So, I opened up to my Queen, about my chastity needs and showed her my cage and why I needed it. (Constant masturbation without her knowledge.) I've worn it for a couple of weeks, and she seems tolerant but not really interested in it. We've had sex a couple of times and my orgasms have been intense which she loves, whereas before, I may not even cum when I was constantly masturbating. She is open to the idea of me wearing it for a day or two before sex so that I may build up to the big event, but I would be looking for longer stretches. Do any of the women at CM have similar experiences in the beginning? Did things eventually change to a longer time frame? I'm worried that I will get back to stroking on a regular basis until it's time for caging but that I won't be up to performing as well as I have by long term caging.