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    #26 headlovr, Aug 9, 2016
    Guys, i just fitted my 2" ring, it seems to be the perfect size for me. It was just a pain to get my balls on it lol but now its very well, i dont feel anything like its not even there. I just feel a bit my scrotum hotter, but no change in color nothing, is it normal? the only thing is that when i get hard the veins in my penis show, but i think thats normal too right? i'm able to get flaccid while wearing and everything. I think i got an awesome fit.

    I'm gonna try sleeping with it and see. Now i dont know if i can get a size smaller, i dont know even if i wanna try hehe this 2" ring seems to fit me great.
     
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    #27 headlovr, Aug 9, 2016
    Now that im more relaxed, i can see that i'm able to get my index finger between the cage and the base of my penis. Does that mean its too much spacing or im good? the next smaller ring is 1.75". Should i try for the smaller?
     
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    #28 nvrsaynvr63, Aug 9, 2016
    As a grower I'm a firm believer in having the base ring as big as I can without having my balls slip out. You need to have both the gap and ring size correct. It makes night time erections or any other play much less painful.
     
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    #29 headlovr, Aug 9, 2016
    In my case, it seems that one of my balls, the smaller one, is slipping out, but the other is in place, so the ring stays in place, is that a problem?
     
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    #30 Jasmic68, Aug 9, 2016
    The ball slipping out would suggest you need to go down a size. Be aware that when you first start your balls can feel very tight but in a matter of a few months they will loosen as they get used to the ring. At that point you will definitely need to go down a ring size.
     
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    #31 headlovr, Aug 9, 2016
    thats good to know. I think ill give it a few weeks to see if i really need to go down a size. I think my balls are really sensitive now too since it was my first time ever putting a cock ring on, they are hurting a bit when they touch the ring.
     
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    #32 ddh067, Aug 9, 2016
    When it slips out... Do you only have the ring? If you can get it on you,of course you can get it of...
    But if it's just slipps out it may be to big. Anyway, when you get the cage if you can get the balls out between the cage and the ring, then the gap is to big!
     
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    #33 headlovr, Aug 10, 2016
    @ddh067 yes right now I only have the ring. I think I'm gonna try a size down because it feels big now. When I was taking a shower I could tilt the ring and even now I feel only one of my balls is in the ring. But when the cage comes I doubt I'll slip between the cage and the ring since the whole device has a 12 mm gap.
     
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    #34 ddh067, Aug 10, 2016
    As you describe it now, yes, it's probably to big.
    For me I went up from a 45mm to 50mm because the 45mm made me sore after about 4 days. And if I only have the ring... No, it's not falling off.
    And when I wrote the other post I was a little tired... sorry for that... so when you get the ring on, the last you do is to squees your member thrue the hole. When that's done, it should not just fall off.

    But, of course, it depends on the way you are built. If one ball is a lot smaller then the other, then you probably need the cage so it wont come off
     
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    #35 headlovr, Aug 10, 2016
    I think I've sorted it out why one of my balls was falling out, it was due to the way I put the cock ring on. Now I've put my balls first and then squeezed my member through. Now I think its properly in place :D
     
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    #36 headlovr, Aug 10, 2016
    @ddh067 do you use something like a cream in your ball sack to hydrate the skin where the ring is on? :)
     
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    #37 ddh067, Aug 10, 2016
    When I started... all the time and around the hole ring. Worst problem on the side where I could get sore.
    Now, when I need to and only under the ballsack if the skin is to dry...
     
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    #39 headlovr, Aug 10, 2016
    I noticed that when I get really hard my ball sack and my shaft stay dark red in color, is that normal? When I get in cage will that happen?
     
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    #40 ddh067, Aug 10, 2016
    Hi, When the penis is soft you can actually put in in your body. And the smaller the cage is, the better and more secure it's going to be. And if you don't have any room at all to grow, the night erections will not be so painfull.

    For me, I'm about 10 cm flacid, but my cage is 4 cm (and some space, so maybe a total of 5.5cm total???) or something like that. I can still get my smallest finger in for washing and moving around my penis so it get clean. I always fill out the cage but it will not hurt me at all.
    I have a smaller one with a urethral as well and that is awsome. But because it's so short, has an urethral and I cant get a finger between the bars, I can't have it on 24/7 because of hygienic reasons :-(.

    So, you can probably have the smallest one, but order both of them with different sized rings so you can test out whats best for you. They are so cheap anyway and it's really boring to wait if you order the wrong one :).
     
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    #41 headlovr, Aug 10, 2016
    @ddh067 thanks for the insight!!

    When I get hard while wearing the ring I notice my sack and shaft stay darker red in color, is that normal? When I'm flaccid they are the proper color. So I think its just an effect of the ring holding more blood. My erections are really harder now though, I like it he he it would be a problem if it stayed dark red, right?

    Also, other thing, there are cages with curved rings, are they more comfy to wear long term?
     
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    #42 ddh067, Aug 11, 2016
    Yes, it's change color a bit when you get excited and I think it's normal. At least if the color goes back to normal when you are not hard anymore :).

    About the curved rings, never tried but have read about them and it's both good and bad. Some say they are more comfy, other that it's easier to slip out... But, I have not tried them myself :)
     
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    #43 headlovr, Aug 11, 2016
    @ddh067 you have been very helpful. Thanks! I was just worried about the color but it makes sense. Dangerous would be darker color flaccid or erect. Anyway now onto being happy with my cage. Hahah :D Thanks a bunch.

    And thanks to everyone that helped me :)
     
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    #44 headlovr, Aug 12, 2016
    Guys I need some help again. I've been using my cock ring for days now and I'm trying to use some baby cream to hydrate the skin and help with the burning sensation I feel in my scrotum when I have a night time erection. However the cream makes me very slippery and the ring slides making one of my balls slip out again. Do you guys know how I can solve that? I'm still wearing a 2" ring.
     
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    #45 lock667, Aug 12, 2016
    Use less? When I apply baby oil gel I only use a tiny dab of it. It's a pretty small area you need to cover
     
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    #46 nvrsaynvr63, Aug 12, 2016
    Also keep in mind that since you're using the rings without any cage, that what's falling off now when well lubed may stay put once the cage is included. The cage helps to keep the boys contained.
     
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    #47 headlovr, Aug 13, 2016
    Another question, when I get hard, I feel the ring doing so much pressure in me / like its very tight, is that OK ? Normal?
     
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    #48 lock667, Aug 13, 2016
    Yup
     
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    #49 headlovr, Aug 13, 2016
    Because when im flaccid i can put the tip of my index finger in between the cock ring and my skin, so i think its correctly measured.
     
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    #50 headlovr, Aug 13, 2016
    Can that be a problem long term or am i ok and that is normal in chastity users?
     
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