Part 5 ~ The best thing about the future is it only comes one day at a time...

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    DELIVERY! :party-075:

    Hehe! pet's Valentine's presents are turning up thick and fast. I'm not giving away any secrets though, you'll ALL have to wait until the 14th Feb!

    Most are just quirky, fun things which I hope he will love. I think I might be a little off base with a couple, but I'm a pretty good judge of presents, so I think it should be ok.

    I can't WAIT for Valentines, and I don't want anything for myself.

    pet and I spoke about that last night and I tried to reassure him that I'm not doing the girlie "I don't want anything (but actually diamonds would be nice)" thing that girls sometimes do!

    I REALLY REALLY DON'T WANT ANYTHING!

    If I could have ANYTHING, it would be for the Lori device to fit... but that's not gonna happen!

    I'm taking a break from studies this weekend, but I think I'll decorate the ensuite. Just a lick of paint and a bit of reorganising. Nothing huge!
     
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    :anim_43:

    I have just received a pm from someone questioning why I go to University.

    So many assumptions! :mad0218:

    It may appear to all intents and purposes that I live in a large house, have a shiny new car, and do a lot of fetish shopping!

    It's true. But I struggle to pay for it all.

    I am allowed to live in this house, paid by my husband, but who knows what will happen when he finally decided to divorce me.

    pet and I are both in school so that we may fulfil our potentials and get the best paying jobs available, otherwise we will lose this house and end up the 6 of us in a tiny flat/apartment.

    And to be perfectly honest, I LOVE University. I LOVE learning.

    If I won the lottery tomorrow I would probably go and do a PhD.

    So yes, I'm stressed, and I moan, and I (apparently) neglect my children and make pet miserable.

    Ya know what... if you were in this house, I think you'd find we're all really rather happy, but like everyone else, we like to gripe about something.
     
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    i gripe endlessly. i remember the good old days when i used to be able to smile with my own real teeth and not these dentures.


    i'm sorry Mistress. i tease to much and am to silly. i try to behave but i really suck at it.
     
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    Despite what people read here, they actually gain very little insight into the day-to-day nuances that happen in this house.

    We don't walk round ignoring each other. We talk sex constantly, and are very touchy-feely.

    OK, we don't get round to having sex 24/7... but I don't think that's entirely unusual for people in our position... both at school, new(ish) baby and 3 pre-teens!

    I'm just very annoyed that someone dare try and tell me how to run my life. Maybe they should get a life of their own.
     
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    I ready your post last night but unfortunately was using my phone to check the web so couldn't reply.

    Master and I are both disgusted that someone could send a private message of this nature. This site is place for like minded people to share information and chat with one another not to go around attacking each other.

    Considering that you and Pet put your own time an effort into making and maintaining this site it's doubly shocking and some what of an insult.

    It's only too right that you should go to uni so that you can get a job that will one day support your lifestyle and give your children the best start in life they can have.

    Don't take it to heart Mistress Watchful I'm sure the vast majority of people would support you in anything you decided to do.

    :love0028:
     
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    Thanks for your support kris... I won't let the buggers get me down!

    In fact, to cheer myself up, I have (finally) posted my January lingerie pics!
     
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    Well, those picts sure cheered ME up! :) Thanks!

    js
     
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    MW- I just read, (OK skimmed) through your postings on here. My wife is also reading them, albeit more slowly. she says the feelings are similar to her own initially. we have not however hit the vanilla issue (thankfully?) and probably won't. Luckily the wife and I manage to get away from our kids for 4-5 days every year for the past few years. We are also taking things slowly (married 11 years so far) Chastity is a recent addition (my suggestion) which at this point is working very well for her.
     
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    Nice pics to cheer up everyone, Mistress Watchful! Great start on Your new lingerie collection! Dollyanne loves the new avatar too. Classy and naughty at the same time!

    Curtsey,
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    dollyanne
     
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    loved the pictures they were smashing.

    oh and if you want I can make a few calls and take care of anyone who is annoying you :evilgrin0042: If there is one thing I have learned you can always say it was self defense and if the body happens to fall on the other side of the property line just drag it back across before the cops get there :innocent0006:
     
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    Thank you sub4madam - that's why my journal is here, so that people can realise how hard it can be sometimes... although I never expected it to be THIS hard! :anim_43:

    dollyanne, I'm glad you liked them. I'm still not really brave enough to have "pure" photos.... somehow messing with them and blurring bits makes me feel slightly more anonymous - despite the fact if anyone saw them, they would know it was me! :happy0187:

    Lady Kismet - thank you for the offer! It's a strange one. The site is my baby and I take things very personally. Mostly I can take these PMs or whatever and say "what an idiot" and move on, but when they start getting really personal.... :sad0147:

    On the BRIGHT side!

