes from the Cowper's & urethral glands.

Since such a small amount of semen is produced in the testicles, enlarged balls is likely caused by edema, a trapping of body fluids (blood, etc) caused by a chastity device, and may include the entire sack around the testicles.

Prostate milking without orgasm may not produce nearly as much fluid as appears at orgasm / ejaculation. It may appear as only a little more than the amount of pre-cum that's produced during stimulation. It depends on if there is enough stimulation to cause the seminal vesicles to also emit their fluid build up. The closer one gets to orgasm, the more likely the glands are to emit their fluids. Orgasm triggers a contraction of the reproductive organs / glands. The stronger the orgasm, the stronger the contraction. Ejaculation quickly follows through the rythmic contractions of muscles around the urethra. This causes the spurting of semen from the penis.

Sorry to bore you with all of this. All this talk of pre-cum, swollen balls, prostrate milkings, etc have me wondering what's going on inside my body.

 

https://blogs.webmd.com/from-our-archives/20070709/testicle-movements-and-what-they-mean

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/324870#treatment

https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/sexual-health-your-guide-to-sexual-response-cycle

Testicles swell from prolonged sexual arousal.

 

There’s a phrase I never thought I’d hear anyone say!

Sometimes my balls are so huge they won’t come out of my base ring… other times I worry how they’re shrinking. It seems to have no correlation to my period of denial. It’s just one of life’s mysteries…

Personally, I always thought the semen was ‘stored’ in the prostate.

 

I will never get to release again if my wife reads this. I miss the feeling of just before the release and never get to enjoy it anymore no matter how much I beg.