so @Nicoftime had mentioned this in a post a while back but I’m bringing it back up. Kind of because I’m bored and kind of because I’m annoyed. I’ve found I’ll randomly get messaged through private chat, we’ll make small talk and then the conversation inevitably turns towards chastity which obviously it would as that’s the one thing we know we have in common. But I notice a common theme with the initiators of the conversation, they start listing off their chastity resume and hard core things things they do with their Kh which immediately sends up red flags and tells me they’re full of shit. I’m not saying I don’t believe these things happen between some couples but I always find it funny that these people seek out others to talk about their so called cuckold and way over the top femdom relationships and then volunteer/ bombard you with what I’m now sure is their fantasy. What are they looking for out of these conversations? I’m generally a pretty trusting person so initially I’ll take you for your word but then I feel like and idiot for buying into the bs. So whats the appeal/benefit about making up a fantasy and telling it to some random, anonymous guy that you’ll never meet? Am I supposed to be impressed!? Why is that worth your time? It’s not worth mine...
I haven't had too many people spreading fantasy bullshit in DMs but I've had a few conversations with people that turned into unprompted penis pictures or them asking me for ones of my own. I'm not sure if that is better or worse.
Seriously!? They send you penis pics and then want yours!!!! Who are these people? I’d definitely be way more put off by being sent a random penis pic over being told that their wife’s daddy puts them in panties. Makes me afraid to click on the chat window when I see it pop up lol.
I've never opened a conversation to a surprise penis picture, but I've discussed cages with people and that has resulted in unprompted penis pictures. I've had someone randomly ask me if I cross dressed or wanted to be feminized. I said "That's not really my fantasy." They then asked what IS my fantasy. I blocked them. That's not something I share with people I've never really interacted with. I know we are on the internet and things are largely anonymous, but that's a level of sharing I'm not comfortable with.
I know what you mean, I know this is all (hopefully) anonymous but some of the personal questions can be a bit much. Again it’s under the assumption that nobody knows who anybody is but I would like to think of chat as a way to get to know others in a more personal way versus just on the open forum. I’ll look at these people’s profiles sometimes during or after the chat and I’m surprised to see that the majority of the time they have never posted any messages or contributed to the website in anyway. Just makes me wonder if they’re masturbating to the conversation lol.
Great post, maybe some of the posers will read it and just go away. At some level, I just feel sorry for them.
I wouldn’t be surprised, I’m sure those in question contact multiple people via chat to see who bites and then proceed talking about their fantasies like they are real just for the sake a living human believing them for a 1/2 second.
Yes, this will be the case more often than not when people message you out of the blue. And yes, they are probably masturbating as they go along. I mostly ignore PMs for this reason.
Oh yes, know it well. Starts off with good evening then within 2 more messages turns to how horny they are and what they have been doing with their partner. Then most often asking what I do with @lockit When I answer that I don't talk about that I normally get more of their information. Or I used to. Nowadays, pretty much as soon as they start telling me about their chastity I end the conversation. That was pretty much why I started doing pro Domme sessions. If someone was going to use me for wank fodder, they could damm well pay for it lol.
I apologize for my fellow subs as well as myself for being tedious. I hope I am making progress but it's clear to me that newly locked mails can be very narrow minded. Thank you for your patience and for continuing to contribute here at the mansion. We are all better for it!
I have had the experience of someone pretending to be new to with a fictional backstory of "my roommate thinks I should try this, and she bought me a cage..." as a ploy to probably send me a pic....I became obvious and I cut it off before it came to that. Or in another case just being for lack of better term, being hit on. Definitely not what I am in this community for....
Sites like this try very hard to be sources of real information and open communication. But like so much of the Internet, it's seen by a majority as a tub of ice cream; they dip a finger in and have a small taste, then another, then another. Eventually they've got a tablespoon and are gulping it down just to the point of brain freeze. As I've stated in the past, it's really all about them; you're just a means to an end as far as they're concerned. Because I'm somewhat of a curmudgeon, I don't have to worry about getting messaged. But because of the majority of self-centered buffoons on almost any site, I don't reach out to people I find intelligent and/or interesting precisely because of the stigma of contacting someone out of the blue.
Sounds like there might be some humbug, forgery and voluntary misstatement in this www? I am shocked!!! Have been shown Penis-Pics of all sizes, colours and pulchritude (or the lack of it) without asking for that (not that anyone would wait for me to do so). And: yeah, it made me angry in the beginning! Then I started to hose those (what a fine rhime ) and things definetely changed. Of course there were a few who even liked to get their balls busted (so one needs to change tactics then), but in the end more often than not I went to sleep with a steady grin on my face and the unsolicited pics got less and less. So the conclusion might be: don't take idiots too serious!
I haven't personally experienced this yet... but, I figured it would come up.... Thanks for asking! Learned a lot from this post! Ya'll are awesome!
I just ignore everyone in the chat. If they want to talk with me they can use the conversation function. I ain't got time for stuff like that.
Ironically yes, after I figure out what’s really going on I feel like I’m being masturbated at through conversation and as stupid as this might sound I feel used and slightly taken advantage of. It’s moreso my trusting nature that feels taken advantage of. So I realize this is just a very small sample of what you ladies go through.... and I’m sorry for that, some of us guys just kind of suck sometimes.
Normally on here like so many websites one has to take everything they hear with a grain of salt. Because most if not all would be dead or close to it if they were trying have the stuff they claim to have done or had done to them. I believe my other male submissive/slaves have this extream porno that runs through there head thinking oh I can do that! Mistress and I have had the Honor of witnessing some great play and scenes in our travels throughout the BDSM/ Leather/ Cuckold events across the Country and Canada. Some of the stuff I have seen in chat and private chat has us both shaking our head anyway good post thank you for sharing.