Porn in Chastity

It depends in the dynamic that's brought you to chastity. For some (Miss Lucy, for example) a big part of chastity is about curtailing masturbation.

For others, there is an element of teasing and provoking.

Whatever your primary reason is, I guess

 

I never enjoyed porn and didnt pay much attention to this post in the past. But she relocked me just before Christmas, teased the heck out of me, and now is overseas for a week. Suddenly I feel a huge need to view porn (chastity related especially). It seems to be settling my sex-dessert anxiety, but it is just making me think of her even more. Strange.

 

I never enjoyed porn and didnt pay much attention to this post in the past. But she relocked me just before Christmas, teased the heck out of me, and now is overseas for a week. Suddenly I feel a huge need to view porn (chastity related especially). It seems to be calming my sex-desert anxiety, but it is just making me think of her even more. Strange.

 

I do it all the time! It makes chastity that much more frustrating.

 

Porn is okay, but personally I prefer reading good erotica. It has the similar effects for me as described by other posters who like watching porn to get more aroused and to heighten the feelings of frustration. It’s all good I reckon.

 

I like watching porn, even without masturbating. Sometimes I do it to enjoy the director's work and how passionate the actors are. And sometimes as enlightening content, I learn a lot through porn, especially about sexuality. Sometimes I like someone to shame me for watching porn. I use escorts in London to do this. One of the girls calls me dirty and disgusting when I watch porn, it makes me feel pathetic, but it also turns me on. Sometimes her punishments are not just verbal, but physical. I'm glad I could share this, I don't think many friends would have ever understood me.

 

Same for my husband. If I find out he's been looking at pornography, he gets chastity then humbled and a VERY sore bottom.

 

Yes. Pornhub helps to keep me amped during my wife's down time and it's usually interracial cuckold porn I watch. Home made is better for me.

 

When I decree supervised masturbation for husband, often I'll make him do it to category of pornography he doesn't like. This makes room for all sorts of humiliation, especially if there are witnesses.

Usually it's gay or lesbian pornography. Imagine that, a guy who doesn't like lesbian pornography, but husband never has. I don't have him do it to scat or anything like that, because ....just no..... not for me .

I've never asked him, but something tells me he wouldn't like interracial cuckold pornography. Thanks for the suggestion.

 

I like your flavour of sadism!

 

I do not.

Porn is what lead me to my Masterbation addiction. I do not want to be tempted. I really do not to go back to my old selfish ways. I am starting to like the new me.

Iso.

 

The longer I am locked the more perverse I become, and as such the more porn I watch, as well as frequent this site.

Mistress doesnt really mind as long as I don't pressure her for release which is a big mistake if I do so I just don't.

Never traditional sex though, I cant stand watching straight porn, usually its femdom related....sometimes I enjoy watching a woman being dominated (must be my fading switch side still lingering), but 90% would be chastity, pegging, hands free cumming, medical, emasculation and cuckhold related.

Although mistress would never cuck me, and I probably would not want her too...but she cucks me with me wearing a strapon for her sorta kinda. Cuckholding is one of those things that I like watching but never would actually want to do.

I love the almost dizzy feeling I get when I am so horny and cant do anything about it...

 

One thing I forgot to mention is sometimes I'll let him have a supervised viewing of pornography he does like. I put the Points of Intrigue in his CB-6000, secure him to a chair and turn on the pornography.

It's a disciplinary tool for me . He's usually begging me pretty fast to turn it off. Of course I say "I thought you liked pornography. That's what you told me when we first started dating". (He actually did tell me that when we first started dating). Then I make him admit I told him I don't permit him to look at pornography and make him admit he disobeyed me. (I don't permit him to look at pornography except under my supervision. It's the most frequent transgression he gets disciplined for.). Then I make him admit he deserves to be disciplined. "OK, since you admit you deserve to be disciplined and this is the discipline I've decreed, I think I 'll leave it on a while".

 

meh...porn doesn't do anything for me...caged or otherwise

 

I'm very similar to @cogman in that whilst I like looking at porn, as the time from last release extends, the nature of the porn changes. I like watching things like pegging, cuckolding (particularly cleanup) and even some bi porn too, other than the pegging which I enjoy, the rest is just fantasy with no desire to act on it.

