Other females

I still look, closely sometimes. But more often than not, I look at what she's wearing, how her hair's done, or if I like her makeup. I do appreciate the female form and face, as much as always. But I no longer see myself as an 'available' male so don't look at women in the ways I used to do. More admiration and respect, as well as some envy.

 

I think this is common. When a Key Holder is doing her job she is likely to become the center of your world whereby all your focus is directed to her and her alone. Holding the key to a man's sexual pleasure and release is bound to cause him to fixate.
Eye candy is fun but fleeting. A woman who can keep her man on the edge, a little more irresistible and something to be nurtured and deserving of your focus.

 

It's quite a nice feeling to know that even if you were "offered it on a plate" you couldn't do anything about it! As I've got older I am very much aware that any woman under 45 is old enough to be my daughter!!! It makes quite a difference to me! And anyway no matter how stunning a lady maybe I know that none would be as much fun as Mrs Chaste!

 

well put!

 

I still look, and enjoy the fact that she can do anything she wants any time, while I can't.

 

So much truth here. I also don't see myself as 'available,' but I also don't see myself as worthy. I'm come to see women as holy beings, as goddesses, and know that it's wrong of me to think that my penis should ever enter a woman and to accept that I would not satisfy her. I spent many many years thinking of women as sex objects and have come to realize how arrogant that was and now accept that I am meant to worship them, both metaphysically and orally. Now when I see an attractive woman I wonder when she was last orally satisfied and hope that she is being properly worshiped.

 

I still have eyes, of course I look.

I'm not a dick head though, caged or not I wouldn't comment on how hot someone is to my other half.

 

My wife often points out attractive women to me, so she has no issue with me looking, so long as I don't touch! However, she does get jealous if I receive any attention from another woman. I would enjoy being in the position of encountering other women without being able to do anything and my wife having the option of doing what she wanted, if she wanted to.

 

Its completely normal / natural to look at other people, whether thats me looking at another female or my wife looking at another male, but theres a difference between looking / admiring and actually fantisizing / lusting over them.

We can both appreciate attractiveness regardless of the gender of the person, she sometimes gets envious I think of other womens boobs (not that hers are in any way inadequate, I love them) and I can respect the physique of a man who is muscular as I know just how much hard work it is to achieve, but I guess people covet what they don't have.

I have too much respect for my wife to openly ogle or overtly stare at another woman and even if there were comments made, it would be casual / off hand without any real intention

 

I agree with @MissyB ! I love to observe their dress, makeup, demeanor, and style. For me its an education on what to emulate and what to avoid. I specifically try to imagine what foundations they might or might not be wearing to achieve their look. Mistress and I have discussed certain other women on occasion as She coaches me on being able to blend in with others my age.

 

It’s only natural to look over at someone who catches your attention or you find attractive. I think it all boils down to how long you look and what comments you might say or be thinking.
I was never one to just blatantly stare at an attractive woman but I will discretely have a look. For one I don’t want to look like I'm being a perv and second I don’t want to disrespect my mistress by checking out other women especially when I’m with her. When comes to actually making a comment or thinking particular words about an attractive lady I’ll say she’s “very pretty” or “wow she’s really attractive“ more to keep what I’m trying to get across as respectful and not taken in a sexual. Being in chastity I definitely notice women more but like I said more from respectful standpoint.

 

One thing I definitely don't do, now that I'm older, is stare at younger girls, in their teens and twenties, probably even thirties (i'm not as good at guessing ages of females now too). Nothing worse than an old man looking, creepily or not, at young women. That's where my greater respect and admiration for females really sets limits for me.

 

When with my wife, I don’t stare or comment out of respect for my wife. She might point something out, but I don’t very often.

When not with my wife, I don’t stare out of respect for the woman. I’m not blind, but I do not wish to make her uncomfortable or show disrespect.

Chasity or not.

I am interested in fashion. If my wife and I are working with a waitress, clerk, or employee of a business and they are wearing a nice piece of jewelry or item of clothing, I will offer a compliment. It has always been appreciated.

 

At least chivalry is not dead with some of us, many people would do well to take your words of advice.

 

I agree with this 100%! As things have intensified between my wife and I she is all I think about and want to think about. The mental rush and excitement from FLR and chastity incorporated with my amazing and beautiful Wonder Woman is not something that can be topped!

 

I agree with this. However, almost paradoxically, when I go out (cross-)dressed for an evening to mainstream bars/clubs etc. I find I get a lot of female attention (and yes, often from women half my age), some of it definitely sexual on their part. Its difficult to not be excited by that, but at the same time that fear of being seen as a predator does hold me back (well, that and being loyal to my wife).

I've only been going out cross-dressed in public for the last 4 years or so, but so wish that I'd been that brave many years earlier.

Caveat: for months now, damned COVID has put a stop to getting out at all.

 

This right here!! @Destiny103181

 

Sussex UK You must be getting female attention from women who know you are cross dressed. What do
you talk about? It's been said that women are very curious about cross dressers but don't want their
husbands to do it.

 

I feel it's so only natural to look at the so called eye candy as you put it. lol. So yes it's fun to look and feel that little tightness growing inside the cage knowing there free to enjoy the pleasures as they wish. But I ultimately always want my Keyholder in the end and its not just simply her holding my key it's more like she my number one in the world type deal. I will say though she encourages me to look at the eye candy sometimes beausce she knows it a good little tease when I'm locked up.

 

That is exactly how it is and should be

 

Why on earth would you use "females" rather than women?

 

Sorry guys but I have found during a 3 day lapse in lock up that I immediately revert to my nasty nasty bad bad habits of staring at eye candy long and hard and then fantasizing and masturbating.

Old women or young women.

BUT as soon as my cock goes in the steel and Madame Vanilla takes the keys Im back to that peaceful desert island with just Madame Vanilla on my mind.

It locks my brain in a marvelous comforting peaceful way. It separates me from the Balls. They know it. They arent bothered with eye candy or porn anymore...only making sure that I please Madame Vanilla in every possible way so they get a chance of relief.

Madame Vanilla has begun to recognise the good habits locked and the bad habits unlocked. So she believes that locked is the default setting. And she has got possessve about the keys.

She was 110% vanilla three months back and an unhappy unsatisfied lady with a masturbating hubby lusting and letching at any passing woman and all the fitties on Instagram.

She seems a lot happier now to have gotten me back from the letch cesspool...but I worry if the lock had to come off.

 

Oh thats easy Unlucky...females are seen by the unlocked....women and ladies are seen by the locked.