Well people... it’s been a fun couple of week last but wife and I had a small chat (over email would you believe) yesterday regarding “MY” fantasy of being locked up... seems our relationship still has issues and she still can’t get over the hurt I have caused her over the years when I was an alcoholic (completely dry 2.5 years now) and she says when I was in the curve before she didn’t really find it fun (I was pretty drunk in those days) and now she says it brings back too many bad memories of how I was - shame... I have been so sweet recently but she still has issues that I think cannot be fixed by me being locked. Therefore, in order for me to avoid being locked and forgotten - which I am now certain will happen - the new cage idea that I have been trying to push to in order to help me improve as a more loving, more attentive, more caring husband is on hold... shame but people are people and I think more professional help is needed for us.. thank you for all your kind words but there isn’t really any more I can add on this site - good luck to all and who knows - maybe I will be back..... thanks for all your support... x