Permanent chastity flr

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    Hi. I'm a 28 yo man. I live in a flr. Me and my wife stay togheter for 6 years. We married 2 years ago. We begin practice chastity almost the first time we began date.
    The first time we tried honor system and after a while we use a cb6000. After 2 years we decide to use a PA with a stainless steel. I stay in chastity for 4 months in a row without Piv and orgasm, only milking. Then we have a pause and other 6 months. We increased untill we arrive 1.5 years. Now she decide that we have to do the final step. I have 2 choice: stop that game or PERMANENT chastity.
    She will never let me see pussy and i'll never penetrate a woman. I'll be milked once a week and 1 orgasm per year. I'll be cuckolded. If i do that she could BLACKMAIL me with some photos and take control of my money. Otherwise we can have a normal life. I live the idea of being permanent denied but i like have sex. What should i do?
     
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    It all sounded ok until the blackmail part. Are you ok with this?
     
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    Do what makes u happy i would choose permanent lock up
     
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    Go for chastity if that's what you want but be sure of the terms and that you will get some out of it.
     
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    Going for permanent sounds very interesting but not been allowed to see her pussy ever again that would be a hard thing to except and when you said blackmail then I knew that everything was off the table.
    No way could I except blackmail.
     
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    Pretty Monnica 24/7365 chastized sissy in an FLR.

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    I helped set up a blackmail situation in my FLR and love it. I fully plan on staying with my person forever, so at that point it amounts to so pictures or a video of me that never has to go anywhere. But do you see what I said there?

    It was added in mutually to help my further submission and lend her more power inside of a loving spectrum. I assume that this is a big fantasy of yours, and hey, not one to say what anyone else should do. But BDSM of that nature is discussed and negotiated, understood and played out.

    In doing this, and I am saying if it truly is a lifetime fantasy you should, communicate and set it up as an agreed upon scenario. Then theres nothing wrong with it at all.
     
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    At 28 you have a lot of life ahead of you. What comes to my mind is that we don't really know how we will feel about fantasy becoming reality. Cuckolding might be for you in the long-term but in 5 years? Or how someone might change their mind after the first time. Isnt the old phrase "I'll try anything once" a good way to move forward. Perhaps it would be a good idea for any sexual contract to be time limited, increasingly longer as the years go by. Forever is a long time.
     
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    It's hard to imagine what can be used as real blackmail in this day and age. So if "embarrassing" photos/videos are just a part of deep FLR game, I say go for it.
     
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    Its a way to make sure i don't change idea. I think i should be ok if i'm ok with a permanent solution.
     
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    She is adamant about the Permanent way of the contract. We always behave like a normal couple, but she has always been rigorous with our flr.
     
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    The terms are clear and i can go out from the cage if i have a problem with it, but i will be under her control.
     
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    What do you think about financial control?
     
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    sounds like fantasy to me
     
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    Depends on what she means by that.
     
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    ***King Hippo Enters the Ring***



    King Hippo think story baloney... but Hippo like baloney... and Hippo hungry.... so Hippo bite...

    /endRolePlay

    This is some serious nonsense... Can you please repost this in the fantasy section...
     
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    Just my two cents. 1) Enforced Chastity should complement and enhance a relationship, sensually, sexually, and mentally. 2) Although I know it seems to work for some couples, I simply can’t imagine sharing the love of my life with another man. It would destroy the fabric of our marriage.

    Speaking as a man, we can be in an FLR without sacrificing that which we hold dear.
     
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    You are too young to sign up for permanent chastity.
    Bu do what your heart tell you to.
    Finance? I don't like money myself, only gives more headache. Just keep the pleasure level high one way or the other... Let us know what you will decide to do.
     
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    I think we have much time to think about that. I won't take that decision lightly. I think she would be very happy if i accept, but we will consider every pros and cons.
     
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    Why keep your penis if you are never going to get to use it again?
     
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    Is there an emoji for shaking your head no? o_O
     
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    Dr MBogo You heard the lady! In you go.....

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    Bingo! I call BS
     
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    me to!
     
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    I'm going to treat this as if it is real.

    Any kind of kink should be consensual at all times. What I mean by this is that if she really cares about you, she would give you a way to get out or have a break once in a while if you need it. If permanent chastity is required by her for the relationship to continue, that is a deal breaker. She wants kink, not you. And adding retribution by means of blackmail is not something that will lead to good psychological health down the road. If you really, truly need a break and are then faced with the fear of blackmail, the fun ends and dangers of mental health problems arise.

    If the two of you are really serious about long term chastity, take blackmail part out completely, insert some safe words, and leave room for the possibility that either of you might feel differently about chastity further down the road.
     
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