Im a bit surprised to be here today. My wife and I are a plan straight heterosexual couple with (teenage) kids living your basic busy suburban lifestyle. My wife is very vanilla and has a lower sex drive then me. I think our issues are probably an old story. A bit too busy to give our relationship the time it deservers, a bit of neglect, and before long Im on a cycle where Im taking care of myself more and more. (The internet is for porn). Being so vanilla, it was difficult to introduce a CB (using a 6000) but I really needed my wife back. I felt like I needed help stopping the cycle I had fallen into, and I also desired for her to take some (hopefully positive) steps with our relationship. I have never really viewed myself as a submissive, or my wife as a Dom. I (believe) I would be willing to give up control if it will help us. And I thought there was a small possibility my wife might like to be in control. She has subtly used her charms to successfully curtail, or outright make impossible, most of the kinky things I have periodically wanted to try (which I have found frustrating). Well she didnt really understand or take to the CB affair. The last 6 months have been a hellish rollercoaster ride. The last fight was bad and she finally, too my surprise, read one of the resources I had pointed her at. (Yes, up until this point she had consulted any adult material). That night she told me she read the web site I pointed her at and asked a few questions, like do you really want to be locked up at night? and you know this says Im supposed to let you have only 1 orgasm a week. She then asked me to rescue the CB and to give her the key, and that from what she read this was supposed to be about her getting pleased and enjoying this and thats what was going to happen. Its not been a week yet, but its like a switch has been flipped. She has me lock up every morning before work (and she checks), teased a few times telling me Im not going to get released or that she read I should take care of her while being locked up, and this morning after I was locked thats exactly what she did! I know its not a lot by the standards here, but its been 3 days and after this morning Im ready to burst. I have to stay fully busy. Whenever theres a down moment my dick begs for attention and its driving me crazy, or maybe desperate is a better word. My lovely wife has not kept my locked over night yet, but I doubt I can be trusted tonight. I have to tell her I just hope I can do that without making she doesnt get upset.