Orgasm plan for 2021

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  1. Chris_S
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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    #26 Chris_S, Jan 8, 2021
    That's rough, dude. You might actually die before your next orgasm. About your pain, I'd say I feel you, but looks like nobody is doing THAT anytime soon.
     
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    #27 Giles_English, Jan 8, 2021
    LOL
    For context, I am "testing" a permanent device, so it's not entirely unexpected. I suppose I was assuming she'd let me out for the summer vacation, but it looks like I shall be shopping for concealing swimwear.
     
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    #28 madams-sissysub, Jan 8, 2021
    My madam, also has no plans to release me this year.
     
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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    #29 Chris_S, Jan 8, 2021
    But she has plenty of plans to wander around in front of you in that shiny black onesie, right?
     
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    #30 winstonmacgregor, Jan 8, 2021
    Why would you anger her through negotiations!?!? She is going to walk away from the table faster than you would at a used car lot if you were quoted $5000 over the book value
     
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    #31 winstonmacgregor, Jan 8, 2021
    You have a wonderfully scientific approach to the dynamic.
     
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    #32 slave-in-FLR, Jan 8, 2021
    I have not negotiated the number. I made her a bit angry with some other deed. Still awaiting for her decision, maybe tonight...
     
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    #33 winstonmacgregor, Jan 8, 2021
    By negotiations I mean the one going on in her own head with herself. Sort of like having the angel on one shoulder and the devil on the other, if you remember the old cartoons. Best wishes in 2021.
     
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    #34 slave-in-FLR, Jan 9, 2021
    Finally my Wfie / KH decided on the frequency of my orgasms in 2021 and surprised me. In oposition to most of other guys here the number is going to significantly increase in comparison with 2020. Last year I had about 15 orgasms. But yesterday my Wife told me that at the beginning of new year I am allowed to have up to 1 orgasm a week (in one day between Monday and Sunday). Of course if I am obedient slave. She also promised me to decrease this frequency later on.
     
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    #35 Hidethekey1990, Jan 10, 2021
    Im permitted 19 orgasms this year, it was 20 but i had a wet dream and my love said that counts as one. :) use them sparingly
     
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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    #36 Chris_S, Jan 10, 2021
    But be wary about saving them up for New Year's Eve. She might enforce them all.
     
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    #37 Guest 6019, Jan 10, 2021
    I would like to be allowed to come every 4 to 7 days. If she kept me locked for two weeks once or twice that would be ok as well. No schedule or planning ahead. It is entirely up to her, so we will see. Since October when I first locked I have averaged about every 4 to 5 days with one 10 dayer. Before October 5 to 10 times a week.
     
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    #38 Dana Fleming, Jan 10, 2021
    I have no idea when my next male orgasm will be. I know it won't be while my cockette is in another person. It will probably be in one of my Fleshlights. However my Mistress/Wife will decide when that will be. However I know that my next full body anal orgasm will be sometime today when my Mistress/Wife's strap on dildo is firmly planted in my sissy vagina. Oh, the anticipation is making me ooze pre cum just thinking about it!
     
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    #39 asastype, Jan 10, 2021
    @MistressAMA and i have a drawing each New Year's Eve to determine the maximum number of climaxes for me in the coming (pun intended) year. This is the potential, not promised. This year, She played around with the drawing a bit and settled on 5 as the maximum.

    Time will tell if i make that number and what the scenario is for each.

    asa
     
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    #40 ormond1912, Jan 10, 2021
    Birthday, anniversary and Christmas. (May, August, December) Until my birthday will be the hardest.
     
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    #41 Andylocked, Jan 11, 2021
    No plan. My last was on Nov 26th. My wife said my next was Jan 27th but I pissed her off about something so it was changed to Valentine’s Day. That would make 81 days without a cum or ruined or milked. My wife decided that number of days was ‘too weird’ and decided 100 days is better - for her, yes.. me, not so, but I of course didn’t argue.
    That means March 5th but she has added some days on for minor indiscretions but not sure if she will remember those...
    If it’s March 5th.. who knows what her plan for me is after that... I will keep you posted...
     
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    #42 starflyer, Jan 11, 2021
    I used to get to fuck my wife on special occasions, birthdays, christmas, anniversaries, bank holidays, i now get milked on these occasions but my cock is no longer allowed to enter her pussy, thats reserved for her dildo's and wand
     
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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    #43 Chris_S, Jan 11, 2021
    Wand? She's a witch! You should definitely do what you're told.

    P.S. Don't tell her I called her a witch.
     
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    #44 OntMark, Jan 11, 2021
    Of those like me with no planned orgasms in 2021, do you miss not having them?
     
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    #45 OntMark, Jan 11, 2021
    Of those like me with no planned orgasms in 2021, do you miss not having them?
     
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    #46 Staylocked, Jan 12, 2021
    We had a check-in conversation about our lifestyle last month. I asked her how often she thinks I need to orgasm (full orgasm, not ruined), she said maybe once a month. I love the feeling of being horny and denied and love how intense and intimate our relationship gets when I'm desperate. I thought about it and suggested she might like it more if we averaged about 2 months between. She didn't say anything about it, but my last was 11/23...
    She has given a couple of ruined ones, one in the cage. She's unlocked it and used it a few times as well with maybe a ruin. It took her awhile to get used to me wearing a strapon for her, but now that the "weird" part has passed, she uses it way more than I get unlocked. While I'm above average in size, she has really started to enjoy the much bigger toys we have collected. So as we continue to progress in our lifestyle and she continues to develop an appreciation for large toys, I can only see orgasms getting even more rare.
     
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    Chris_S Be careful what you wish for!

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    #47 Chris_S, Jan 12, 2021
    Down that rabbit hole, Alice. Be careful what you wish for.
     
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    #48 MissyB, Jan 12, 2021
    At this point, I have no idea or plan for orgasms in 2021. For most of 2020, that decision was made by @MistressS and I surrendered control to Her. With Her absence, not sure how to proceed. I've remained chaste but at some point will experience a release. After that the number will be more dependent on if i find another Domme or Dom and how that relationship develops. Ideally, a monthly release, given it is earned, would keep my desires and submission at its highest level,
     
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    #49 Kat9s toy, Jan 12, 2021
    Orgasm plan for 2021....

    Well, I don't make those plans and Mistress has given no indication of her plans. I suspect it will be a lot like 2020.....zero!
     
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    #50 slave-in-FLR, Jan 23, 2021
    Well, as I wrote in this thread 2 weeks ago my Wife promised me maximum 1 orgasm a week this year. However, since then I still have had no orgasm and I have no idea when I can get it. When I reminded my Wife yesterday that she had suggested 1 orgasm a week she said: "It is an upper limit. But I have not mentioned about a minumum".
     
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