Hello all! I am a single man who started in earnest in May 2019 after exploring the chastity genre and chastity devices over the last 2-3 years. I'll also confess to having a certain fetish for women's panties. I finally found a good device for me - stainless steel, with a heavy-ish weight, that completely encloses my penis (who now rarely sees the light of day now) with a ring that doesn't bite but that reminds me that the device is always there and is the boss. And when it goes through it's normal "expansion and contraction" phases Being single, without a life partner, sex partner or other accomplice, I use "an online keyholder" service to control my sessions. I might like to meet someone who will take a very personal interest in me and then take all of the responsibility for my chastity and all of it's rewards. I am acutely aware of the difference between orgasm and ejaculation. Although unable to even "touch myself" when locked up, I am able to have whole-body orgasms without ejaculation through body touch. This really only heightens a certain frustration to release and ejaculate while, at the same time, bringing me pleasure for not releasing and ejaculating. I feel like I'm waiting for a special event for that reward. Fun to be here and glad to find a place to share experiences and to maybe meet a real-live keyholder here in my city!