Me and my partner recently invested in a wand vibrator (best money ever spent btw). Ive been using it to edge myself whilst caged and have occasionaly been experiencing something I'm not sure how to define. I'll sometimes take the wand away just as I feel I'm about to orgasm and a I'll feel the starting sensation of an orgasm in my cock followed by a small amount of cum oozing out. It's not nearly the full amount and I don't have any other orgasm sensations or a feeling or releif after. Is this familiar to anyone else, is this a ruined orgasm or something separate? More of a large release of precum perhaps. I don't want to be cumming without realising and without my partners permission
That’s is 100% cheating. Not only does she now need to lock your little guy away, she also has to lock her wand away too… you just can’t be trusted
Our plug in wand wears a luggage padlock to help remove the temptation here If you have a cordless model, you may need your KH to hide it or lock it away somewhere. Getting that relief can be a huge temptation as the denied days fly by
I feel like you can resist temptation. If I’m doubt, have no sexual satisfaction unless your KH is present… if you can’t do that then lock the toys away. All of them!
This happened to me the other night. My wife was teasing and playing with me and I got really close and asked her to stop. Timing was just a little off and I oozed out a little. It wasn't a full ruined orgasm (that probably would have been better). It left me still very aroused, wanting more, which she probably would have done had I not oozed some cum. She stopped for the night leaving me in a very challenging spot.
I react the same way to my wand, Sounds like a typical physical reaction to the vibrations. If done carefully you can drain yourself totally without an orgasm. When I ride my dildo caged I end up with a huge puddle of cum that I never feel dribble out. I don't feel this is cheating but I do refrain as much as possible. Milking without orgasm takes the edge off for me.
Sounds like you need to invest in a sex toy lockbox and your partner needs the key to it. Unless this is something you two agreed on, you are clearly not wearing this device for the right reasons.
yes all them thingys that you can use to make mess have got to be locked away in a drawer and the key gived to who has got the key to your cage.
Is there more than one kind of wand? Is this the Violet wand I have read about and is it really all that? I have never been able to cum while caged.