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    Question for those of you that are frequent pegging participants.

    Do you have a typical routine that you follow prior to a pegging session? Ya know .. to clean yourself out so that there are not as many messy outcomes?

    My wife and I have enjoyed pegging but she really does not like the sight or smell of the messy stuff, and well .... I really don't either. I think we could do it a lot more if it wasn't such a chore to clean up afterwards.

    Seems like diet could play quite the role in this as well?

    What methods do you use and which methods would you recommend that we stay away from?

    Thanks for suggestions and ideas :)

    Brian
     
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    I don't know about others, but I just do a couple clean outs with a doushe..fill it with warm water and I use hemroid cream to lube the nozzel. It can leak as you push it in so I stand in the shower then pull out and move to toilet..usally 2 times is enough for me.
     
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    The fact that "it's such a chore to clean up afterwards" kind of says it all. If you haven't fasted for a good period of time, then you need to clean yourself out(enema) before pegging or anything else anal for that matter. Cleaning your dildos and toys should be your biggest worry when your done. Hopefully, cleaning yourself up will be minimal. Then you all might find things a bit more appealing.
     
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    Thanks for the quick replies .... have you found a particular douche or enema product to be better than another?
     
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    You can buy these things as disposable one time use items from the pharmacy or you can buy reusable equipment for more money on line.
     
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    Fleet makes a quickie disposable enema bottle that more than does the job for anything shorter than a nightstick. Mistress will be happy and the pegging will be smoother and much more satisfying.
     
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    Ha .. that should pretty much take care of anything we have in the "fun box" lol thanks :)
     
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    I used to use the Fleet and the store brand disposable clones. They were ok. When I got a bulb device that you fill with water it was much nicer and I haven't had to buy a disosable since.

    The Fleets etc work ok, but I found the fluid harder on my system than water in the bulb. For me it's just a more enjoyable experience as my body doesn't seem to fight it like the Fleet etc. I've also done full on enema bags but they're not needed for anal play. So imho they're a bit of a hassle for just a cleaning.

    In my case I flush with the bulb (or Fleet) wait a bit then do a second time. I don't know about others but I like to be really clean.

    My suggestion would be to shop around for one of the bulbs and see if you like them better as they're not expensive. If so, you'll save some money and enjoy cleaning better. If not, you're not losing much and have a backup in case you run out of disposables.
     
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    Going through the whole prep thing isn't really possible if you want to be spontaneous. Myself and my wife don't usually prep, and as long as there isn't a #2 waiting to come out, or the last #2 was of a glue like consistency, then there is usually minimal mess. I was once made to suck the strap-on clean afterwards though - that was a little bit degrading!
     
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    My wife uses pegging for two purposes: to satisfy my need to be penetrated after decades of being a bottom for men and to reinforce her absolute control over me and my unquestioned submission to her. A man is never more vulnerable than when he is spreading his cheeks wide with his face in the pillow.
     
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    We have been into pegging for about 18 years. Initially I would prep with a full-blown enema but found that it had to be done ages before to allow for water absorption. Even then it was not perfect (due to some drain down I guess). Since we never use dildos so long they go beyond the top of the rectum we found that a repeated douche of about 150ml (perhaps 10 times) expelling each time works very well. Pushing 150ml of air in and expelling a few times is a noisy but reliable way to dry out and be ready for immediate action.

    I finish by putting in a mix of 5ml of Liquid silk lube and 2ml of Pjur Original silicone lube. The Liquid Silk is very slick and makes insertion easy and delightful and the silicone is very long-lasting making re-lubes unnecessary even during long sessions.
     
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    Thanks for the great info everybody ..... very helpful :)
     
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    I attended a group meeting where a man fisted his boi.
    He said he had the boi fast for 48 hours.
     
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    My wife/KH is very spontaneous so we don't prep unless it is a part of the scene she has created in her mind. Last night as an example she was pleased with how well I took care of her so she decided to take my sissy ass and have her way with it until I came.
     
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    I'm a switch and I like it up the butt. I do not like to smell ass at all.

    I have a bidet.
    Prior to anal play I'll position myself so i'm over the bidet stream and let it gently flow in.
    I've got good control over my sphincters so I just open up and let it flow in.
    Once I feel that full rectum feeling I turn it off and let it flow back out.
    I don't hold it in there. I don't want to start a colon cleanse just wash out the rectum.
    Repeat until the water coming out is clear.

    I've also seen squirty shower attachments that will clean you right out if you aren't as good at opening your butt as I am.

    BE SUPER CAREFUL WITH WATER TEMP YOU WON'T FEEL BURNS INSIDE OF YOU.

    You can do the same thing with an enema bulb but if you start to get runny smelly shit you've started the process of cleaning the entire bowel not just the rectum. Bowel cleaning is tedious unless you just really like giving yourself enemas over and over. Buttttt... you can have your ass used for like half a day with no mess afterwards.

    Hope this was helpful
     
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    Mistress makes my use of the Fleet enema part of my humiliation involved in getting pegged.
     
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    Member: 38474"]Mistress makes my use of the Fleet enema part of my humiliation involved in getting pegged.[/QUOTE]
    My wife does as well. I must admit, it is rather pleasant and it makes the pegging a lot easier.
     
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    I don't peg, but I bottom with men, and before I'm with a man, I douche with one of those 'disposable' douching bottles from the pharmacy. They are perfectly safe to reuse, unless you don't clean it or something. I usually do 3 or 4 bottles of warm tap water, until the water comes out mostly clean, then I wash the douche nozzle, make sure the bottle is empty, put it back in my shaving kit, and shower to clean myself up. I don't pre-lube, because letting a man apply the lube is erotic. Also, sometimes a man wants more or less lube on my ass. I like to give men I'm with that option.
     
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    Are you married, Chaste? If so, I'm envious that you're still permitted to have cocks inside of you. That's what caused my marital crisis and forced me to choose between my wife and a blissful lifetime of being a bottom. In my day douching was considered silly. Most of the tops in the bathhouses wanted the resistance that accompanied a full bowel and rather enjoyed seeing their cock come out browned. That said, i began douching once I became addicted to black cock. Needed to make ample room, you know.
     
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    I'm not married, but my GF and I have an open/poly relationship. We let each other date and hook up with others. Sometimes we go to swingers clubs together, sometimes I go to a dark room without her. We always tell each other everything and use protection with others, but we don't need to ask each other permission to be with others, or anything like that. I've never been cuckolded, but we might experiment with that someday.

    I've heard stories from people who didn't douche, in the NYC bath house scene, pre-stonewall. I think things have changed since then. I grew up in the 90s, and I just kinda always accepted that bottoms douche. That's just how I have always done it. The first man I was ever with told me to douche first, and I've just always douched since then. I think most guys douche nowadays. If I'm in a relationship with a man, I douche daily.
     
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    A commendable sign of progress, indeed. I became a bottom by accident. Went to a Jacksonville gay bar in 1971 out of curiosity. Ended up with a twink pumping me bareback in his apartment. Didn't know what I didn't know. Sounds like you and GF have a lovely understanding.
     
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    Shower enimas for me, normally have to do a good 4 flushed on a good day, sometimes more like 6 or 7 on a bad. I Like to be completely clean, not a fan of the code brown myself...
     
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    On a side note, you folks in America might not know of the "Toyota Emina", it was a 1990's toyota previa minivan sub model, goodness knows why they chose the name Emina... But suffice it to say, evey time I see one I have to have a wee giggle like a school boy! I do intend to vandilise one at some point in the future by swapping the M and N around!
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toyota_Previa#/media/File:1996-1999_Toyota_Estima_Emina.jpg
     
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