CRIME AND PUNISHMENT So she told me AFTER I had licked her to orgasm (while I was still caged of course) that I was to remain caged. It was punishment for some bad behavior. This meant she had decided she would do some “out of cage” stuff with me (likely NOT an orgasm, but of course I never know). So she was letting me know that my behavior had messed up what I was going to get. I really did feel bad about my behavior and was sad I caused her some grief. She did give me a little chemical bump with the hitachi magic wand on the outside if the cage. She doesn’t usually punish me. She has been very uncomfortable and hesitant to punish me in the past. It’s still a new concept. However I need the help. Thats why I put her in charge of the key so she would have some real leverage. Now she is starting to use it (finally!) I asked her if it was hard for her to punish me and she said “no, it was really easy”. We both laughed. I am so glad she is helping me be better for her. I really loved her doing this. So helpful. Its hard to admit you need help sometimes. Giving someone else all your rights to sexual pleasure is difficult as well. However its amazing leverage for change. If you trust someone as much as I trust my wife, then try it. https://iluvzitwhenshe.tumblr.com/post/163858695605/crime-and-punishment-so-she-told-me-after-i-had