Pro-Tips for a perfectly ruined orgasm

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    Life means always learning.
    My start:
    - better stop 10x too early than once too late
    - it should pour, not spurt
    -better not touch the glans at all (not a must)
    Your turn
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    Agreed. That’s a good list.
    Don’t clench down your muscles.
    Let go. Hold open.
    Don’t try to spill. Just let it pour.
    A perfect ruin keeps you hard (or harder) afterwards. There’s zero drop. Just relief.
    My wife became an expert and perfected her ruined orgasms.
    Any hint of a twitch is considered an orgasm.

    “No twitching” she tells me. “No twitching.”

    It doesn’t matter if my orgasm is confusing, or little and quiet, or weird, or hands free, or caged. If I twitch, that’s an orgasm to her.

    My keyholding wife would focus on just my underside. Never gripping. Never stroking. Just teasing my magic spot behind my PA piercing, my frenulum, or frenum as I call it.

    The slightest pressure against that magic spot will cause me to go over the edge when I’m erect and my skin is taut. When I’m in my cage I can’t stretch out and get that feeling.

    Regardless, we added a guard rod over that part in my open-style cage, as my sensitivity only increased since 2014 when we started all this.

    Perfect ruins pour. Perfect ruins leave you hard. No stroking is needed. Gentle touches and long teases work.

    You should be grateful for the relief and the erection. ;)
     
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    :)

    Sounds great! Our wives could team up maybe and start some kind of workshop out there :)
     
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    All my ruined orgasms are by accident. I rub little willy on her pussy and ass and when I feel like I might cum, I stop and lick her pussy and ass, and I just go back and forth till I can't take it any more. She usually feels a lot of pre cum and tells me to stop. Sometimes I stop and 6 or 7 seconds later cum just dribbles out. It's best if I don't feel any pleasure because I remain very horny.
     
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    I agree, much better to stop to soon than to late!
     
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    I ruined myself by accident against Miss' thigh the other night. I figured she would get mad, because ejaculations were strictly off the table. Turned out she just laughed at me, told me to clean up my mess, and went to sleep. She teased me about it for 3 days. I was mad at first but it was kinda funny later lol
     
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    @ray-69 and @Peter Rabbit

    I suspect your guidelines are for ruined orgasms while out of your device.

    I don't claim to be an authority on the subject, but feel I am very proficient at achieving the desired "pour" results (I usually use the term "dribble") . Your keyholders must be very keen to your "tells" which I believe is a key to being successful.

    Admittedly, recently I have been almost obsessed with ruining PK's orgasms while he is still in his device. This has been more difficult and complicated than I had anticipated. After nearly 2 months of training him using a Hitachi Magic Wand I still have not accomplished the desired "pour" effect. However he has not reached a full orgasm either. I just can not get him to that brink. Maybe it will just take more training or when his balls get to that overfull state they will give up his precious liquid. Not that this has been a total bust. It has produced some incredible edging sessions that leave him almost paralyzed and me giggling.

    Would either of you (or anyone for that matter) have any advice or technique on how I may reach my goal of that perfect pour while caged.
     
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    Ma’am,

    Litigators are apex predators. Being in the same room with you is like being stalked by a tiger in the jungle.
     
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    We tried for a caged ruined orgasm. But it wasn’t perfect.

    I was able to throb and pulse against the cage bars. As such, even though I was untouched otherwise as I started, I got some pressure just from being confined. I then twitched and got softer.

    It took so much more effort to get me to that point.

    I don’t have advice on a causing a perfect ruined orgasm in chastity.

    I’ve had spontaneous emissions where I’ve “dribbled” and then literally poured out the contents of my pent up prostate. But it wasn’t even a ruined orgasm. I wasn’t erect. I was floppy and flaccid. I was mentally stimulated but long denied.

    My wife may not try to cause them physically but just verbally and mentally let me know I can pour out suddenly at any time. It happened last summer and this summer once as well.

    I think a completely untouched erection and a good boy who doesn’t try to clench down make it easier to achieve a perfect ruin.

    If we do get there I’ll let you know.

    ...

    Oh and by the way, my wife doesn’t mind being “evil” either. But we borrow a phrase from StrongBad

    “Do you use your powers for Good or Awesome?”

    My wife chose Awesome. ;)
     
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    I'll have to think on that while I sharpen my claws. ;)
     
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    I appreciate your insightful reply. Like the other saying goes...Practice, Practice, Practice

    Love the phrase....I chose Awesome also ;)

    And...Do you know why basketball players are poor lovers? They dribble before they shoot. Okay...my pitiful attempt at humor.:eek:
     
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    Hi Ms
    since i am mostly on the honour system without cage i had not so many experiences with caged ruins. Depending on the cage design, it might be also difficult to distinguish the „pours“ from the „spurts“. What definitely helps is some anal stimulation and a lot of patience :)
    Cheers
    ray69
     
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