Permanently Collared Soon?

I guess it depends on what kind of collar you're looking at?

For instance, my wife bought me a titanium chain a few Christmases ago, put a silver "lock" charm and my wedding ring on it and told me to wear it. It's not locked on, in that it can come off if needed ... but she's made it clear she much prefers me to wear it.

It's subtle, it just fits under my shirt (I also have a 19.5-20" neck and the chain was 22"), but reminds me of her constantly. And to anyone who catches the side of the chain it looks unremarkable.

 

Being collared definently reminds you constantly of submission. Madame began with a hot pink dog collar and leash from farm store. That's my primary most nights and day use at home.

She's looked at other options for day use.

I figure she will eventually decide on something.

Be happy she at least gave you a subtle option.

 

I think it depends a lot on what the collar looks like.

 

Yeah, that is ... quite unsubtle, no mistaking what that's for. I'd personally be a little worried about neck strain or other health issues stemming from things that heavy.

Could you maybe talk her into compromising with an Eternity Collar? https://www.eternitycollars.com/collections/collars

 

The Eternity collars are solid metal as well, just more of a thin ring than those two. I'm pretty sure they make a titanium option as well, which is not going to break (and would be extremely difficult to cut).

 

Wishful thinking.

 

Wow, that collar looks like it’s from MetallGeyer on Etsy. They sell some expensive and really nice custom pieces. https://www.etsy.com/shop/MetallGeyer
She must really want to tell the world that you’re hers.
Have you heard of Axmar? They sell strap style and eternity style collars (by different names of course) with some unique locking choices (one of them being permanent which is not to be taken lightly). You might want to consider looking them up and checking out their offerings. Another cool place is
They have some really cool offerings as well.

There are plenty of custom collar makers on Etsy and you can find all kinds in all different materials too.

 

You're right. That's the maker on Etsy. I have found a different one that I was planning to pick up instead, but only because I don't want a padlock on the collar. We have children, and I'd prefer to go a little less extreme for their benefit.

But you're right that I still want to tell the world he is owned by me.

I was looking at Axsmar, but I couldn't see if they do custom sizes. His neck is very large, (20") so the total size for the collar will be around 22". I'll try to contact them, but do you happen to know if they make custom larger sizes? I wound up finding one at cuffstore that comes in his size, but I did like the Axsmar products, very much. I had cuffstore recommended to me by others, but my main objective is to get it on him before we move at the end of this month.

Thank you for the information. You seem to know your stuff.

 

Cuffstore ships fast and their products are good quality for what you pay and they have a lot of options Just a note, I think Cuffstore closed its Etsy shop and reopened under a different shop name which is BoundGaggedCollared. They carry most of the same products and they have titanium collar options in colors and in smaller diameter (6mm instead of 8mm) if you so choose. Their Cuffstore website is a good option too but I find Etsy to be easier. Amazon carries a line of collars from Ace Channel and they have some good options too but you are better off searching from google to an amazon link than in Amazon itself to find them just because of filter search issues. I hope this helps.

I kind of have a thing for collars…

 

Thank you! That's exactly what I needed to know! Etsy gives shipping time estimates, which was my big concern, but it looks like it should be here in plenty of time. Also free shipping, compared to $9 on their website. I'll place the order now!

 

Good morning Madam Darling,

I am trying to navigate the web site that You directed me too in order to message You.

When You say I will be wearing a collar, it will be a collar around my neck, is that correct?

Hope the day finds You well.

 

I said IF we play, you’ll be in a collar. You asked what type, so I directed you here to see what that would entail.

The messaging is a phone app. I message here, and I message there when I’m auditioning new talent, because I can gauge your response time in real time. I got your messages with your concerns, and I’m unsure hijacking my husband’s thread in order to gain a speedier response was necessary or tactful.

You know I’ve had concerns about your viability in servicing me in a way that would be beneficial in the least, and this—what I consider to be a breech of privacy, and an obvious overstep to attempt to show off the idea that you might be of interest to me—is demonstrating your willingness to manipulate me in order to get me to hop-to.

Now I have to apologize to my husband on your behalf, and I don’t even own you yet. If we ever do begin, (which is appearing less likely due to poor boundaries) you’ll have plenty to make up for from the outset.

Do not reply here, @austin jacobss, but take your lumps and use messaging.

Sorry about this, babe, (@Ruining ). Love ya!

 

Do we see some Disciplinary action evolving?

 

My deepest apologies, i did not and never would do anything to cause any trouble or harm to anyine, that is the truth, i am so so sorry, if You want me to disappear, i will do so.

 

I don’t want you to disappear yet. You still have some hide that’s apparently needing attention. I said do not reply here. Use fucking messages.

 

I’ve never been collard. The older I get the more appealing it is. Having you children makes it less likely that my wife would want that but you never know. It’s hard enough to hide the cage from accidental bumps while being dad!

Good luck with this it is very exciting!!

 

I wear a blue leather collar with a silver ring sometimes when we go out on date nights etc. I usually wear a shirt and it's rare that anyone seems to notice it, although I'd say it was pretty obvious. Only once has anyone actually made a comment and that was aa barman in a gay bar.

 

If your wife is cool with it, then it's cool.

I don't see many collared men, but I do see lots of collared women. It's a great look. And compared to some of the tats and piercings, it's pretty tame.

Good on your wife

 

„I was looking at Axsmar, but I couldn't see if they do custom sizes“

Yes they do. You can find that on their homepage.

 

Found it earlier, but opted to wait until after we move so I’m sure it goes to the right place.