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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    This is a story about how things should be.

    No one uses any strong language or words that may offend anyone.

    Mistresses are always right and all males should thank them regardless.

    All subs do exactly as they are told, only speak when spoken to, and never ever disagree with a mistress. Then thank them regardless.

    Chastity devices all fit perfectly, and are never removed. If a sub is touched at all or teased they should thank them regardless.

    Orgasms are strictly prohibited and never talked about. Their is certainly no room to discuss sexual adventures between two loving adults or need to share their happiness with others. Subs must thank mistresses for silencing their grotesque bodily functions.

    Subs have no need for free will or their own perspective, so mistresses will tell subs what their opinions are and thank them regardless.

    If any one is in the slightest bit offended, remarks will be stricken, and subs will be sure to remember to thank them.

    Fantasy island sure sounds like a fun place to visit. Oh fiddle sticks I put an opinion down....and oh my, my language, if I were allowed to speak I would say I don't know if I can be as politically correct as needed.
     
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    So being politically correct would mean no matter what the government says you need to follow as being correct? No Thanks. I'd rather be an individual
     
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    I wrote this awhile back, as you can tell I was a bit miffed.

    It was about a mod substituting a cuss for something less offensive. Really it was about a few pushing around the many. Power trips and the direction of this site.

    I also started a thread asking where did the members go that were sooo into this without a word.

    I believe I now know. The word game, music thread, and I'm sure coming soon...the weather thread, isn't quite what I had in mind when I became active here.

    So serious, people can't even express their views or find something funny without the wrath of mods and accusations.

    This should be FUN! Talked down to, attempted shaming, wagging fingers, holier than thou I am mistress hear me roar bs is patronizing and screams of small town cops acting like big shots.

    Is this site leaning towards a site where males are a second class citizen compared to women? Just curious, cause I share my time with equals, and MY mistress is all I can handle...I'm not looking for surrogates.
     
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    Can you point out exactly the posts that have miffed you little nic, apart from the word game and music threads that have been here for a long time.
     
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    Those threads are fine Lucy, but not really anything to do with our shared interests, it's a way to interact avoiding it.

    1. I believe I answered a post once about piercing for my kh, I even started off saying I don't have her complete feeling on the matter but did know how she felt on a certain aspect of the question...and basically got chewed out for answering, accused of not giving respect, etc.

    2. Mods went a bit hogwild shaming people that made a bit of a joke about pointing out that someone was being dishonest. Then when I changed my pic to someone that I obviously wasn't as well, was told I was breaking the rules..ironically the person all this was about still has their fake pic up. It's so hypocritical I don't even know where to go with it.

    3. More and more lately mistresses in general say rude things knowing if someone throws it back, they will be the bad guy for being "disrespectful" to a mistress.

    Lynch mobs and bullying are words thrown around all the time.

    Getting overly moderated, judged, and spoken in tones unacceptable. Especially when speaking back to a "mistress" is deemed such a sin.
     
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    1. I don't know anything about that thread.

    2. No one knew for sure that person was being dishonest when they were ganging up on them. Can you point out where people were shamed?

    3. Can you point out where mistresses have said rude things?

    Can you point out where speaking back to a mistress has been deemed a sin?
     
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    i posted the convo i had with the person that was being impersonated and posted the convo in the study.

    there was absolutely no doubt. Zero doubt. But instead of listening they sent the bulldog on to @Vinny
     
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    I thought the person was probably fake, but there was no proof until later in the thread. Better to give them the benefit of the doubt until there is proof.
     
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    I think it's up to people to take what they want out of the mansion.

    If you want to call every woman mistress go for it. If you don't, well don't.

    Maybe the mistresses are tired of being treated like revolving doors for the boys around here.

    Maybe the mistresses are fineally showing up for the game.

    When you look this site up on google it say a male chastity and femdom site.... are women not suppost to feel dominant on here?
    I have more men talking to me like a dominant woman than not.
     
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    You are saying, nic, that you do not want dominant women to express their fetishes here unless it's in a way you approve of. You are in fact kink shaming them somewhat.
     
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    Just because we may not agree on everything doesn't mean we have to get all upset about it. The site is about Chastity Male And female. With regards to your comment about the site leaning towards males as second class citizens I would say ,in my Opinion you are Right, just because a person has a cage on his penise doesn't make him less of a man. For a relationship to work both parties have to be willing. If the sub isn't willing than we have a serious problem.
     
