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    It has now been about a week since I have orgasmed. We are new to this chastity and this is a long time for me at this point.

    Last night, the wife decided she wanted to masturbate on her own and me watch. She had me sit up on the bed with my back against the headboard. She then put her head in my lap which out hers head on my cage. She lifted he feet and pulled them back and made me hold them while she used her favoritet toy to multiple intense orgasms.

    When she was done, she kissed me and told me I would be getting a release very soon and she went to sleep.

    It was by far one of the hottest thing I have ever see/been a part of.

    Unfortunately, it made for a very long and uncomfortable night. Now, I am work all day and that is all I think about, which is going to make for a long day . Ugh........

    She has this figured out .
     
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    It certainly sounds like she has! Congratulations!
     
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    So much to the fact.....I text her this morning and thanked her for such a amazing time. lol .
     
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    Oh @Wade you are in for a very interesting and exciting adventure. And it sounds like she’s figuring this all out faster than you could have ever imagined (and she’s out pacing you on this curve). So my very frank advice, enjoy to the fullest every release she grants you, because it’s sound like they’re probably on a very short steep curve to zero. (This is the part of the rollercoaster when you throw your arms up in the air and scream helplessly and wonder why you ever decided to get on this ride).
     
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    Thanks for the sound advice . I think you might be correct. I'm not sure if I am more excited it scared about it. lol
     
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    Sounds like a nice time. I gotta say, I lost interest when you referred to her as "the wife", you can do better. Most women will forgive your short comings if you always strive for greatness. We may punish but we can forgive.
     
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    Yes. This isn't the first time I made this mistake. Being less than two weeks into this, it has been one of my shortcomings. I apologize for that.
     
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    You are in for wonderful pleasure in due time. Especially if she continues on this path.
     
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    It sounds like things are moving along quickly and you are having a great time. Just remember the most important thing is that your wife needs to be enjoying herself and getting everything that she needs. Be careful not to get so caught up in your fun that you forget to make it all about her.
     
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    No apologies necessary. You aren't talking to the boys at work here. It is ok for you to show your love, appreciation and respect. Refer to her how she likes but at least say "my wife". I'm also not a fan of goddess, queen etc, etc. I am just a woman, just a wife. Chastity means you have opened yourself up to learn. This community will help you learn to be your best self.
     
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    That makes perfect sense. Thank you
     
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    Thank you, and I can assure that not going to happen. lol She won't let it .
     
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    It sounds like she is comfortable with some of the focus being on her pleasure not just yours. Having a significant other be so willing to share her private sexual pleasure is such a positive for any relationship but even more so for one where the male is in chastity and is offering her control. Enjoy.
     
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    My wife has a glorious orgasm every other night with her Magic Wand, I get to sit between her legs and watch. It takes her about 10 minutes to get off and then she wants me to lick her pussy and ass and says it extends her orgasm for a few more minutes.
     
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    Very nice and hot .
     
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    Glad you are keeping the right focus. Also be prepared when the newness and excitement wears off when life gets in the way. You will likely sometimes find yourself locked up for long periods without all the excitement. Do not become discouraged because the excitement and intensity will come back at the right times. The cage will make sure you do not masturbate and loose the intensity when she is ready. Be careful you might end up locked 24/7 before you know it. I really never thought it would come to that when we started but it has lasted years with no signs of the cage coming off other than when she wants sex.
     
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    Thanks again. It will be two weeks tomorrow and she did a unlock me for one night after three days for a break and release, but since then it has been 24/7 other than grooming can cleaning. Surprisingly I'm pretty okay with it, feels like the cage is becoming a part of me. Although, it's been 10 or 11 days now and I am more than ready for an orgasm. LOL.
     
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    Just think how ready you'll be after 10 or 11 weeks then :rolleyes:
     
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    Oh my.
     
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    I have reassured my wife a few times that it is not only okay, but actually what I want for her to receive pleasure and not feel obligated to reciprocate. Being caged with no actual contact whilst seeing your partner in the throws of orgasmic bliss is about as hot as it gets in my opinion. I'm still buzzing from my last sexual encounter with her on Wednesday night and whilst physically I'm aching for an orgasm (only 5 days), I'm mentally not wanting one as I am enjoying the rush.

    Undoubtedly this will change if time goes beyond the "short period"....
     
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    Enjoy every bit of it, learn and see how strong a woman’s orgasm can be. I have had the pleasure Of seeing my wife orgasm by her own hand and it felt great. One time I even had a ruined orgasm myself just watching.
     
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    Yes... You just put my thoughts and feelings into words perfectly.
     
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    Yes.....and that sounds amazing .
     
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    Making your lovers sexual gratification more important than yours is hard but also amazingly gratifying. I have found the longer you go without an O the better off you are on it not being such an necessary action.
     
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