Post Coital Dysmorphia

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Do you suffer from Post Coital Dysmorphia, or sadness and irritability after an orgasm?

  1. Never

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  2. Sometimes

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    Please take a moment to take this poll.
     
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    Pretty much every time I feel very depressed and grumpy after orgasm, sometimes it lasts hours, sometimes days.

    Perhaps 1 in 10 times I also get these incredible crippling headaches that can last for several hours after orgasm, sometimes they are terrifyingly painful.
     
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    As asked -- "or sadness and irritability" -- my answer is no. I always have some sadness after, usually a few hours later when I realize I face those initial weeks in my cage before that warm accepting subspace returns. But it's not accompanied by irritability as I'm so thankful for her grace and her gift.
     
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    For me, I have noticed that there is absolutely a "drop" after Orgasm.
    For several days or even weeks after I have an Orgasm I feel different (usually not in a good way)
    Sometimes this manifests as grumpiness/irritability
    Other times I feel like it effects my motivation and ability to focus.
    I am almost never happier after an orgasm than before (depends on the context of the Orgasm).
    I can go from walking around in a blissful cloud to being borderline depressed for days.
    I credit practising chastity with helping me understand this connection.
    I credit understanding this connection with being able to (finally) break my masturbation habit.
     
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    YES!@#£% Who's f@#£%g asking? And just earnt 20 days in the cage minimum.
     
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    For all who say you feel worse after an orgasm, I have 2 serious questions

    1. Was this the case since you first started experiencing orgasms, or did that start after something (age, injury, medication, etc)?

    2. Do you feel the same after non orgasmic ejaculation? Whether nocturnal, milking, etc
     
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    Classic!
     
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    It comes as part and parcel of the orgasm denial. Before chastity I was never on a high, so the low was imperceptible. Only now is it so obvious.
     
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    I feel like that a bit after a full orgasm after a period in chastity (for me they are much shorter than what I can see here, like 10 days is a stretch hahaha), however a ruined keeps me in the subspace quite well... Especially if it comes with some humiliation.
     
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    The timing of the post was serendipitous. I meant every mother f#£%&g word. She's never done that in an argument. I just shrugged and smiled, and pissed her off more. I tried not to smile but I was so proud of her.
     
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    I often used to feel a sort of melancholy after masturbation, mildly if it was a quick tug in the bathroom but much more intensely following porn consumption. I've been locked 24/7 since June now and only cum maybe once a fortnight. When I do orgasm it's extremely intense and I'm blissful afterwards, very grateful to my KH for allowing me one too. I don't have any sort of irritability or subdrop afterwards.
     
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    I suffer from sub drop after a orgasm, this is why my madam decided I shouldn’t be allowed them.
     
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    If I experienced what is being described, I’d see a doctor or two or ten before trying to solve this with chastity. But to each his own.
     
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    #14 Colton27, Nov 27, 2022
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    Those symptoms just described me. I was drawn to CM for the kink and have remained out of medical necessity.
     
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    I have. There's "nothing wrong with me." The male-controlled medical hierarchy is terrified of male chastity as a holistic aporoach, even after traditional treatments have been found to be ineffective.
     
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    So you have a medical diagnosis of Post Coital Dysmorphia. But, in the field of sexual dysfunction (a field dominated by women), also a field where holistic approach’s are on par with medical approaches, the Doctor’s are terrified of male chastity. We’ll damn the Patriarchy!
     
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    They do this one. Try bringing it up with a doctor sometime.
     
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    Oh, and departmental management is not dominated by women. It is, however, partially responsible for setting policy and the allocation of research resources. Yes, damn the patriarchy.
     
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    I do get annoyed every time I cum, because it takes days to get back to that euphoric state. I'd prefer total denial, but my partner enjoys seeing me lose my shit and explode all over so I comply.
     
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    Prior to chastity my highs weren't very high so my lows didn't seem to have a huge change after orgasm. I would masturbate twice a week and have sex with her once a week (maybe twice) which meant there wasn't much time to build desire. If there is an itch, you scratch it. When you are horny and wanting for 1-2 months, the orgasm afterwards is earth-shaking and I usually feel it in my spine.

    The issue that I have then is that all of the build up and anticipation, the constant desire to be near her, touch her or have her touch me just crashes. I can't help but feel that my orgasm is a failure and I've ruined a good thing.

    She insists that I get relief at regular intervals but those intervals have been getting wider. I think I might be ready for an orgasm every six months with proper teasing in the interim. It is a much happier world for me.
     
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    Yup, so much this. The crash afterward just makes orgasm an undesirable thing to me. Kinda funny I ever think this considering how high my libido is and how often I used to masturbate lol.
     
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    Have you check with the Docs about these headaches. They sometimes can be "Thunderclap Headaches", which possibly came from a brain haemorage (could be a small capillary bursting...or worse). When I got one of these post-orgasm headaches, they sent me for a brain contrast CT Scan to confirm I had not bled in the skull!
     
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    Thank you, I did. Apparently it's a mystery.
     
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