Poll: What is your MAIN reason for wanting to be locked?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by L-u-c-y, Jul 26, 2019.

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What is your main reason for wanting to be locked?

  1. It turns me on

    129 vote(s)
    39.1%
  2. It makes me focus on pleasing my wife/partner sexually

    72 vote(s)
    21.8%
  3. It makes me focus on pleasing my wife/partner non sexually

    64 vote(s)
    19.4%
  4. It takes my mind off of sexual things

    11 vote(s)
    3.3%
  5. It helps with porn/jerking off addiction

    54 vote(s)
    16.4%
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  1. John Morgan
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    I honestly did not want to be locked. Julie and me I thought had a good sexual relationship. I used to be her Dom, and yes, we agreed to exchange rolls.
    I never even thought for one minute she would take it a seriously as she has.
    It hurts like hell on earth she gets sexual pleasure from elsewhere now. But I love her so much, and if that what it takes to make her happy, then so be it.
    Some would say on this site that I am very lucky to have a mistress like her, but I feel she has taken it too far.
    Either way, she is my life, and I will do whatever it takes to make her happy.
     
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    My vote was "It helps with porn/jerking off addiction" because that was the reason it started. Now,after being locked for over a year, it would be equal between pleasing m'Lady both sexually and non-sexually.
     
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    At first I hope it helps me with my jerk off addiction but I think it 's good to take off some sexual thoughts which are increasing into my mind.

    Perhaps in a nearly or not too far future it helps me to focus on my partner in a better way.

    It doens't turn me on at all. I'm not pretty sure to do it but I think it's the only way to help myself and to be a better person.
     
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    It turns me on, with little relief, and heightens my submissive and feminine feelings.
     
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    Really it's a tie between turning me on and jerking off/porn addiction. Being in a non-sexual marriage really got me hooked to porn and the hand. My Mistress loved me tributing her pics but she really loves controlling her cock and cum and that gets me way too excited to even describe, I am guessing every guy here knows what I am talking about though! So locking me up is a win/win situation.
     
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    It wasn’t my idea, madam discovered male chastity on the web and told we I was to be locked up. Madam loves to control, so as soon as she found a way to control my cock it was game on, it took our bdsm life on to a flr and then for her to cuckold me.
     
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    For us, it was more a way to deal with sex drives at opposite ends of spectrum. I could have sex 5 times a day. My wife however, has a much lower sex drive. Chastity and femdom has always turned me on, so I asked her about trying it with our version of an flr. It's working practically perfectly.

    My mind is still constantly on sex, I'm just unable to act on it. I channel it into housework and emotional energy with my wife, leg/feet rubs, massage, kisses, etc. She requests oral far more often now, with no pressure to have sex or make me cum. It's also caused her to get off on teasing more.
     
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    It turns me on I just had a RT game decide how long I'd be in chastity for and I was so horny waiting to start my sentence and then last night my Mistress allowed me to unlock so could clean and edge and glad to say no shrinkage yet x
     
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    There would have to be an all of the above option added as each answer has its time and place. Each one enhancing the other, and you can't have one without another.
     
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    Clean Living My Lady demands complete submission and service.

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    When we started this round, I found it arousing because my Lady employed my fantasies to tease me and draw me in. Now, she has taken possession of my junk and made it clear the only way she will unlock it is if I submit and serve sincerely and fully. So, pleasing her sexually and non-sexually are my main reasons now. I get turned on practically hourly, with the limitation that there’s nothing I can do about it.
     
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    there is no one answer ... its more of a hybrid thing

    my main reason is to keep my hands away when I am too tempted to masturbate - but I would stop way short of calling it an addiction.

    its a turn on, sure - but that's not why I do it.

    it takes my mind off sexual things - well, not for me. it has the opposite effect.

    focus on pleasing my wife sexually - mmmm, not exactly - it keeps me interested until she is, yes - but again, not the reason.

    closest I suppose is not masturbating - but since its not an addiction, I called it pleasing my wife non sexually. she is happy I know I no longer masturbate when she thought I was waiting for her to become interested. plus, I do all the chores so she doesn't have to (that's the non sexual part).

    I am very much a math person but i never said my brain was ordered.
     
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    It makes me focus on pleasing my wife/partner non sexually (& masturbation control)
     
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    Wel for me after reading up on chastity it seemed the right thing to do. I love my wife dearly but over the years have most probably taken her for granted. Since being locked up since beginning of July I now cook dinner when I can empty and fill the dishwasher do the garden. She is now loving the attention and kindness and returns it in bucketloads.
     
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    It turns me on physically and mentally knowing I’m caged thou still on the look out for a genuine real life key holder who understands the dynamics
     
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    Power exchange should be an answer in the poll. I don't really like chastity, but I greatly like the feeling of being owned, and enforced chastity very much provides that.
     
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    I say good for her.
     
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    I answered that it turns me on, because that's how it started about 6 years ago.
    But over the years it has turned into a surprising benefit in my life through helping get over porn and masturbation addiction, and helping me focus on my wife in non-sexual ways, as well as focus on tasks around the house, focus at work, etc.
    So slowly the other benefits are becoming the main reason for locking. (Although it still turns me on too).
     
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    Since I purchased the devise initially it is only appropriate I reply. My Darling is able go focus more on my pleasure and enjoy the feelings of increased penis sensitivity the longer he is locked.
     
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    Lucky guy. :)
     
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    I would have to say all the reasons listed is a main reason for me to be locked.... its really hard to choose just one tho
     
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    There tends to be much less procrastination, and much more healthy, active tasks being complete. Its always a reminder for me throughout the day that she owns me, and that she makes the rules
     
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    I have found also, an increase in my submissive and feminine feelings. Add to that being more attentive in both sexual and non-sexual efforts and it is complete. The idea of chastity came about as a true form of punishment and control when we were seeing a sex therapist to understand our changed dynamics with me becoming the submissive. Another punishment I now crave!
     
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    While it definitely turns me on (more than anything else), the main reason I’m currently locked up is because I jerk off way too much. I don’t have a partner/keyholder but if I did, I would wear it as a demonstration of my devotion to her.
     
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    Being caged makes me 3)focus on pleasing my Wife/KH non sexually and that inspires her to let me 2) focus on pleasing her sexually and that in turn 1) turnes me on!
    She said chastity is forever!
     
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    It's changed over time, and different for the 2 people I'm locked for. That's part of what's fascinating about chastity really. It evolves over time.
     
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