 

This is totally moving off of topic on chastity and porn, but I wanted to share the genesis of chastity for me

I evolved from having a foot fetish since I hit puberty then ballbusting somehow showed up as something that turned me on somewhere in the mix. It was watching ballbusting porn that first turned me on to Chastity – just over 10 years ago. I really like the guy on all fours getting kicked from behind. I ran into the Cruel Sara – Busted To Bleed. Forever etched into my memory with my initial impression of chastity. She has a soft southern draw yet is so dominant. Her gorgeous legs, feet and shoes are so regal. Her presence is awesome – where you are drawn to her every word; put on the headphones and turn up the volume etc. Her dialogue in Busted To Bleed basically became my chastity constitution. I’m getting ahead of myself though – so I’m watching this awesome ballbusting scene where he is getting kicked from behind. Sara is gently explaining how her new shoes with buckles will be even more painful, but she had him buy them for her. You can’t tell there is any chastity going on from behind though. Sara mentions he is chastised in passing but it didn’t register because I had no clue what a chastity cage was – just assumed he was withheld from sex etc. Then, the jaw dropping moment happens when the camera angle goes from behind to from the front and the chastity cage was in full view. Holy Shit! What the fuck is that!!! Then Sara continues to explain the descent into submissiveness that chastity lends. Because you are locked up, you are so horny for me that you will gladly take my kicks. Ahh, Sigh. I couldn't find a link to Busted to Bleed, but here is this hot couple with some of the chastity ballbusting
https://xhamster.com/videos/that-is-what-you-earn-for-asking-for-a-release-xhzBoyZ

So after I saw a chastity cage in action for the first time, it was like something I couldn’t unsee that I wish I hadn’t seen. But I was in it’s orbit and it slowly pulled me in. It probably took more than a year to move to want to do it and experiment on my own and even mention it to my wife. Another couple of years for my wife to accept it and now to the point she embraces it and I’m locked 24/7 and going down on her a few times a week or using toys on her.

So again, I know I deviated a bit off of the topic, but wanted to share this story.

Cheers!

 

Now I’ll answer the question asked. 3 General areas I spend time at 1) porn 2) Instagram 3) Personal google photo album I keep of my wife

I totally watch porn while locked up. I don’t hide it from my wife, but don’t tell he when I’m doing it either. I’ve asked her to watch with me or if I can show her something I’ve seen that turns me on, but it just turns her off; so I’m totally cool with that. As others have said, watching porn just gets me hornier for my wife and fuels my fire. We have gotten into using a dog collar to shock my balls when we are playing. Sometimes when I am watching porn, I will use it on myself. As mentioned in my previous post, I’m into ballbusting. So I will be locked up and watch porn and at the parts that would turn me on more and more are the parts that I shock my balls. Again I don’t tell my wife about this case by case. She knows I do it and I have shared it in general.

I got into Instagram when I was researching some female golfers – really. I would be watching golf on the weekend (sometimes lpga) and then would go do a google search on her. One of the first things that popped up was their Instagram account. At that point, I didn’t even have Instagram on my phone or have an account. I eventually created a burner account that has nothing to do with me and he does nothing but follow piping hot chicks. Again, my wife knows I do this, but I don’t share anything case by case.

Finally, I wanted to throw out an idea that I think everyone should be able to jump on board here. One of my absolute favorite ways to address pent up horniness for my wife it to take candid photos of her all of the time when she is turning me on. I never tell her when I am taking pics. I have over a couple hundred at this point in the album (some of them are in the photos associated with my profile btw). They are all G rated and run the gamete, from dressy to work out / yoga pants (mmm), bikini at the beach, legs and feet resting / dangling on my lap, her asleep in bed laying in a way that turns me on. They are pictures of my wife crossing her legs a certain way or the way she looks in a dress. I absolutely love these pictures and I love showing her the albums as it gets updated over time too. She sort of blushes and tells me I’m bad. Frankly when I have the pent up horniness and go to look at porn, half of the time I just look at the google photo album with all of the hot candids of my wife. Now you can’t give anyone Cali’s teeth for this, can you???!!!! ; )

 

This is so romantic and such a chaste husband thing to do, to swell in your cage looking at pictures of your beautiful unattainable wife. Congratulations.

 

I've never understood this fetish and I've even tried it with my wife. When it comes to sex, I am the dominant one and I am finding it hard to let someone have control over me. I've seen some dominatrix stuff from https://sex4arabxxx.com that I want to try and I am happy that my wife is open to suggestions. Is really important to have someone that understands this and someone that you are sexually compatible. Sex shouldn't be something definitory for a relationship, but it plays a huge role