My jailbird fits like a glove. When I put it on the first time, I used the medium spiked punishment pin. I don't feel it anymore when the penis is flaccid, it hurts like hell when erect, leaves purple spots on the skin, but doesn't wound it. My wife wanted some options and ordered a long criss cross pin. Her view: it's longer, scratches the skin and is therefore the most painful option My view: it scratches the skin with the risk of not being able to use pins or the jailbird at all for healing. If she wants me to wear it permanently, criss cross is not the way to go She thinks a large criss cross inflicts more pain than a medium spike. I think that if increasing the pain is her objective, the large spike is the best option. The large criss cross might even be less painful than the medium spike. Who is right? This is not a matter of power or who's in charge or who should obey, it is about decision making.
Speaking from experience, the criss cross and pointed, but not sharply, pins are terrible for long term wear. The pain is indeed greater but if worn for long periods of time they WILL wear through the skin requiring weeks of of being unlocked and healing. Stay with the dullest tipped pins for "long" term lock-ups. Good luck.
My lady had me order all 9 pins just so sge had options but ive never worn one more then a week abd was getting raw
My have been a blessing, short pins not to overly bad but the med and long ones can really hurt especially when your key holder takes you to strip club with one in.
My jb was too short to order the pins but anything that irritates the skin will eventually make you remove the cage for healing. NEEDING to remove a cage is an epic fail in my book, so I vote for no pins for daily wear, and a painful one for "fun" teasing and activities and removing it right after. Any way to incorporate it in without doing damage and needing to be cage free to heal.
I have found that anything under a day or two dosent do and harm, anything longer and i start to have problems