From time to time my sub has claimed he needs a release due to how much his balls are swelling. It’s true that they are quite large at this point and they give him some discomfort when he tries to cross his legs or something. But I don’t see any sign of real distress—they’re not discolored, just big and a little more red than usual. What do other KHs think? It’s been only 9 days without a cum release and I’ve set early next month as his first opportunity to have some sort of sex (if he meets my expectations up to that point). Do you find it truly necessary to relieve your sub or is this just a manipulative tactic? If you do find it helpful/necessary, what do you do to ensure (as best you can) that it doesn’t set back your progress in training? @BigWoodsmanLittleWood has been doing so well lately, I don’t want to jeopardize our progress.