Yesterday I was thinking about what ratio other members have so I started this poll. Miss Shelly has been allowing me an orgasm once in awhile but they are getting less so I said 25-1 , but I’m sure that’s changing to more like 50-1 Now be honest. I didn’t give the choice of males having more than their keyholder but if that’s your situation than please add your comment.
Hm. I've never counted Mine specifically for ratio purposes... let Me do some loose math here. I'll keep the estimations conservative. Given our current long distance situation, the ratio breaks down to roughly 25:1... but that's based off of seeing each other only three days each month! At one per day for Me, and one every few months for him... it'll be more like 100:1 once we're done with immigration. That's what I chose, considering that'll be life in a couple months. Of course, this doesn't include ruins or multiples... Who knew equations could have sexy coefficients!? So considerate of you to add this 'option'. I'll be sure to grab some popcorn while reading replies if that situation happens to come up. Great question, @Mash2214! This should be a fun thread.
As we play less and less the ratio is in a slide but we average about 50:1 yearly. 2015 - 223:4 2016 - 231:4 2017 - 131:4 2018 YTD - 45:2
Over time I'd be hard pressed to come up with a good estimate but looking back (from when we first started getting "serious" about the change in the relationship dynamic to more recently) there have been definite stages we've gone through. There was a period of 1:1 (not counting her multiples) For me that progressed to more supervised masturbation than penetration. She learned and took to the art of the ruined almost too well so things went to more of a 10:1 or more. Fast forward and graduate from the honor system to our first device and the ratio continues to creep up. Add little things like an NJoy in skilled hands..."emptying" ratio may have even gone down a bit again but orgasm ratio continues to rise. I'm not sure where it is today but do know for the last 3 months it's been lots for her and one for me!
So I had to think and do some analysis like @Breathe and I figure she's probably getting 150 orgasms per year. Given that when she does release me I have multiple orgasms over a period of days I'd say I have 25 orgasms in that same years time. From a pure math perspective that would be 6:1 for her. The reality though is more like she gets 25 and then I get 6. Now pre-chastity I would masturbate on average 2 times a week. She had less orgasms pre-chastity as we had "sex" less often. Say 75 times a year. Since I had an orgasm when she had an orgasm I was having 175 orgasms to her 75.
When we first started this new way of living, the first year She made me keep a log with the date and number of orgasms She had on each occasion. At that time, Her goal was no orgasm for me until She had at least 10, regardless of how long that might take. A few times She would even go past that ratio a bit. In what has now been almost the completion of our second year, She has strayed from this and has been very generous, and I know it has slipped to more like a 3 or 4 to 10 ratio, although the last few weeks have been much stricter. She has recently said that I will be getting less O's and has told me to purchase e-stim equipment so that I will be sufficiently stimulated and purged. With that said, I expect the ration will be changing and could go to 25 or even 50 to 1.
I said 10-1 for when we're actively keeping me in chastity. That's assuming that during the 3 to 5 weeks I'm usually locked up continuously, she masturbates on her own however often she pleases, as well me pleasing her orally and with her toys once or twice a week. I'm generally allowed to orgasm more than once before being locked up again. When we're not actively keeping me in chastity this skews waaaaay the other way, because I masturbate very, very frequently when I can. And while I still please her with my tongue and toys -- PIV is strictly forbidden for me -- she is usually kind enough to let me masturbate once she is satisfied.