Realistically .. time in without unlocking

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    I see comments about people locked up for days, weeks, months and maybe even years. But, realistically, how long to too long before being unlocked? Assuming there is no unlocking for things like "hand-on" tease and denial play, and the desire by the keyholder is for long-term, no touching and no orgasms, what might be realistic? I know there may be exceptions for emergencies, or doctor visits and such, but I am thinking more about periodic unlocking for cleanliness issues and such.
     
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    Really depends on the individual and type of device.
    I've read some have been worn for years without needing removed.
    Stainless with openings seems to work the best for longer lock ups since they can be cleaned pretty easily.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    In general for me, about 2-3 weeks and it should be removed to be thoroughly cleaned, and give your penis an inspection and groom.

    I have an open stainless device and is very hygienic, but even then you can develop rashes or sores without realizing it. I can shoot water and clean the outside, but some of the dirt and lube and misc...just needs to be wiped off and washed.

    My kh usually unlocks me every 2 weeks or so, so I usually do it after before re locking.

    Plastic and silicone are not in my wheelhouse so have no idea.
     
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    We use a plastic device and we unlock and clean and inspect and groom once a week.
     
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    well i has 2 cages now. 1 is for days and 1 is for nites so they are changed everyday but im not out for very long cos the rings the same and it only take 2 minute to do it.
     
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    Excuse me for being direct, but how do you poop around it? What if you are out in public and using a public restroom? I would think it would make quite a mess.
     
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    I'm kept locked virtually 365 days 24/7. My Queens Keep is easy to keep clean. The only times I'm unlocked are to change into another cage. This maybe my CB6000s for holiday when we fly or if we might encounter metal detectors. I also have a steel 6000s copy which is sometimes used. Although my Queens Keep is easy to keep clean I do find that I need to clean and leave for a while in a weak vinegar and water solution as our water is very hard and I do get a little bit of scale on it but this only needs doing maybe twice a year. So for me I am locked in a device at all times and have no problems with it!
     
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    Well i'm locked 23,5 hours of the day, the ,5 hour is used for cleaning and maintenance,
    other vice my Wife / KH keeps me locked always , i have no release date , this is up to my Wife / KH
    So while i'm locked , i'm also unlocked on a regular basis to be used and or teased, if i have an O or not ia again my Wife / KH 's decision
    we'r active in our local BDsm club and use chastity as a way to reinforce her dominance and my submision
     
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    Whether the cage is on for months on end or just a few hours is irrelevant. It's the denial of orgasm that's more important.
     
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    It does depend on the device. Plastic ones, for example, need to be removed regularly for cleaning. Hygiene is the biggest concern. Remember, they can be removed under observation, cleaning done and put back on again immediately, to ensure nothing untoward takes place. But I do think cages should be removed periodaically for this purpose, and under these circumstances.
     
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    Totally agree with this! If your cage comes off but you don't orgasm are you still in chastity? Absolutely.
     
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    I agree, but there is something different (not better or worse or anything like that) when it’s not only orgasms being eliminated, it’s our ability to function sexually. It changes things. After awhile caged without removal, there comes a point where it is reduced to a place that urine comes out. A faucet, spigot, utilitarian and that is a far cry from being allowed erections, the touching of it on fabric, or casual rubbing and incidental contact.

    When it gets to that point, usually for me when I hit the 2 week mark, something seems different. There is something to be said (different) about being caged without unlocking. Being orgasm free is certainly real without a cage and not any less, in fact I don’t have the willpower to do it, but it is different when erections and all contact is removed for a period of time.
     
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    I've had plastic and steel devices and have found it's impossible to stay locked and properly clean in plastic, weekly cleaning was essential.

    With a stainless steel device though it's much easier to stay continuously locked and keep clean. Using a shower head jet and plenty of soap I've had no problems. Regarding how long that is possible to maintain, I can only speak for my current longest period of continuous lockup which is ongoing, see my signature below. My KH is cautious about me staying healthy, she wouldn't let me get smelly or sore for my benefit as well as hers.
    Having discipline doesn't and shouldn't stop the love or sensibility.
     
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    Could be quite long. My Wife currently keep it locked since feb 5 - only onces/two Time a week removcal or urehtra insertion + clearing of that catheder.

    But for this the belt must not been taken off.
     
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    Absolutely agree with this too - for myself anyway. There is a big mental impact of not being able to get an erection, touch etc. Feeling the metal around my genitals, knowing it is there and what it means adds a different dimension that I would never get without a device.
     
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    We've not been at this for terribly long in the grand scheme of things, but two points immediately come to mind here.

    'Too long' is entirely dependent upon your personal physiology. If you smell and/or develop wounds, I'd wager it's safe to say it's been too long.
     
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    For the most part, we've included removal and cleaning of the device (one of several steel cages) and an unlocked but supervised shower as preliminary to any unlocked tease and denial or PIV sex. Otherwise, except for twice being unlocked briefly while going through airport security, I've been locked continuously 24/7 since February 1 of this year. I do find that a daily shower with extra attention paid to wherever I can reach is necessary to avoid a funky odor and that the cages with a solid bottom resulting in less skin to skin contact tend to generate less odor.
     
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    As said it’s all down to personal thoughts, I am locked 24/7 and madam will unlock me every 7-10 days to allow me to wash my self throughly, if I have not earnt a edging or ruined O. but I must not shut the bathroom door, and take no longer than 5 mins.
    However if I have misbehaved madam will put off releasing me. Tom I have learnt my lesson.
     
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    Regardless of being locked in metal or plastic: It's not the about the cage needing cleaning (yesyes, it does need that as well), but about the "prisoner"!
    Better stay clean and safe than risking any infection you can possibly catch just to be noticed in the Guiness Book of Records! for: "longest time without cleaning"!
    Just remember the Stones singing: "I can get no desinfection!!!" ;):D
     
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    Been locked in plastic long term and stainless steel open cage. The open cage is easier to clean when locked. It’s still ideal to be cleaned every couple of weeks regardless of design. It’s a must with plastic though.

    As for length of deinial then that as long as you want. Some have gone years without a proper orgasm.

    I tend to have wet dreams so that relieves the pressure.
     
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    This can vary greatly with things like the kind of cage , plastic or steel , open or closed. Since I have been locked in a rather open steel cage I have gone over a month with NO removal. I can clean myself while caged and also shave my pubic area by pulling the cage to the sides. The only reson my cage is removed is for Miss Shelly's pleasures so if she doesn't want it removed than I could very easily stay locked for a few months at a time with No issues.
     
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    Even if I say it's permanent, I do remove my cage once a month for a throughout cleaning and a better shaving.

    During that time, I feel I miss something on me. The cage is a part of my body now and when removed, it's like I'm being amputated.

    But I also have an evil plan: If I have to remove my cage for 24 hours (let say for a doctor appointment for example), I add one more week of wearing before that "big cleaning".

    I know it's hard to apply as I'm self-locked, but with will we can move mountains :)

    See ya!!!
     
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    3days is my record so far
     
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    well if you has just started then 3 days is very very good.
     
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    I have been get out for hygiene break for a few minutes every 5-7 days for 10 months now, with an ambiguous named Indefinite period of denial. I have been told that I might be allowed another orgasm at some time but then again.... So like I say ambiguously Indefinite denial. On the plus side we are exploring a slightly subby side which I have never felt before.

    I dare say I would be able to go a lot longer between breaks if I wore a more open steel cage its just that neither of us trust them, most look far too open to be chastity device.

    We really want one making for us.
     
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