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Pegging - Dildo Size ?

Discussion in 'The Tower' started by CZSteve, Apr 6, 2017.

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Pegging dildo width size

  1. 1" - 1-1/8"

    6 vote(s)
    13.0%
  2. 1-1/4"

    2 vote(s)
    4.3%
  3. 1-3/8"

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  4. 1-1/2"

    15 vote(s)
    32.6%
  5. 1-5/8"

    4 vote(s)
    8.7%
  6. 1-3/4"

    6 vote(s)
    13.0%
  7. And Then Some...

    13 vote(s)
    28.3%
  1. The more I'm locked up the more I seem to enjoy and crave to be pegged by my KH/Wife @n2toys@n2toys - She also enjoys it and always seems to get quite turned on by it... ;)
    Guess I'm looking / craving stimulation elsewhere now that my Orgasms are being limited - also love having my nipples pinched/pulled/tortured more and more - I've always had sensitive nipples and have had a hard time with nipple torture in the past; however, also craving nipple attention more and more.
    Last couple play nights have been pure bliss being strapped down to our bondage horse with nipples clamped while being edged and ultimately pegged.

    For pegging we had been using a Tantus Sport which has a 1-3/8" bulbous head and 1-1/8" smooth shaft - the Sport is a bit squishy an the bulbous head makes it difficult at times to insert and get started.
    Decided to try something more that's a bit firmer and more of a pointed head - just received a Tantus Curve that was listed at 1-3/8" but upon measuring it's a solid 1-1/2"
    Exited and nervous at the same time; concerned the width is going to tough - we also have an inflatable butt plug we've recently been using; it's 1-1/2" when deflated and does burn upon initial insertion, enough that I have to relax and gain my composure for maybe a minute...
    On a side note just ordered a Tantus Acute that had been out of stock - it's at 1-1/4" so if it comes in at 1-3/8" it should be perfect for the next size up and a good build up to the Curve.

    Just got me wondering on average what others here use.
    I understand over time I should be able to take more and more - guess that means we need more time in the saddle... :rolleyes:
     
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  2. Just measured the main one mistress uses its 1 5/8 width and 8.5 long, head and shaft being about the same. Love it I can now take it comfortably but usually use a butt plug as a warm up first so she can just slide in and ride hard straight away. even writing this is giving me a tight cage. PEGGING LOVE IT MMMMM
     
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  3. A tight cage is good but a tight wet cage is even better. Bend over and prepare to be Pegged!!! You've got to love those words.
     
  4. The words are good but what comes after is better
     
  5. I do enjoy using an large Aneros for stimulating the prostate and I've found a few plugs and massagers just don't hit that spot like the aneros.
    Unfortunately my wife is not too keen on pegging but maybe in time.
     
  6. This is real. I started off pegging with a large dildo and as a result my colon was torn and I had to get surgery to fix it. Just a warning to not let porn be your teacher.
     
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  7. We have settled on the Fun Factory Share XL as our favourite dildo for pegging (used with a harness so my wife gets the full benefit of the saddle of the toy rubbing against her clit) The ridges on the receiver's end are a reasonable challenge so it's not a beginners toy. Initially we used much smaller toys and I made much use of butt plugs to get myself used to the sensations and to gradually help me accept toys large enough that an orgasm was unavoidable.
     
  8. We use and love the tantus leisure. Might try something like a feeldoe.
     
  9. My wife uses one about 1 1/4 around and 6 1/2 long. We have used this in the past, but have not used it since we have started chastity. In the past she has used this in conjunction with masturbation of me with her hand. I am hoping that she will use this as a way to milk me while I am in Chastity so that I can experience a ruined orgasm. I would be willing to try one a little larger but don't really want to go to big on this.
     
  10. I’m curious about length. I don’t seem to have a major issue with girth. But length is trickier. Sometimes the same toy is uncomfortably long, other times it’s fine. Anyone else?
     
  11. My Mistress has been pegging me for a little while now as my only means of receiving pleasure. The one she uses the most is bigger than I could ever expect to get. It's over 7 inches long I'd say and maybe an 1 3/4 inches wide. It does it job very well
     
  12. I think that is "normal" ... so instead of sticking to a one size fits all answer I would say, different sizes for different ways of pegging ... meaning if the intent is to just fuck and fuck then use something in the shorter range ( 5 - 6 inches), if it is going to be a slow intimate encounter then something a little girthy and longer ... for me longer always means plenty of prep (cleaning out) and time to relax and enjoy ... short is for a "quickly"

    And well you get the surprise of finding out how you are going to be fucked when you see the dildo that is choose
     
  13. If the dildo is long enough to hit the top of the rectum then it can be painful unless it makes it past the constriction there and up into the sigmoid colon. If it does that then the discomfort seems to dissipate and the feeling takes on a new dimension that adds a headiness that I find makes me cum quite easily. However, the prep for this takes a lot longer as I need a full-blown enema which I don't need if we use a shorter dildo that does not go that far.

    So long as the dildo has enough girth and texturing it gets the job done just fine.
     
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  14. Proper anal training is key. I've been trained with graduated sizes and I can now comfortably wear a 7" insertable while locked in my belt. It wasn't that long ago when a tiny 3" was problematic for me when locked in for an extended period of time. I feel quite a bit of pride knowing that I can take what my Princess requires of me.

    Also a big fan of the FunFactory. Life changing. ;)
     
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  15. This makes good sense. We’ve primarily been hunting for one that’s perfect. That of course has lead to a trunk full of them. I think I’ll try to adjust those expectations and perhaps try to settle on two, one for when I feel more capable, another for when I don’t want either of us to be worrying about anything as we go. By and large all of our play tends toward the rougher side - hard and sort of fast. So shorter has proven better. However at the diameter we both now prefer, shorter options are limited.

    I literally JUST read this for the first time - about the sigmoid. Judging by the anatomy diagram in the page I read, I think that has to be it. I’m not a tall man, so it stands to reason that the space available corresponds to my size in general. Crazy the difference and inch makes.

    And that last sentence of yours has definitely been my experience. That’s why it’s been problematic. Currently between 1.6” and 1.9” in diameter have proven to be the most effective. But most decent ones at that girth have proven too long for the way we play.

    1.6”x6” has been working the best most of the time, but those times when it’s too long it really ruins things. She can’t let loose enough to really enjoy herself and orgasm hard, because I just can’t take it. And obviously any chance I have during those times of achieving O are gone, though that’s of secondary importance 90% of the time for us.

    But just tonight we took delivery of a 1.9”x5.5” - dimensions that had proved not easy to find (and it happens to be one of those squirting ones, which she’s of course giddy about goofing around with at my expense). It’s a little girthier than I’m used to but fine, and the difference in freedom that half inch or so less makes was seriously surprising. The human body is so weird. But I can tell it’s going to be a go-to toy for a while. It’s got this odd shape where it’s thicker up top than at the base, and it instantly stimulated the P with a consistency I’ve never experienced. Left me breathless. She wanted me to make a post about the experience as a whole actually, but unless she insists I’m not planning on it. Reactions to our stories have been too devisive the last few times which makes me very disinclined to share such intimate details. Keeps the site more vanilla friendly this way anyway, since apparently that’s a priority.
     
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