Parental controls for subs

On his chrome browser..if used.

Chrome/Settings/People,Add person=YOU.
Sync all.

Now you can see his search history,Bookmarks, etc but not when he is in INCOGNITO setting.

This requires trust but its also a handy way of sharing info between a couple.

I use a parental software https://securekids.es/en for my children who use android tablets at home as we dont allow them Mobile phones/Cell phones, The sofware is very good if you have kids
Along with this we use 1 email for my all kids devices, software,Chrome,logins etc this allows me to monitor the use and search history all in one go and if there is a problem I can simply talk to them about it.

As for adults unfortunately there is no 100% way to control or monitor any device an adult has as Retired stated.

 

They blocked Facebook....YAAAAAAAAY! The more that do this the better... I'd love to see it gone.

 

Net Nanny, I heard is good.

 

Qustodio was mentioned - its a good product if you can swing the Annual fee, currently 10% off normal $55 - good to control 5 devices, phone [Ios / Android], Pad, computer

 

I believe that a woman should not have to treat her man as a boy. So the simple view is this, you can test his sexual response and combine it with activities to keep him busy and use the idle hands is the devil's playground.

Make him exercise, and then give him reading material which could include erotica that you like and prefer. If he wants porn ... Great let it be your kind if porn/erotica I would also include books in feminist theories and make him write it up like a report ...

Then set up punishments for failure to comply based upon your guidance. Now if you wanted to give him sexual carrots, great create a bucket list of things where he can earn them through repeated days of good behavior and make them cumulative. For example a small bucket can be had after 3 days if good behavior but the next time it is 4 days.

As for sexual compliance, see how long it takes for him to get hard and conversely how well he can control his erection and his emission.

 

Hello--I will also second the vote for Qustodio. I have had my computer controlled for a while now. A few advantages of this program include--It doesn't slow your computer down while using it for vanilla tasks (unlike Net Nanny). It also creates a report of any attempts to access restricted information (in real time by email message if you like). It can also be used for iPhone/ipad and laptop control. Lastly, you can "whitelist" any site that you will allow him to see even if erotic (for example, this site).

I would encourage you to proceed. I agree with RHer above that, among consenting adults, it is a very powerful way to demonstrate your power on a continual basis without excessive effort. He can also come to you with any requests to have additional sites "whitelisted" while giving you an explanation of why you should consider it.

 

Not from there I can't.

 

make him cuffed and bondage as long as you can

 

Hello BK Wife.

In the next update to his iPhone and iPad it will give the chance for a parent to have more control over the use of the device, even being able to lock it remotely.

It’ll be out October time so not long to go!

 

This is what I do. I am lucky because he never deletes his history or uses incognito mode. He's never believed in hiding anything from me. He doesn't see anything wrong with not volunteering information, but he doesn't make any effort to hide anything from me. He knows I check his history and if I find pornography he's going to be locked up, spanked or both. Even though he knows he's going to be denied pleasure, have a sore bottom or both, he considers it more important not to hide anything from me.

I noticed bf had a lot of cameras in his house. It was for securtiy. If someone broke in, they were going to get caught. I just added some more. I have one at each of his computers. If I've scheduled him for discipline, he has to be in his corner a certain amount of time before I get home. I have a camera at his corner and I can tell how long he's there because there's a time stamp. If he's not in the corner for the amount of time I've decreed, he gets extra spankings or chastity time or both.

I don't have to do all this with bf, since he never hides anything.

What the other poster said is true. The Director of Security at the hotel told me the same thing. We can put any block on it, somebody will find a way to get around it. If we notice only a little, we warn the employee. If they go to a site that puts a virus in the computer system, they get fired

 

I'm using KidsGuard Pro to see my daughter's online activities. Its a great parental control app which can check over 30 files and see kid's phone call, texts. Worth to try.

 

My wife/ owner checks the history on my devices. If she finds I was on A porn site, or any site she has banned. Or if I was on longer then my limit , it will result in punishment. She will make me walk out to her art studio on the back of the property. There she has a antique spanking block , with different straps canes and paddles hung on the wall. After a session there I will not even touch a computer for weeks.

 

We use the apple screen time and turn all devices to use for it,
He must change is apple id age to 11 and then he wont be able to leave the family sharing, Once family sharing is on, my wife shuts down my whole phone remotely when i am miss behaving or not getting on with a punishment ect….. also adult web controls and gps monitoring with out being able to turn it off if you set it up …… it is very frustrating

 

You're getting great technical answers.

There is another side to this, though. In addition to all the technical stuff, you can simply let him know what things you expect him to ask your permission for, and what things are simply forbidden. I'm slowly learning how to let my wife know when I've failed her expectations, so I can't give much advice on the topic, other than that (speaking only from personal experience) it is very important to me to fulfill her expectations, and I'm probably not the only guy here in this situation. Fortunately, my wife is not a control freak (or I'd be completely screwed). Regardless, I am comfortable accepting the concept that whatever-she-says-goes, and comfortable learning how to fully incorporate that into reality, despite a lifetime of not having done so.

So lay down the rules, but above all, make sure that he gets used to reporting back to you when he breaks the rules. (People break rules. It happens. And real honesty is far more valuable than a veneer of perfection.)

You can still punish him for breaking the rules. He will almost certainly appreciate it. (I always thank my wife for doing so. Sincerely. It may take hours or days for my brain to come around to accepting it, but it always does. She seems to have some sort of leverage with me that I can't overcome.)

Wishing you the best in your journey.

 

Glad to read that we are not alone.
We experience with “our pact” but the free version wasn’t doing the job as binary and defaulted to the standard Apple control that limit duration and time. As frustrating as it is, it actually does the job.

 

This was 2018 think the child has moved out now.

 

The child is still here although we do not use perennial controls at this point.

 

Lol

 

@BKwife, I realize that this thread started in 2018, so sorry if this is old news. I skimmed through the replies and saw technical responses about browsers and apps, but didn’t see the Apple answer listed. Maybe I just missed it, but this seems to pretty comprehensively address the issue with iPad and iPhone:
https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201304

 

As others have said if your a Apple user, just register his devices as owned by a child, and to a family account, then you have complete control over them.

 

@feather and me have the following setup which works good:

1. Her fingerprint opens my phone and she can always read what I am writing to whom

2. We have installed ScreenTime (Parental Control) so that the time I can spent on my phone can be controlled including which app I can use for how long
Additionally this app will also report my YouTube and web history.
Additionally she can block my phone/certain apps as she wants if she thinks I deserve it.
We're using the paid version of the app.

3) additionally we are using Life360 so that she has always a clear picture where I am located and she gets a short alarm when I leave/arrive at certain locations (work/home/..).
We're using the free version of the app.

Easy to setup and works great.

Feather.sub

 

Wonderful to find the piggy references. Hope all is well