Overstimulated in Chastity

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    Hello, everyone. (sorry my english)

    Although I have few posts on the forum, for many years I have been interested in this topic and including have a HT V2 standart that I have used a few times (some only for short games, and other times in larger periods).

    What happens (and I think it is natural and normal, but I would like to know your sincere opinion), is that normally, when I am locked 3 or 4 days at least, I feel that I start to get too overstimulated.

    In other words, the cage does not stop me from cum (obviously none can), and if I get too excited about something I see or think, I have to try to calm down quickly, or I'll cum into the cage.

    Is this normal? Achieve an orgasm even though a small one, just because i'm locked and can't control my self?

    I just happened to me just reading an erotic tale and feel that if I didn't stop reading it, ii would just cum!

    How do you deal with this?
     
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    The only way is to stay away from that kind of mental stimulation, unfortunately.
     
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    I have a cage that is too long for me when flaccid. I find that if I get myself excited and touch/move the cage then I can ejaculate. So two things here to consider: 1) is your cage too big. You should fill it to the top when flaccid. 2) are you manually stimulating your cage when getting excited (reading a story, watching a video)? The extra attention can put you over the edge.
     
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    It's pretty impressive if you can achieve orgasm without physical stimulation. As boisub said, if you're watching porn or reading stories that are causing you to become overly aroused, then you just need to stop doing that.
     
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    Hi Guys.

    I think i've become overstimulated mentally by that fact that i just be locked.

    Of course, i will not cum if i do not see porn or something like that, but i become stimulated very fast with something if occurs for some minutes.

    Few days after some tease and denial sessions, i simply feel that i will explode if i see a single pair of high heels or bots (one of my fantasies).

    How can i calm down?

    About the cage, yes, it's a little to big for me when i'm flaccid. My dick is about 3.5cm/4.cm long and the cage is 4.8cm inside lenght, so i have about 1cm to grow up inside.

    Should i look for the nano?

    Have anyone see a nano new version knock-off on the market, as i only see the old version. Whould like to try before buy, as i do with the HTv2 original.

    Best regards.
     
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    I would get a shorter cage. And if you have room to broaden as you get hard, perhaps a tighter fit in diameter as well.

    I’d also practice mental control to hold back from the edge. I’ve been there myself. I understand where my point of no return is. Don’t let the buzzing of your brain get beyond a certain point.

    Also stop clenching and twitching your cock in its cage. Hold “open”. Don’t squeeze down to prevent flow.
     
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    Hi.

    Sorry but what you mean by "Hold open. don't squeeze down to prevent flow."?

    About the diameter i can't find any good cages less then 3.3cm as HT V2 or even V3.

    The nano is about 3.5cm, which should be perfect for the lenght, but i don't find a knock-on with the new version and the last one have a huge gap which i really don't like it.

    About practice mental control... it's easy to speak but not easy to do, when i feel my self locked and think about that all day! Maybe i should let the flow the "cum" and assume the humiliation of can't be locked without that feeling?
     
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