overnight is all but impossible for me. help!

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    I`ve have the same problem at night. Last night i had a hard on every 30-45 minutes. Its been 13 days since my last cum. Maybe i will try my HT2 insteed. Need some sleep now. I dont dare to tell my wife i have problems at night, then she just stops the game. I dont want that, i love to serve my wife with my toung. I can hear its better for her than my little dick is. Have a nice day.
     
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    Every man has onehunglow, its just a matter of degree
     
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    well i hopes you get some sleep else you will get poorly. If you ask Her nice She migt let you have it off for a nite and then you can sleep a bit.
     
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    I’m somewhat confused ? Do you need a cage that is smaller than the flaccid penis or do you need the tightest of rings Or even both to stop the nighttime erections ?
     
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    I think I’m just getting used to it, I’m still waking up with my balls getting pulled hard by the ring. I’m not going to stop wearing it at night, it is what it is. I wonder if the fact that I’m a grower not a shower has something to do with it. I had the CB-6000s and sometimes I was far from the tip. I have the HT 3 standards now same problem. Funny thing is they shipped me the small by mistake and length was fine but it was way to tight. I’m very thick and 6 1/2 when hard. When soft I am under 2” but still thick.
    Unless I invest in a custom cage I’ll be having night time erections and I’m ok with it and so is my goddess.
     
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    I dont know what it takes.
     
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    I am finally sleeping through the night without issue. Sometimes I wake in the morning and the cage has been pushed where the last 1/3 of my penis is still encased inside as it backed out while erect
    I have a tight ring and it workability perfect daytime. Eventually I’ll try a smaller ring
    But worry that will prolong night erections by acting like ancock ring as the current ring already does that to a extent

    My advice. Stick with it for a few weeks it gets better by week two or three
     
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    Totally I was the same way...smaller is better! That and
    What an idea! For you gun loving folks (like me) i could make one with shells, hmmm ill let you all know...
     
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    please having a cage that makes your willy a teeny bit shorter is the proper size i think and the ring has to be one that you can just get a finger under. but i has seen that some men have very very hard ones when they get one and if you has that then it still migt hurt a bit.
     
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    I think the cage is a huge factor here. I played around in a cb3000 a couple years ago when my wife wasn't into chastity yet, and sleep was absolute hell. Now that she is into it I purchased an ht2 and it's absolute night and day difference. I sleep until about 6 when I wake up with an erecting, but am able to fall back asleep til 7:30, which is when I normally wake up.
     
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    For me its all about tube size, and material too. Too big and my penis can get partially hard at night and it is excruciating. That was my problem with the HTV2 small tube. I had way too much room in it. Once I switched to a much smaller metal cage my night time problems were pretty much solved. My skin also works with metal much better than the plastic. But the key has been thwarting night time erections before they even start.
     
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    Too big as in too long or too big as in too big in tube diameter?
     
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    I had exactly the same issue and bought a stainless cage with only a very small cage to squeeze into it made my night time erections so minor i could live/sleep ok with it but lack of of gel caused other issues. im looking into resolving this issue now.
     
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    I've been in that same boat and while not an expert after reading here and my own experience here is my advice.

    You need a tube that is the size of your flaccid length and flaccid diameter. This helps prevent the erections from even starting if there is no room for your penis to inflate. Don't go with a smaller ring you risk killing your balls (literally 30 mins of no blood and your now a eunuch) The good rule with the ring is you should be able to slip your index finger between the ring and your scrotum some ease.

    Also what I've found is that lotion dries out too quickly to be helpful for that. Try oils like baby oil, coconut oil or and don't laugh Crisco.

    I had some cheep steel Chinese ones and had this exact same problem. I bought a Holy Trainer v3 with a 50 ring (i have some big balls) and a small tube and sleeping is not a problem at all.

    The only pain I get now is when I put it on in the morning (wife lets me sleep without it from time to time) and I drive to work with a cold seat it is agony until I get to work or the car warms up.
     
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    I am using a Chinese steel cage now with a 45mm ring. Wish I had gotten the 50
    Nights are interesting. Waking up every 30-60 min with the 59mm ring I should be down to on earth or no wake ups. If it’s the same as the cb6000
     
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    laced or not, its a growing problem where my penis chokes out the blood supply to the testicles. i can physically see a increase in size of the tubes going to the testicles as they are easily 2-3X larger due to the ring acting as a tourniquet.
    im thinking a 50mm ring is the minimum for me...
     
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    coo. can you put up a piccy in the galrey please so we can see how big they am.
     
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    Ended up taking the ring to my lathe st work and opened it up to 1.85” and night time erections don’t really bother me as much. The 2” ring is so loose it slides all over and won’t wake me up but moves too much in the day time. I’ll keep it at 1.85 for now and see. This Chinese cage is real stainless. Was worried it would be chrome plated
     
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