I was wondering about what others think about being plugged, or stretching their hole. So I will just list my questions below. How often and how long should a locked boi be plugged? How often should a boi's plug be upgraded to a larger one? How often should a boi use a toy other than a plug to stretch their hole, and how often should that toy be upgraded to a larger one? How large a plug should a boi start out with? Also would love any advice on stretching my hole, I want it large enough to take a fist, and maybe to have a rosebud. Would love to hear others thoughts and opinions on this subject.
Start off small and work your way up, I prefer classic plug shapes over those ball type ones, and using other toys is good to open you up as the continual stimulation will relax and dilate your muscles making taking larger toys possible. Just remember use lots of lube and always douche or enema first.
For myself it comes down to quality of the plug I only buy from squarepeg the issue with regular plugs is that you can accidentally lose them in you which is something I want to avoid
1. That's honestly up to you and/or your partner's discretion. As for myself. I am required to wear a butt plug daily and have been doing so for years. Madame J typically has me wear it for a few hours but long-term, extended sessions are not uncommon (up to, and including being plugged for up to 3 months, aside from short bathroom breaks only). 2. In general, butt plug training works well (assuming your goal is longer term wear) by getting used to a particular sized plug for increasingly extended periods of time. Once you're pretty comfortable with a certain size, it's time to upgrade. Repeat until you reach whatever goals are in mind. 3. As to how often: see answer above. I am occasionally pegged but am not much of a fan, to be honest, and mostly stick to butt plugs. So long as you're using something sanitary and *safe*, have at it and let your imagination run wild. 4. Start small and work your way up in size and length of time inserted. Rome wasn't built in a day. Practice makes perfect! Hope this helps
I love to gape my hole. I already accept fist fucking, but, my wife don't like it a lot. So, for now, I'm using this plug (M size - Black) https://www.aliexpress.com/item/4000860012460.html?spm=a2g0o.order_list.0.0.21ef1802Qu2kBL
I agree with above! In the past I have bought a great number of plugs. And although I did recieve pleasure out of them, I recently decided to try the more expensive ones. I found out the very soft silicone ones a very plyable (I hope I say that correct) and you can squish them etc. It does make it a little more difficult to let them enter since they want to go everywhere, but once in.. Whoooo mommy.. They now where to push with silk effort and I do not want to go back! Be carefull though recently my wife was just playing with my dick and all of a sudden I came badly! It took like to seconds and I was not able to warn her. So go slowly, enjoy en things will happen This wher I am at right now: https://toppedtoys.com/products/the-gape-keeper-85 3.5 hours for me maximum. But no regrets
I'm only plugged when I really disappoint her by not doing a specific chore that she wants done or when she's feeling extra ornery.