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    The other night in bed my wife casually asked if we had any adult DVDs we could watch other than a very cheesy and about 15 years old copy of “the joy of sex”. She asked if there was such a thing as classy porn...

    Any recommendations?? :confused:

    Before anybody asks the obvious - what is she into? My wife is very ‘vanilla’ and I don’t believe has ever actually watched porn per se! :rolleyes:
     
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    Did you watch any of the 50 shades of grey movie series. That might be a good easy way to start
     
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    Just listened to a podcast on this subject. Anything by Jackie St. James or bellesa house would be a good start. They are porn companies created by women and have rave reviews. Especially Jackie St James
     
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    I’d completely forgotten - my wife has actually read the books!! From what I remember, the films aren’t up to much?
     
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    They were not up to much but I was thinking a soft way to introduce some stuff. And you can let her know that it is also things that she can do to you
     
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    Can you advise any movie that might help to introduce or encourage to try chastity? I would like to watch something like that with my vanilla wife. Might be something from a 'porn for women' type.
    Do you know any of such movies? Rather something subtle or sophisticated, hard femdom doesn't count.
     
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    Almost every single porn I have ever watched involving chastity are completely far fetched. They are made for men and they usually involve one or more of the following, humiliation, extreme cuckolding usually with bisexual behavior and/or cum clean ups, heavy femdom, sissification and sometimes mix in some CBT. I am sure many people in chastity are into those things, however I would venture a guess your vanilla wife will run away and hide from it.


    I have seen some really good amateur stuff on porn hub though. Many are married couples and they do some tease and denying, so ruined orgasms, some sensual stuff that is not that bad.....The professional porn involving chastity is almost all scary, especially to a vanilla person.
     
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    Like Jack said: forget about every movie that might includes chastity. 99.99% is some awkward fantasy rubbish that has nothing to do with real life chastity - and even those few amateur movies that are ok are not made to give a wider perspective.

    As for the original question - even if it is someehat older: You should ask your wife what she considders "classy porn".

    If 50 Shades of Grey are an option you might look for " A room in Rome"( great movie) or "Eyes wide shut". The last one is somewhat darker though and even as it is a movie everyone should know it would not be my first choice for an happy / easy evening.

    If you are looking for something funny (not romatic or sexy) about relationship, BDSM and sex you might considder secretary.

    If it is rather about real porn you might find classics like Emanuelle etc in the web. Alternatively look for female made porn.

    One rather mainstream recommendation though: "Not married with children"1&2. Personally I would say those are porn movies you should watch due to their stories and not due to their porn scenes (which I did not like). ;)
     
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    Thank you for your suggestions. We've seen 50 Shades of Grey and my wife liked it a lot. Yet I'll look for 'A room in Rome'. Actually I was thinking about something that help introduce chastity without all that bdsm femdom stuff and other kinks. Something that showes male chastity as something fun, exciting, and obviously normal. And again as you said - most of movies that include chastity are made for men, by men, having cuckolding, humiliation, sissification into the bargain.
    I was looking for something that is closer to a real life experiences but I'm afraid it will be hard to find something like that :(
     
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    My wife used to send me a few good ones. They tended to be ones that fit her view as a successful businesswoman. That a husband's dick justs gets in the way and its better to cage it away and forget any notion of him getting to use it on her (his wife). To leave her free to get on with her career (and her sex life). They tended to be simple vanilla stock pictures of groups of businesswomen with captions put under them.

    I found these more realistic and hot for the notion that in a not too idealised world it could be seen as possible. That successful career women see a devoted hubby more as a useful domestic sub with zero sexual agency of his own to demand.
     
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    "She asked if there was such a thing as classy porn..."

    Sure there is. But that's such a subjective definition so I won't comment on that.

    I paid for access to "Mayas Handjobs" for quite some time and enjoyed every film the couple created.

    The storyline of the clips is usually quite simple: Maya gives a HJ / BJ for his hubby or boyfriend, he has an orgasm. Or two. Or three. Or four.

    Or Maya rides his man or whatnot.

    The key point is however that Maya seems to enjoy being the loving and dominant one. The couple has made maybe a thousand video clips over a period of many years.

    Some of the clips are accessible free from well known adult sites (pornhub and such) but Maya has her pay site, which I strongly recommend, if one enjoys the idea of dominant woman having fun with her man whenever and however she wants (which, I'd guess, might be quite common around here ;)

    Maya has some DVD compilations for sale as well, but purchasing them would have required quite a lot of money so I have skipped.

    I wanted to mention that everything has worked just fine with Mayas Handjobs: credit card billing, tech, and finally ending the subscription.

    Classy? The classiness is in the eye of the keyholder.
     
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    There is a porn called "women on top", its a sort of parody if you will on extreme role reversal (guests for dinner, husbands in the kitchen doing all the work, wives sitting talking shit and drinking beer etc). Was a DVD released early 2000's I think.

    Was one of the few Mrs Sen has watched, she got quite a laugh out of it
     
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    Erika Lust and her european-based website https://xconfessions.com/ is something where one could find porn made by women and inspiring for women. No men’s perspective, many films attractive aestetically.
     
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    Yes @PawEee, I fully agree. I already saw some of them and they really look quite decent. Unfortunately I haven't seen any chastity related stories three, but perhaps I missed something...
     
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    Velvet Veronica does a lot of chastity, tease and denial videos, but it is pretty tame married couple stuff.
     
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    IRRC they receive the ideas for the films from their customers.

    Maybe there could be something brewing here... Someone could join and ask them to do a movie with class and chastity :)
     
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    Point/counterpoint here but I tend to filter really nasty porn out as well, but not all chastity (and in my case, sissy) porn is disgusting and/or disgusting/ridiculous/over the top. Some depicts the act in a very raw or extreme way without getting too crazy, and for my Goddess, paints a very specific picture.

    I would suggest that a lady who already is involved in the chastity spectrum with someone else can handle things a lot more intense that sweet lovemaking and couple videos. Don't be too afraid to challenge her a little.

    I tend to watch it through first, but ladies are smart and understand things a notch or two above the basics, and if she knows about you already, it can play in. I always tend to push the envelope a little.

    M.
     
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