    I now have a lovely vase and tray ready for the marbles. I have asked pet to keep a note of the chores he does for the next few days so we can work out our points system.

    He is already moaning about that.... :mad0259:

    I try and move us in a more positive direction, and he's STILL a whingey git!

    One twist we have decided (thanks to dollyanne's link to altairboy) is that there will be two points lists. One positive (maintained by pet) and one negative (which I will be in charge of!)

    If the negative points reach 25 in the week, then a black marble goes in. I may change that... I have been toying with the idea of "cum-eating balls" for really HUGE infractions, like surfing porn, lying, etc... and we all know just how much pet loves to eat cum! :happy0192:

    So it's taking a little while, but I can't wait to have our marble system up and running. I'm hoping it will keep us both focused on US! :hump:
     
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    Hi Mistress Watchful!

    Lady Kismet lives in TX. Here in NY, if you shoot someone in self defense, the police check your gun license before they arrest the criminal.

    When I first was married, I was working full time during the day and going to school 4 nights and Saturdays (f/t engineering). It was a sacrifice, but it paid off. I now have a nice job, nice house, and am generally not worrying about money to often (you always worry - that is just normal).

    My mentor told me "Get the degree. You may not use the knowledge you gain from it, but it is the key to jobs. Without it, you are not on the list of eligible people."

    One of my friends, who is very smart, had to move to where the cost of living is less expensive. He works just as hard, or even harder then I, but I make much more. He did not make the sacrifice school requires, and therefore is sacrificing now. Less options, less paying job, etc.

    Education is an investment, the same as putting money into a retirement account for the future.

    Don't let someone's point of view get you down!

    And of course, post more pictures :happy0030:

    js
     
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    Hello Mistress just looked at your images and wanted to say thanks for posting. You know as a photographer I felt compelled to look at the creative aspects of course. :innocent0003:

    Anyway keep us posted about the marble game. Between yours and newsub4a perhaps we can come up with some creative way to play as well.
     
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    Of course you do! And yes I know they're terrible because I mess about with them and make them all blurry!!!! :spankwhip: But they're MINE so I can do what I want!!!!


    Hehe - just kidding!
     
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    Well I had a little bit of a "wobble" yesterday. I know I'm doing my usual and taking too much on... here's why:

    As most of you know, I live in a house with pet and our baby, plus the 3 children from my marriage. My husband (yes.... still!) pays the mortgage and gives me housekeeping to cover the bills, food, kids stuff, etc.

    We love the house, it's a bit of a mess, but it's huge and gorgeous. Unfortunately the town we live in is going downhill RAPIDLY. pet's hometown on the other hand is rising fast. Wonderful shopping, great schools and colleges and as a thriving mini-city, will have lots of job opportunities for me when I leave Uni at the end of the year.

    So, I asked hubby if it would be possible to move.

    Bearing in mind hubby would be paying for the move, the increase in the mortgage, etc, etc you think any sane man would say no. He hasn't. He hasn't really said "yes" either, but I have been married to him for 14 years and know the signs.

    I phoned him a couple of days ago to express my disgust at the town and told him I would be moving to pet's town, it was just a matter of when it was most appropriate. What I meant here was, will this be possible while we're married, or do I have to wait till we're divorced.

    The answer he gave me was "I suppose summer would be the best time".

    Now he didn't say *which* summer, but given the stage of kids at school, it needs to be this summer.

    I have now decided to touch up most rooms in the house and declutter to get the house on the market, or at least valued.

    As I said, our house is a mess, so even if hubby says no, it's still a win-win.

    On top of that I saw the assignment list for Uni yesterday. Although we all know we have assignments due the end of term, and some haven't been fully given to us yet, the assignment list has a daily countdown.

    I have 3 assignments, 5,000 words each, due in 57 days!

    Then 2 exams, then a 20,000 word dissertation by September. Oh and I need to finish (start!) a 4,500 word project for 18 February.

    So, that's why I haven't had much fun to blog! :happy0007:

    I went to help at Brownies last night and had an odd moment when I got back to the car. It was dark, but I noticed a red car seat in the back. I couldn't figure out why our pink one wasn't in there, but figured I made a mistake and got in the car.

