Real chastity starts only with PA

***SECURE*** chastity starts with a PA.

But real chastity can start with something as simple as a person's own commitment not to cum.

 

I have been in chastity for a while. But when my wife had me pierced it was secured and escape proof. I think if being new getting pierced just for chastity could be real scary. For me already being locked for a significant length of time i was ready when my wife had it done. If someone is already pierced then it just makes sense to incorporate the piercing into chastity.

 

I made a commitment to stay erection and orgasm free unless my Wife desires it, so I stay in my cage. I would think cheating would only be an issue if one is locked and totally forgotten, in which case there are much larger issues than chastity lifestyle or play.
I do kind of fantasize about being “forced” to get pierced to make my cage more secure, but that’s all it is. And my Wife doesn’t like cock piercings at all, so my commitment will have to suffice.

 

The opening question sounds like a No True Scotsman argument.

"Does real chastity only start with a PA?"- Betteridges law of headlines suggests the answer is "no".

I have a frenum piercing and a custom steel BAW cage attached to it, with no access to a spare key. But I have tools so removing the cage might take 10 minutes if I was determined and not in a hurry.

Really, like all of reality, it's all in your mind.

 

Not as long as vibrators exist.

 

I can only speak from my own experience. But, Escape proof is mandatory for my wife. I have busy hands and cant be trusted. being a chronic masterbator is why i am in chastity. The thought of me being able to cheat is counter productive to what my wife if intending to achieve.

 

Since I was pierced in 2017 our sex life has seriously taken off. My wife is extremely happy with the result and 100% knows I cannot pull out. I no longer have a separate ring so I can only remove my cage for very short periods of time, however that has changed considerably now I wear it 24/7 and my next release date is Feb 23. I was allowed to use a vibrator for orgasms but that is no longer allowed after I've had two prostate all body orgasms and as she says the brain will find a way. Orgasms are only allowed during sex and since wearing the cage I've had more sex, more often than ever before and she enjoys it much, much more now. Sex is exclusive to using a strapon. The result is good and bad. I miss the old ways, but I know they're not coming back she has no interest in my penis uncaged and isn't concerned about shrinkage or being able to achieve erections when released for short periods, its only us and I don't need to worry about I'm told.

 

The piercing is not for me at the moment although I do get that it's inescapable and I like that. My mistress is growing tomatoes so of course I asked if she has a tape measure. So we're going to keep track of my ball size. I'm not sure if it's an exact science but since I'll now be required to strip and have her wrap a tape measure round my balls, hell why not , I have an extra motive to keep it real. 23cm btw (side by side obvs).

 

If someone thinks this, they are mistaken... Wearing a device only helps one practice chastity...

Which is the practice of not having an orgasm unless your partner wants you to have one... in this FLR case.

 

Exactly- EVERYTHING can be defeated. There isn't a damn cage out there I couldn't make my way through in my workshop in 15-30 min, circlips are no match. It's a state of mind.

 

I still dont prefer to puncture my penis yet.. there are many ways to enjoy chastity than some sledge hammer type of ‘macho’ ‘sacrificial’ ‘non removal’ ‘permanent’ way…
I just love the way the chastity device that involves the balls.. “ if one were to remove it, the balls have to go” kind of idea.. such ingenuity of mankind having make use of the balls to restrict the penis from engorging just like the spectacles would in using the ears..

By the way.. was it a man or woman who invented the first medieval male chastity device …?

 

A PA really adds to the mindset of both partners, I wouldn't do it for the hell of it, but it has cemented our commitment to each other. Not everything is for everyone.

 

I fully agree. I have tools that will defeat most locks in seconds. The few that I can’t cut in seconds I can destroy in a few minutes. And no device can’t be cut up.

That said, most who get into better quality and higher priced devices don’t want to destroy them. So the more serious you get about chastity the less likely you’re to cut a lock or ruin a device. So yea it’s mostly mindset.

 

we do use my PA to ensure security which was my idea as I am really into the head-fuck of being unable to get out of my cage without tools and/or her knowing..and fortunately so is she

 

100% agree

 

The wearing of the device is a constant reminder of being chaste and being under control/loss of control.

 

100% agreed

 

No piercing for me, I never escape my cage because I made a commitment to my wife and I don't break my word.

 

I think the answer is simple… Yes.

If a genuinel verified female said this to be true, well who are we to argue? That’s the logic in the mansion, no?

I will be booking myself in first thing tomorrow morning!

 

Lol

 

If being pierced is what it takes to have real chastity well I will stick with what I'm doing now, I don't care verified or not LOL

 

I’d happily be pierced. Maybe not happily whilst I had to wait through the healing time until I can cage again… I’d miss my cage. It’s just not something she wants, she doesn’t really like the look. Maybe over time. Now she trusts in what we’re doing.