Please help !!! Foreskin problems.

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    #1 bvetma, Mar 8, 2015
    Ok i will try to describe my situation and i am looking for advices or people with similar problems.

    I am user of Chastity devices. I like full devices because all of the Ring type devices i can slip so i am using full belts. my first device was my steel and had a lot of problems with it. The biggest problem was my foreskin would get swollen after some time in it . After some time i sold my steel belt and bought neosteel arch. Now the device is much better but i have the same problem it is smaller swelling but there is. The belt is tight so swelling cannot go more then the tube is allowing it .

    So medical term to this is phimosis.

    So the main question is. Do you guys have the same problem ?

    Does this go away with more use of the belt does penis get use to the forskin keeping behind hed or the only solution is to circumcise it ?
     
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    #2 OwnedbyLeeanne, Mar 8, 2015
    No expert but sounds like some kind of oedema from being to tight.

    Dianne.
     
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    #3 bvetma, Mar 8, 2015
    if edema is ocuring from tightnes and rubing it would be on opzit side of the head. so i dont know.
     
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    #4 bvetma, Mar 12, 2015
    Someone ?
     
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    #5 OwnedbyLeeanne, Mar 12, 2015
    Well I don't have an issue with my foreskin as you describe it, and I don't wear a full belt.
    It does sound like it is a bit tight for you though.
    It is not an allergy to the lube or something is it ?

    Dianne
     
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    #6 Stargazer, Mar 12, 2015
    I found that for me, it wasn't a case of tightness, but rather that there was nothing to draw moisture away from the penis while in the tube. The end of my tube is open which allowed me to stuff a bit of material into it and sicne then, I've not had any problems.

    Not so easy with some of the more bespoke devices, granted, but try it out in some respect and then you can at least rule it in or out and then work on a more permanent solution based on the results.
     
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    #7 bvetma, Mar 12, 2015
    Lube is not problem Dianne. Tightness i dont feel it as problem but mybe yes.

    thx a lot Stangazer only problem is my tube is closed so i canot manualy return the forskin over the head and add more lube. .

    I will try to use more lube and give it a try .
     
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    #8 starflyer, Mar 12, 2015
    Thought of getting circumcised ?
     
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    #9 bvetma, Mar 12, 2015
    I was. but for now i am trying to get solution less drastic and not so permanent.
     
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    #10 Miss Lesley, Mar 12, 2015
    Get a nice tight circumcision - you will not regret it x
     
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    #11 bvetma, Apr 18, 2015
    After long time thinking and having problems yesterday i did the circumcision. Now i am in recovery and waiting to heal and looking forward returning to belt for longer times with no problem.
     
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    #12 Miss Lesley, Apr 18, 2015
    Well done -enjoy x
     
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    #13 Kidkrippler, May 8, 2015
    I've had the same problem that started after I tried experimenting with devices. The issue has been ongoing for quite a while now and still is. Besides the circumcision, which I do not want nor does my wife, any suggestions? I've tried steroid creams urologist prescribed, diaper rash cream and using powder but nothing helps. Will get better during sex if wife is really turned on and lubricated, but after ejaculation the pain is intense. Even cleaning afterwards is painful.
     
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    #14 EvetS, May 8, 2015
    I had some same problem; swelling when I wore my HolyTrainer.
    Also, the foreskin always got pinched between the device and my underwear, leaving redmarks and even inflammations from time to time.
    I had my circumcission done in March, Fully recovered now, except for some scartissue , but for the rest, no issues whatsoever. Love the feeling, love the sight, NO MORE SWELLING or OEDEMA !! and no more pinching. I love it and find it to be my best decission ever ;-)
    Last but not least, my wife loves the new penis ;-)
     
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    #15 Sheriff, Jun 12, 2015
    Maybe I'll go see the moyle as well.
     
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    #16 Miss Lesley, Jun 12, 2015
    My tight circumcision redo was the best decision I ever made and a big bonus is that it makes using the condom catheter much more secure.
     
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    #17 Andrew K, Sep 21, 2015
    Hi bvetma,
    How is it going with your circumcision? Back in the belt?
    Best regards,
    A
     
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    #18 bvetma, Sep 21, 2015
    Circumcision went well. But i need to send the belt back to neosteel for extending the cable for 2 cm. I made a to tight measurements and i didn't realize it before testing it with methods that neosteel suggested. I had a problem i could not sit more then 5 minutes on it and it was all tight down below so it was hard i tried but no use. Now made a rope extension and it is ok but need to send it four full extension.

    Let you know when i do that. Problem is that i will be 6 weak without belt and that is why i am delaying it all the time.
     
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    #19 filltee, May 23, 2017
    Tell your doctor it keeps happening.. dont mention why... tell him its painful uncomfortable all time your partner is complaining because it puts you off sex and if he doesn't offer you ask him for a circumcision. A little discomfort for maybe a month then you ar back in harness with one less thing to worry about.
     
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    #20 Guest 4326, Sep 3, 2018
    Yes also experience this from time to time in my carrara without even knowing
    Caused by penis getting caught in curve of tube and the heat and germs in penis head cause minor infection
    Swelling of the glans is clear fluid in skin below
    Get your foreskin back over its head ASAP - use oil / lotion to rub into normal position
    Swelling goes down after few hours
    Solution - clean belt and penis head as well as possible with good belt clean every week
    If you cannot slide for skin back it’s a trip to hospital for anti fungal cream and last option is circumcision
    Some people retract foreskin before inserting into cage / belt but this is mostly a temporary solution
    Considering circumcision myself as permanent solution making it safer to wear belt for longer with less cleaning
     
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    #21 gary170, Sep 3, 2018
    Bought a jailbird all problems and there were a few gone now it stays on all year :)
     
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