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    My GF and I have been playing a denial game and I thought I would share the rules.

    She loves the results of T&D and how my attitude is affected. She wants it to be fair to some degree and said I have a 50/50 chance twice a year. She decided on coin tosses on January 1st and July 1st that would set the rules. Heads would mean I was elliglbe for an O during the next 6 months and tails was a hard no. She keeps the results secret.

    The first coin toss was on July 1 of 2021 and I found out on New Year's Eve that it was tails. She did the toss on January 1 2022 but said the earliest available time would be Feb 14th, 2022 since that made a year and a new record for us, but kept the results a secret.

    We were discussing my fear that waiting a year and then having it all over in a few seconds could be detrimental and she came up with the idea of a free weekend where I could cum as many times as I wanted before we started back over. She added a second coin toss that will control that, Head it's a weekend, and tails it's a one pop shot, of course only if the 6-month toss was heads.

    I have an app that tracks the days and I am right now 331 days since last O and 34 days before the first opportunity and 171 days until the end of June and this game period all assuming heads!

    She uses all of this as mind control and reminds me that...
    A: She could lie and say it was a tails
    B: Decide I did not deserve it
    C: Tell me it was heads and then get me close and stop and say it was tails and laugh her ass off
    D: deliver a ruined and say oops!

    A real mind fuck.


    A question for long-termers. How disappointing was it when you were finally allowed to get off and the 5 seconds of glow was over? Seems like a waste.
     
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    i was released just before X-mas, when i asked when i was going to be locked up again She said have fun. So, i did, i got all of 2 inches semi hard and had an orgasm. Yup, that was it. She did pull me off one time during this period in shower, got a bit longer and actually pretty hard, came in less than 5 minutes. So yeah, i am just a useless caged slut. And happy for it. Relocked now for a week. No clue when i am getting out.
     
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    I was locked for over four months. The O made me feel like I had four plus months of work. I regretted the O, but it wasn’t my choice.
     
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    I would think that, once you've got some serious time under your belt, you wouldn't want to have an O as you'd be setting your clock back to zero and those 20 seconds of fun are going to take 3-4 days to recover from.
     
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    i am beggining to think that as well.
     
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    Good luck with it
     
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    Great idea so you don't see the coin toss?
     
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    I have routinely been months but have never been anything close to a year. Do I regret having an orgasm after 4 months when she permits it? Yes and no.

    She wants it for me and she knows what's best. If she teases me and flirts and keeps that skin contact going I feel like there would never be a point where I *need* another orgasm.

    The O is not the important part for me, it is her control and her attention that I crave.
     
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    Exactly, it's a huge part of the mind game
     
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    My KH and I actually talked about this as we entered into this latest round... if we had targeted a year and she lets me out at 4 months, would I take it? Could I handle having to then do ANOTHER year from that point?

    all part of the mind game...
     
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    Orgasms are awesome. I don't mind them.

    The drop sucks, though.

    I wish there were some way to skip the drop, and still have orgasms. That would rock.

    She still wants me to orgasm when we have sex. I don't mind that at all. But I have come to hate not being 100% focused on her afterwards.
     
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    Isn't that what ruined O's are for? And as for the PIV sex question, if you were to stop thrusting as soon as you knew you were past the point of no return, wouldn't that O count as ruined too?
     
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    All the best on the journey.
     
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