Quesiton About Ruin Orgasm

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    Hi , I have a question about ruin orgasm
    so from my research about ruined one, its really on the close edge, then cum without any contact
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    although its cumming, but use "strong grab" to obstacle normal process, to reduce the satisfaction to keep hard
    but what if my KH keep tease and playing her dick which on my body
    and told me I can't cum, so I have to keep trying to "hold it" on myself, and told KH to pause if I'm almost climax
    if I fail to let sperm come out, does it still count as "ruined one" ?
    because from I read about ruined one, the sperm will "ooz out"
    but for me, if I failed to hold off in the end, the sperm will just emission, I wonder does it still "ruined one"?
    thx for your kindly answer in advance
     
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    hmm... is there no one can share there answer for me?
     
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    If the cum flow out without pleasure, if it's not satisfying and left you more frustrated then yes it's a ruined one.
    You still didn't follow her order to not cum, so she may want to punish you.
     
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    It doesn’t matter if it oozes out or spurts out, it’s a ruined orgasm if you had no sensation or pleasure when it happened, it should feel very similar to urinating.
     
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    I think it varies somewhat with each person. The key to me, being the lack of complete satisfaction and a disrupted normal orgasm.
     
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    if there is no ejaculation of semen it is not a ruined orgasm, as there has been no orgasm to ruin.
     
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    For me, a ruined orgasm is when my Wife(KH) bring me right to the edge. I have to tell her when I'm almost ready to cum. She then stops all contact with my penis. Sometimes I will just twitch five or six times and a small amount of cum will escape, other times I will shoot a big load and it's a good release. Ruined or not, for the 10 seconds it takes for the orgasm, it feels good, then right back in the cage. Not much time to enjoy it. 10 seconds every 20-30 days, you learn to enjoy it...
     
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    I've been told to ruin an orgasm while KH watches. She unlocks me and I edge a few times to build up to it. Once it's strong enough I slowly come up to the final edge and then stop. Usually a large load dribble out but I get no contractions and don't experience the usual post-orgasm drop. I'm then required to clean up by eating the cum. I've actually learned to really like it and often crave it. I'm then locked back up, of course.
     
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    thanks for share the link, I'll read it after

    and thx to all of you who share their thought
    last time from edge session, I got some semen ooze out, that's tough one to hold it
    I didn't get much pleasure like normal orgasm
    according other article I have read, penis should stay hard if it's been ruined
    but penis got limp after instead stay hard, I guess I failed that one
     
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    This is exactly what we do as well.
     
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    This is the best summary of what we also do. The psychological aspect of getting conditioned in craving cum only adds to the humiliation :)
     
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    When my wife wants to be wicked and prove a point, she takes me right to the edge and stops before I even get to experience a ruined orgasm. She will play with my balls and lick my shaft between the bars, sometimes even sliding her lips down the outside of the cage. When my balls tighten and my breathing changes, she know I am close and stops just short of my fist pulse. I am left frustrated, but do enjoy the stimulation she used to get me to that point.
     
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