    On the dashboard was a pink cupcake and a card. pet had obviously realised how stressed I was and decided to treat me to a Starbucks (hidden in the cupholder!

    It was a huge surprise, and I really needed it!

    I'd taken the pink car seat in my car, so he had to go in the roof and dig out baby's old car seat to put in his car, come to my car and switch car seats, drive to Starbucks and get my coffee and cake and card, then drive back to where I was and put it all in the car, just before I came out.

    He's truly bonkers, but this is probably why I love him! :manga_love:
     
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    Envious MW ! What a lovely thoughtful thing to do. Worthy of a Pet Treat ?!!:anim_63:
     
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    That was truly a wonderful thing to do. sometimes they can be so thoughtful. Though if I find another love note mine left for me think it will break my heart. Amazing that the soon to be ex husband is so understanding. Guess since I am in the midst of our income tax season I see very few soon to be divorced couples that aren't out to screw the other. So his reaction is amazing to me, and I hope it all works out.

    Glad to hear your going down the marble road too. Thinking of using the marbles as well let me know how it goes I am taking notes from everyone so I can institute a truly evil system :evilgrin0042: thank god I hate cleaning.
     
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    I'm not tempting fate and getting too over excited, but we are making little steps back towards our chastity life.

    I locked pet up for the day yesterday and again this morning.

    Because we also wanted to take some photos of the lovely Dore thongs I bought, I also made him do hair removal. He only removed from his groin area... and I'm thinking I really want all over removal.

    There is a waxing place in his hometown which does full body male waxing, and I'm really tempted.

    We're also going to start out trial run of the marble game. I haven't bought any marbles yet, so we are using some gem-type things I have in several colours, so that we can get the gist of whether or not it will work for us and how many marbles we will need in the end.

    I have decided that pet cannot earn points or pull marbles unless he is in chastity (this might be usual rules, but I wasn't sure, so they're my rules!)

    I have also decided on a serious infraction gem, which will be for punishments of my choosing (so cum eating or whipping or gardening!!!!) I haven't decided on when these will be "earned". I think 25 neg points in a week, or maybe just if I feel something bad happened to merit it. Hopefully they won't need to be used at all!

    We're still working like mad on the house in case hubby says we can sell it, which means we're both very tired lately, so not much playing is going on.
     
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    Great news. Little steps but steps in the right direction. :happy0158:
     
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    I agree with you MW - full body waxing is certainly preferrable... Besides, charlotte looks so much more appropriate in her frills that way. I also agree with chastity while the marble game is in effect - no doubt, charlotte understands that requirement fully. I like the idea of the demerit gem and I don't believe you have to be specific about how they are earned - you'll know when charlotte deserves one and so will she...
     
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    Dear MW, I think you will see a big improvement in your pet as long as you keep him locked. As a sub it is simple logic to me. He is screaming out to be locked and for you to take full control. he craves the order to be locked. If you miss the signs he feels you are bored or disinterested. You snap an order and he will commit fully so long as he is locked down. Do not tell him for how long but do indicate that it will be at least a week before you decide further. If he thinks he can be out in a day or two it defeats the purpose. Good luck,

    dubsub.
     
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    closed for maintenance...
     
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    Not quite sure where to begin, or whether it's actually necessary to explain what's going on.

    The only honest way I can explain it is as if I haven't been on this planet for the last week. Almost like a blackout.

    I don't know if pet can explain it better, and maybe he will blog for me later because it's something we've been discussing.

    In summary:

    Marble game. Was working awesomely for us for about 3-4 days. Then pet needed unlocking for discomfort reasons, and during that time I just lost it. Everything...

    University. I have been on the verge of walking out after receiving two relatively bad marks (61% and 48% - 50% is a pass, 60% is a merit...) the thing that hit me most was that out of 8 students, I was 7th and 8th. It's important to me, but not to anyone else!

    The weather! We've had snow in the UK and you would think the Earth stood still. Fortunately it gives me a legitimate excuse for not being in class this past week.

    The house. I have been decorating like a demon and still feel like I'm getting nowhere. Hopefully it will be done before 20th Feb so we can get valued and hopefully hubby will say we can move.

    Relationship. Hmmmm... don't know, just usual us stuff I guess.

    Anyway, I still don't really know what happened... maybe pet can bring some light to the subject.

    I have a heck of a lot to catch up with. :bad-girl-0009:
     
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    Welcome back...

    You were missed.
     
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    Take care of real life, MW. We'll be here when life calms down!

    Hugs,
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