Orgasm Ratios?

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    I admit I'm a data geek. I've been tracking the number of climaxes my Keyholder Wife and i have for several years. We use the ratio as a way of marking the evolution of our Femdom relationship.

    When we first started this journey around 2008, it was an accomplishment that She had more climaxes that i had over the course of the year. Over the past years the ratio has grown year over year, reaching a ratio of 18 climaxes for Her to my 1 in 2018. This year, we've taken a real leap and the score will be something around 32-to-1.

    Anyone else experience a similar trend or become this geeky?
     
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    Well, our first night was about 12-0. It got worse after that.
     
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    I lost count how many orgasms I’ve given to my Domme Wife.. All I know is that it’s been months since I had one and can’t remember the last time. All I get are completely ruined ones monthly.
     
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    @Surrendered Then all is right in your world, she must come first in everything.
     
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    I think that is one of the goals of chastity. To provide your female partner with the sexual pleasure she deserves. Chaste males should have to earn theirs, so your ratio sounds like you are doing well in your new role.
     
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    I keep track of mine, but the ratio is so out of whack, She would get annoyed if i kept track of hers. She has a lot when She is home alone, without me.

    But I have kept track of this year versus last year for me, and it is a pretty bleak picture. I've had about half as many orgasms this year, and I have mixed feelings about that. On the one hand, I like the denial and the energy that goes with it. On the other hand, that is a lot less connecting while having hot sweaty sex.
     
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    The first year we were into this, we did the whole contract thing and kept track of everything. If I recall correctly it was about 80 to 1.
     
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    I do keep track of the ration as well as a couple other aspects. Currently, we are at 56:1 for the year.
     
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    You are correct. I’ve learned very quick.
     
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    We are going to track in 2020
     
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    Wow, this is pretty cool subject. So, while we haven’t kept track, if we did then I have this picture in mind. She is actually only in the mood perhaps once/month on average. She loves to dress me up and play, but has a low personal libido. Hey, she’s nearly 70, it’s expected. Anyway, in the version that popped into my head when seeing this thread, she informs me we should use 100 to 1, but bringing me to the edge may become a daily event. Thanks for the entertaining idea!!
     
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    Well my last intentional real orgasm was Sep 22, 2018 - I have had a taste of a real orgasm twice since then when I accidentally slipped over the edge while @n2toys was edging me and ~ a dozen or so ruined O's.
    I venture to guess my Goddess has ~ four orgasms a week on average.

    So since Sep 2018 my Goddess has ~ 258 orgasms and I've had two unsatisfying accidental real O's.
    These two accidentally real orgasms are worse then ruined O's; I have the mood swing and a drop in craving my Wife without the full enjoyment and post-orgasm torture of a real orgasm.
    While a ruined O does have a very slight post-O drop it's not near as bad as the full-O drop; more of a pressure release.

    So I'm either a ratio of 129:1 or 258:0 - assuming ruined-O's are not factored in and depending on how you classify the two accidental O's.
     
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    Somewhere around 40 to 1 I think, but we don't keep records.
     
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    Hard to say. Orgasms I give my wife vs. me? 40-something to 5 or so? My keyholder is largely non-orgasmic, and I've not been able to give her one, partly due to failure, and partly because she isn't interested in giving me any chances to give them. That's 5-0 in my favour, although some were more ejaculations than orgasms. All my orgasms are overseen by my keyholder, but not "given" by her. She has no interest in getting me off.. My wife isn't into giving me orgasms either. Reading this, it's pretty obvious how I ended up so locked and denied. The trick is to be the kind of guy who sees this as a positive, where many guys would not have any interest in a relationship where the other partner had no interest in giving pleasure or orgasms.
     
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    #16 Miffy, Dec 12, 2019
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    About 30 to 1. 20% achieved on her own, 80% willingly provided by me and probably 30% of those i vacate the room immediately to allow her to 'radiate' in peace (see also the 20% referred to above!!)-she always tells me when she has brought herself off. 'Shame you can't' is a typical comment!
     
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    Wit us, it should be n to 0 where n > 0.
     
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    Never really worked it out, as I am not permitted penile orgasms. And madam is allowed an orgasm when ever she wishes.
     
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    Yes, I have not keep good accurate records but can say that before she took over I was orgasming at least daily and her just a few a week. Now 10 yrs into femdom marriage she gets a few a week and me about one a month...
     
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    These are great replies! We count ruined climaxes as 1/2 and fulls as 1. My Keyholder Wife used to allow me to count caged climaxes as "ruineds" but She thought i was enjoying them too much, so they are fulls now.
     
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    I never kept track, but when locked I get none of any kind. She gets as many as she wants. I've been pussy-free for almost 3 years and denied almost completely for the 19 years before that, all while she has steadily cuckolded me for over 40 years. I'm positive she's so far ahead of me that I can't even begin to guess where she is.
     
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    We haven't really kept track, but it is way out of wack, because the wife is multiorgasmic on pretty much any encounter. I'd say the average is around six, but we've done over a dozen, and as few as a couple at times. One thing we established many years before getting involved with chastity and swinging was that if I orgasmed before she was finished, I was going to get the semen in my mouth (e.g., snowball, creampie eating, etc.) and it has been a pretty good deterrent.
     
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    Back when I was still allowed to fuck my wife, I would fuck her for a short time to open her up, and then eat her until she had an orgasm. Then I would go back to fucking her some more and have my orgasm. Later on, we switched up a bit, where I would eat her first, and then fuck until she had her orgasm, and then I would continue until I had mine. Even later, not to long before she retired my penis, I would eat her, then fuck until I would cum inside her, and then I would eat her until she got her orgasm. The ones she had while I cleaned her out, were always far more powerful than any others she ever had. We used that last sequence until she decided I wasn't going to penetrate her ever again.
     
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    That's what you want. But I think having one once in a while at a celebration or something is good :)
     
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