Poll! Chastity and double standards.

Generally no. But ultimately I think what a caged male is allowed to see should be decided by his KH. She might have particular reasons. And this applies to anything else he's allowed to see too. There are plenty of ways of monitoring his internet use.

 

My wife is not very Tech savvy, I on the other hand am very tech savvy and also control parental software for our Kids devices.
wouldnt take me long to get around parental software if she decided to get some installed on my devices if im pushed.

 

For my wife and I she is probably not interested in exerting this level of control, but I intend to discuss it with her as a concept. For us we have one rule which is she makes the rules. So I took the middle choice. If she says it's fine or I don't care, I'll continue to look. My guess is she is close to outlawing porn, but I don't think she would extend it this far. Then again she's been surprising me a fair bit lately.

 

Incidentally I totally agree with the first statement too. Double standards are an integral part of the lifestyle. Just think her decision overrides this point.

 

When you get involved in an arrangement where someone is the Boss and someone else is the employee or the submissive. My Mistress and I had a discussion on this topic Yesterday and she said and I Quote " No one has the Right to tell me how to Control You" end Quote. The principle of a FLR relationship is the Female is incharge. She decides when and what Her sub is allowed to do or view, not some people on an Internet site that She doesn't even Know. By setting rules on what is the right or wrong way to live this lifestyle your taking power and control away from the person incharge. In this case the KH/ dominant female.

It was interesting how upset my Wife / Mistress got over discussing this. A good long massage calmed her down and she felt a lot better.

 

I votes "yes, but.." because that is how my Wife and I live it this way and it works perfectly for us.

But I have to admit the cursor has been standing very long on first topic
I´d love it that strict! Of course..... Finally I am sub and one of my favourite fetish is order and control.

Lady´s opinion is that it´all right as it is. Enough control over me, not too much effort for her and she has got a little playground for teasing me.

Lady feels comfortable with it - Nothing else matters

 

Yes if the woman allows it. Though I am denied PIV sex permanently my wife permits me to view porn while I am being milked with an anal vibrator twice daily. I am grateful beyond words.

 

I'm only allowed to see what my goddess allows me to do, she's not strictly controlling until now, but from time to time she checks the browser history.

2018 Goddess planed that i dont see her naked,with a few exceptions

 

It depends what couples agree between themselves

 

The agreement between my wife and me is evolving. As I become more submissive becomes more dominant which makes me even more submissive. Our firm line, though, is that I do what she says. No discussion.

 

My wife and KH could care less about me viewing porn or even visiting strip clubs. She knows all that happens is I get wound up and can't do anything about it but worship her more. I am locked after all. And it wouldn't matter if I wasn't - I wouldn't do anything with anyone other than her. She enjoys the benefits.

She even tells me if I want to go see strippers she'll give me all the cash I need. I don't ever go though, because, well, I'm a sub and she's my Goddess.

 

This to me falls under...mean for meanness sake. Her hiding her nudity just to deny me of visual stimulation seems not enough but counterproductive but work.

I am pretty sure she wouldn’t want to make efforts to keep me from seeing her naked. For someone to put that kind of effort into denial and causing the exact opposite effect intended would hurt my feelings.

It’s not a you can’t see me thing, we are adults in an adult relationship and we happen to see each other naked all the time, mostly non sexual. By the way, I’m not too keen on blindfolds during sex either... men are visual creatures and giving up the beauty of her form seems like a punishment and not a tease.

To each their own though, just glad our house isn’t quite as strict.

 

i have a long distance Goddess/Mistress KH, i am her pet.
i am upfront about all with my wife..
i have a tumblr account as well as read from literotica quit a bit.
Goddess has not restricted me from looking at or reading..
when men have wanted to chat and flirt or exchange pics, i will ask goddess for permission.
She has told me no, Her word/decision is law..
it has evolved to me sending her pics or telling her what turns me on and or how im thinking of her..
and i send her pics of her property in its cage, which she loves..
she has just offered 2 pictures of herself to me in exchange for a year and a half of chastity..
i accepted her offer..
everyone evolves differently, and different things turn people on, i take everything i read or see with a grain of salt..
where Goddess and i go and end up,including my wife, is our trip..

 

My wife has no interest in being that micro-controlling over me, even when I'm locked up and we're "in session" - ultimately, she's locking me up for a reason, and if I'm sexually frustrated from looking at her naked, or porn - that plays into her hands all the more - but, sometimes, she may just want to be evil for the sake of it too.

Mostly, though, she couldn't care less.

 

you have a flock?
you have a flock of locked cocks?... well clitties?

 

I kinda know what I would be missing...a wonderful view. Cheers

 

I agree with Mandy. Rules and understandings differ with each couple. In our female-controlled marriage my obedience must be -- and is -- absolute and unquestioned. I have volunteered to be caged. She declined. I am not allowed to raise the topic again. If I am ever to be caged, cuckolded, castrated, etc., the decree will be hers and hers alone. I wholeheartedly agreed to this and am grateful that my wife has taken on the burden of running my life.

 

Very good point. Whose leading whom. You also need to consider how much the person Leading wants to Lead, taking control over someone means different things to different people. Maybe she takes control of their sex life, maybe also their home life. But when it comes to work ,paying bills or maintaining the house she wants nothing to do with it. If your the person incharge you usually get someone else to do the things that you don't enjoy. That's one of the advantages of being the Boss

 

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