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    I don't see anyone treating males as 2nd class citizens here. Some might be treated as submissives, but that is what they agreed to and what they want.
     
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    @Nicoftime , to answer part of your question about people leaving. I think sometimes subjects get talked to death. Eventually you get bored and just leave. I have done that on another forum regarding male prostate massagers, aneros.com. I was involved in the forum for years and eventually just left without a word. I was just bored of the whole topic and it was covered every which way to sunday. As for the mods here, I can't say much. Haven't noticed what you have, but to be honest I keep a pretty low profile on her and don't say much. Though I have never felt intimidated by anyone on here mod or member or mistress for that matter. I speak my mind when I feel its warranted but if its a dispute I usually tend to just keep my mouth shut and grab the popcorn :D.
     
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    Maid Carrie got his panties in a bunch about calling out someone that put a fake pic, obviously stolen from somewhere, like people were ganging up and bullying some poor gal.

    She was given a little ribbing because she was dishonest in her approach, unethical in her avatar stealing, and offered nothing in her intro. It was basically the back pages of Craigslist.

    Then the thread was locked, scolding every one. He seemed to feel that it wasn't wrong at all. I then posted a similar thread and changed my avatar to a pretty gal that obviously wasn't me. It was quickly deleted and was told to change my avatar back because it was against the rules...no kidding, which was the point. The person stealing and sharing someone else's image still has theirs up by the way.

    It's silly, and it's over policed. There was no issues besides a few tongue in cheek comments. Until that is, until there was one.
     
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    well I don't think anyone wants frauds on here, or findommes.
     
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    You didn't know it was a fake until late on in the thread, you only assumed. I assumed it was as well but thought it better to find out for sure. It's not pleasant to have everyone talking about you on a thread like you are not there.
     
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    If it wasn't clear it was fake, i am a prince and I have inherited 7 million dollars, I just need someone to open an over seas account and deposit 300 dollars in it so I can transfer my money to it. I will pay 10,000.

    People were talking like they weren't there because she wasn't. No different from a telemarketer, bot, or other con artist.
     
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    She could have been real. I have deleted the avatar now, as you say it's wrong to leave it there if it has been stolen.
     
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    Well that's cool, but I guess what I'm saying it all started very innocently with a joke about me charging HER. Someone didn't understand the play on words and it was explained. Then all heck broke loose. Very sensitive, over policed, and in general circling the wagons.
     
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    Absolutely not, not sure where that came from.
     
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    Are women not supposed to feel dominant here? Sure, feel however you want, being dominant doesn't give license to be dominant towards everyone. "Showing up for the game" sounds like taking charge, I thought this was for everyone equally, not a boy or girls club. This is exactly what I was talking about.
     
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    I'm not sure I understand.... so every submissive male can come on here and be as submissive or not as they want becuase it's thier fantasy.
    A women like to play her roles as dominant and enjoys it, becuase it's her fetish, and that's wrong?
     
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    You don't have to be sudmissive to everyone.
    If women want to come here and be dominant then that's them.
    Don't try to change them ..... no one is here trying to change you.
    Like it's been said many times befor ..... ignore it.
     
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    I love the way that the term PC is bandied about as if it ISNT a good thing.

    The reason politics exists, and society exists, is to enable us to live together peacefully, and to steer a course between left and right, right and wrong, good and evil.
    As ever the path veers one way and the next and all the while we strive to keep it from going too far in the 'wrong' direction.

    Political correctness is one of the tools we use to do that, and there's little wrong with it.
    We cant control the words you use, only you can do that. But we do ask you to keep your words civil.

    Beyond that - I don't call anyone here Mistress, and my actions to the female members are to treat them as I would anyone else, submissive or anyone. For me, this isnt a game, it's people, pure and simple. Just people.
    What's wrong with that?

    If some of those people try to Lord it over you - just walk away, chat to someone else. Make a mental note and move on, just like we do with the fantasists and porn writers.
     
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    Most of the avatars on here are not of the person. They are of everything else it's just a symbol so others can associate with you. What I don't understand is why some people are changing theirs so often
     
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