Orgasm denial and male at 25s +

At a young age I would still keep your prostate in regular use to reduce the likelihood of issues later on in life. However, chastity with ruined orgasms or milkings will still keep the prostate in use.

 

I would see if she is receptive to the use of a cage. She can get you all hot and bothered and let you out to enhance your experience and maybe improve her pleasure.

 

Hi and welcome-you may notice that the average age of the locked guys here skew older than you. That's mostly because (I believe) male chastity play and/or lifestyle are most gratifying for longterm partners who can trust each other implicitly, and (presumably) care deeply about each other.

That's not to say it can't be done by younger men (and women). It will probably be different from how I(I'm 62) or others here might do it. I suspect it would be much less likely for a 25 year old to go a year or more in 24/7 chastity. I've been locked for over 4 years, and haven't had an orgasm or unlocked erection in 14 months. I have had discharges/ejaculations while being taken by my wife/kH in her strap-on, so my prostate still gets drained occasionally, and while that sensation is quite pleasurable, its not at all like a traditional penile orgasm. (at least for me)

But there certainly are ways that a young couple can include chastity a part of a fun sex life. One example is with pregnancy. If you are interested in children, you could have her lock you up, only to let you out for intercourse when she is at her monthly peak of fertility. (sort of the Rhythm Method in reverse) At all other times, you must please her with your mouth/hands/toys/etc. Then, as soon as the pregnancy test is positive, she announces that you will have no more releases until after the baby is born and she's ready for another. She can (as part of the fun) make it clear that she only needs your cock for it's sperm, and that it's otherwise useless to her. I'd think that would be pretty exciting for a couple trying out male chastity. She might decide to get really serious about it! As they say: Be careful what you wish for!

 

Exactly, you need to have a long talk about expectations and roles. It could be part time, full time, or a hybrid. Rule number 1, walk before you run. Once you select a cage, try it on for an hour. Take it off and wait until the next day before locking up again. You can do a morning test and slowly increase the tome. Then twice a day for a few hours. Then go a full day and after you are use to wearing it go overnight. Slowly increase time worn and once you have a few consecutive days go for a week.

based on my own experience and those of a few close friends, you should take a month of duration experimentation before going for the week lock up. When you decide on a two week period, you can try a real test. At the end of the first week, treat her like a princess and stay confined. Bring her pleasure until she can’t take any more and stay locked. She may want to release you, but the night was hers for pleasure. The next weekend do the same, but this time she should let you out.

 

the honour system which you're suggesting - no cage just willpower - is very exciting and fulfilling if you actually possess the willpower to do it. Good luck to you both

 

I've felt for many years I should have been locked up when I was 12 years old. It would have prevented many issues for me and any women I encountered. I know I caused lots of frustration with women which eventually turned into resentment for them. I feel guilty about it, but have changed to a pussy-free life to make up for my past. If you're causing your women to become frustrated, consider going pussy-free. I'm getting close to 4 years pussy-free.

As far as your prostate goes, your body knows when it needs to clean out the pipes, so to speak, and it will give you a wet dream if you aren't getting any kind of release from your GF.

 

I'm 23 and my gf loves the orgasm denial. We have planned to get started one month later. I don't know if I could wait one week let alone one month for a release But it is so hot when I'm thinking about it. Time will tell...

 

No, they don't. It turns out I have one every 65 days or so if I'm kept from cumming. I'm allowed about 2 hand jobs a month, which is my only form of sex for the last 3 years or so, so I don't experience any wet dreams.

 

I have been very much into femdom since I was around sixteen. At that time and in my twenties chastity wasn't very widespread. At least I never saw anything about it until much later. I am positive I would have been into it but I can't imagine how that would have gone. I'm horny enough now at 57 after about a week. In my twenties, it would have taken about an hour for me to be climbing the walls.

I say try it with the understanding that it will be difficult and see how it goes. And let us know!

 

I was about 25 when madam introduced chastity into our relationship, initially to conserve my energy and orgasms for her, this progressed to denial and then on to cuckolding. It can be exhilarating, there was no way I could have done the honour system, so good luck on your journey!