So my guy is in a CB3000, which we like, but he can easily pull out of it when soft. Points of Intrigue, as some have mentioned, hurt him in a bad way - I like to have him be able to get a partial erection and suffer from the constraint (all the time if possible), not to have spikes driving into his penis whenever he gets an erection. I fear that the KSD devices would be similar (I hear it causes major pinching for "growers," which he is). He is about 1"-2" flaccid and maybe 5" erect. So I'm wondering - would a Phoenix Guardian with a 2" length tube work well and be relatively secure? I've read through old threads and have yet to hear anything really bad about the Phoenix devices - only good things. Can anybody give me any feedback? I suppose the alternative is to pierce the boy (and go for a Lori-type device), which I would really, really like to do, but he doesn't share my piercing fetish (though he'd go along with my decision, of course) and I wouldn't want to impose a solution as drastic as that without further exploration. Any experiences or advice would be helpful!