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Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by Trisha-KH, Jul 23, 2020.

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What should I do?

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  1. Unlock him

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  1. Trisha-KH
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    Going to mom's house for 3-4 days. Should I unlock him? Kept spare keys hidden.
     
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    Any reason to unlock??
     
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    In case of Emergency(any)
     
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    Are you going to ums together or just you, leaving him at home?
     
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    Only me. He's staying at home
     
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    No. Hide a key, if there's an emergency you can tell him where it is.
     
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    Kept hidden already
     
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    I agree, he should be able to access a key in case of emergency..Play safe
     
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    Keep him locked you know where the key is if he needs ha can ask permission.
     
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    Are you ok for him to pleasure himself while you are away? Im sure not. Then why even think about it.
    My wife would make sure im properly secured before she goes out.
    She would say "Akele me mere khilone ko nai chhuna"
    In English - Don't touch my toy while you are alone.
     
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    Does he have some chores to do while you are away?
     
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    Lol.
     
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    "Some" house chores only
     
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    Sure
     
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    Kya bhai apne yaha se?
     
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    I sometimes go on vacation to see my family, a week or more at a time, no real need to have a key to it. Maybe an emergency, but I have been wearing this device for a long time and all the bugs are worked out...I wear it without removal for months without issues.

    If not used to wearing the cage or it regularly causes issues, an emergency key can be taped with a note to put in his wallet.
     
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    Yes
     
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    Sahi hai bhai khilona unka hi hai. Hamara kya kuchh nahi.
     
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    Glad the consensus was to keep him locked, with emergency key handy. I think this is perfect opportunity for you to demonstrate control over him, even when you aren't present physically. Would love to have that done for me.
     
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    Why on earth would you need to unlock him? A spare key (hidden) is a good idea! Going forward you could try the method Mrs Chaste prefers. Buy a small combination key safe. Have him install it in the back of a bedroom cupboard or wardrobe (we have a walk in cupboard with solid back wall). Lock keys safely away from him! In an emergency you can give him the combination. Then change it again later!
     
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    What do you think he would want? Would he find it exciting? Would it cause him anxiety? Any decision you make that doesn’t take how he would react has a much higher chance of being wrong. In either case have a good visit.
     
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    I misunderstood the post originally, I thought you were going on a short stay-cation to your mom's with him for a couple days. If he is stay home by himself... I would leave him locked with some type of emergency key at home with a plastic lock on it that is numbered.
     
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    Lock stays on hide key
     
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    Provided he's worn the device for extended periods before (let's say a week), and the fit/hygiene are good, there really is no need for an emergency key left behind. Mistress has left me locked for this exact same scenario multiple times with no key. The chance of an emergency requiring chastity belt removal is .0000000001% and in that incredibly unlikely scenario, emergency personnel can remove it (or him drilling the lock). You having the only key makes it more special when You go.
     
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    Not only would I keep him locked, I would give him a specific set of instructions he is to follow while you are gone.
     
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