Hello all, my wife and I have been playing with chastity lately. After about 10 days I was in such a great place. Constantly horny, a little defeated, and very submissive. It was heaven for both me and my wife. But I suffered a lot of pain from blue balls. We did a lot of edging so maybe that's why. So last night my wife told me to try some anal stimulation to see if I could release some fluid and get some relief that way. So I was using a vibrating prostate toy and after some time (and my wife very lightly touching my penis) I came... kind of. It was one longish excretion of fluid that was not very semen like, but was pleasurable. It was definitely a release, but it was different from a normal multi-spasm ejaculation. So my questions are these: is it normal to have almost debilitating blue balls (like difficulty walking) or is my cage not right? did I have a prostate orgasm or was that normal prostate milking? From reading it sounds like the milking is supposed to be without pleasure, but I'm not sure what is true and what is fantasy sometimes. which is generally considered the least pleasurable way to relieve some pressure and keep the bounce back period low.... a prostate "massage" like what I described or a ruined orgasm? Fortunately, I still feel a lot of the submissive and horny feeling I had before this, but if I was at 9 (from my personal experiences thus far) yesterday I'd say I'm about 6 today. Appreciate any advice and information you can provide. Thanks!