Porn Addiction Cured by Chastity

Hi all! Just signed up for the forum. I have never been on one before, but I truly felt like I needed to share our story to help anyone that finds themselves in a similar situation. Beware, this could get lengthy...
As long as I can remember, I have masturbated and watched porn. Then 6 years ago I met the most beautiful woman in the world, My Wife. I first saw her when I was in 8th grade..."damn" I told my friend in gym class "that is the sexiest woman alive." This is something I still believe to be true. We married after dating for 4 years. We lived together the entire time. She had a son that I love dearly, then we added another son, and now a daughter. Like I said, I have always watched porn and masturbated; however, about the past year and a half or 2 years (maybe more maybe less) I became the typical case of the husband/father that becomes distant and addicted to alcohol and porn and masturbation. This did not mean I didn't love my Wife, or children...I had some addictions. Then I started watching Jocko Willink and started on the path of self improvement and discipline. Began strength training, reduced alcohol consumption considerably, almost to nothing. The porn was still there and I continued down the rabbit hole and become more distant, short tempered and just a worse husband and father. We went months without sex. Then, my Wife confronted me about it, "where are you getting it from, it must be someone, or something? are you cheating? watching porn?" I couldn't lie, I have always been honest. I took total ownership, admitted to the addiction, and begged that if she forgave me, I would fix it. She took this as cheating...horrible...I was so ashamed. She asked what kind of porn I watched and I must admit, some pretty sick business. Just about everything...I was addicted...obsessed. I told her and she was distraught.
While searching for ways to fix the mess I had made, I found many answers. I gave her access to my phone, although it didn't satisfy her much as I deleted it once I was done watching. We talked, and talked, and talked...I gave her honest answers, as deep and brutal as honesty gets. I looked at it from her point of view, and I truly understood. The search for way to fix the situation led me here, to this forum about a month ago. I did some reading here, and also on other sites, on how enforced male chastity can fix damn near everything wrong with the relationship.
Although I have seen the videos of chastity, it was never really a fantasy. I am a very dominant person, mentally and physically. I don't submit, surrender, and always win. I would do anything at this point to re-earn her respect, trust, and love. I grew some balls, I committed...I introduced her to the idea after talking about the horrible situation. I said I know this is weird, but I truly want to fix this, but I need your help. I want to lock myself in chastity, and give you the key. I told her that my research said it would make me more devoted, sensitive, patient, willing to work around the house, and increase sex drive...the usual stuff you read about. I think she was a little reluctant...but she wanted this fixed as bad as I did.
She agreed...and it kind of scared me at that point...
They use the term vanilla. I still don't know what it truly means, but I always thought my Wife was on the vanilla side of the spectrum, she always had an amazing sex drive, and the sex was always amazing but I thought she was more tame...then there was me...sickly... I ordered several devices. Different designs, lengths, ring sizes and so forth. My favorite so far are both stainless steel. One is HappyGo from Amazon and the other is Bon4M. When I got the first device, I had her close the lock. Not going to lie, all of a sudden I saw a twinkle in her eye. Instantly, she liked it. I purchased a nice anklet for her to wear the key, and I wrote her a note explaining my devotion and desire for her to control ALL of my orgasms, and erections. I am hers, hers alone.
We are now about a month in to enforced chastity, and our sex life and relationship has never been better. We are so deeply in love, and so attracted to each other. There is no more of the ridiculous power struggle arguments.
So earlier I said I thought she was vanilla...I was wrong. She likes the chastity...a lot. She doesn't keep me in denial for long periods. but the cravings for her are unforgiving and agonizing. The pure desire to please her, without even thinking of my pleasure. The power, control, domination she now has over me is intoxicating.
The Game
She made a dice game that we play...as long as kids and life cooperate. She has a list of 12 items and a short explanation of the game and rules. I roll 1 die that will decide how many days i go without orgasm. Then roll 2 dice which decides what item on the the list we follow. Some items are fun for me, some fun for her, but most are just plain mean to me. I absolutely love it. I am putty in her hands. I literally feel like her slave, and have never once been happier. It turns out that, although I am way dominant in day to day life, she is definitely the dominate and I am submissive. I wouldn't say that we're in a female led relationship, I still make plenty of decisions. We communicate very well, and have AMAZINGLY fun sex. However, she is most definitely the dominant when it comes to intimacy. She is now researching prostate massages/milking and bondage and told me to build a red room in the basement....OMG...what have I created lol?! It is truly the most erotic, sexy, crazy, tantalizing, torturous, agonizing, and rewarding adventure I've ever been on. I am excited, and fearful, to see where she leads me.
I can honestly say that without chastity...our marriage probably would've failed. I recommend that every couple, especially those struggling with porn addictions, to research the idea and give it an honest attempt. Sure it takes work on both our parts. But anything worth while was never easy.

 

Yes, it's amazing...neither of us knew that we had this within us, but it has saved our marriage and rekindled the fires of love and passion like never before. Truth be told, if the relationship continues down this path, we will be in FLR before long, and I think we're both cool with that. Maybe we always have been and just haven't realized it and now we've simply accepted it. She says we only use one die to determine the amount of days until my next orgasm because she feels bad and she likes it when I orgasm as well. I have ordered a sheath, strapon, and gpot vibrator so that I can pleasure her even when I'm not allowed yet. It's exciting to wonder, if she takes a liking to those, will she extend the times or not? Will she begin ruining and milking? I do know that she likes the thought of torturing and teasing me. She's also very interested in the fact that I've been leaking almost non stop. Only time will tell. Well I don't know everything on the list as she can update it, change it or simply decide to make it up as she pleases. For example, if I roll, I believe a 2, then I receive oral with no ejaculation...torturous...a 1 is oral with ejaculation. Some #'s I give her oral. Another is she gets to choose a chore and I must complete it in nude in chastity. Or I must scrub and pleasure her in the shower while chaste.