Open relationship while wearing a lock

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    I'm recently married as of October, 2020 to my second wife. My wife and I are in an open relationship. I have a girlfriend, and casually see other new partners when time permits. My wife has casual partners from time to time and is looking for a boyfriend. We enjoy occasionally having MMF, FFM, and have participated in our first orgy with friends. My wife is sexually adventurous and we have had a great time exploring our late developing sexual freedom together. We're not jealous people, and we balance each other out very well.

    She has come to enjoy the chastity play we do together sometimes. I have told her about my previous vanilla marriage. I brought up chastity play to my ex in 2013. She and I got a few devices, but she viewed me as a deviant and despised the chastity play. I had even ordered a Mature Metal Jailbird back in 2013, but ended up throwing it away after my ex not participating at all in chastity. The devices were a reminder to me of our bad relationship. Now, my new wife has come to enjoy the play, and can see how I enjoy it.

    Our relationship is nothing unrealistic like living a female led relationship. But she enjoys chastity when I want to enjoy it. Together we have been playing with knockoff metal devices for over a year. Monday we finally received my Steelheart 2 from Steelworxx! It's an amazing device. For the most part it fits like a glove. I can't wait to begin wearing it more.

    It seems like wearing the device helps to make me a happy person. Especially this year in 2020 I need more of that in my life.

    Feel free to ask me any questions about our lifestyle or our relationship/s. I don't want to dump too much info and ramble too much in this post. I'll work on adding pictures to personalize my account.

    Cheers!
     
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    sounds like you've worked out a relationship that suits you both. Good luck with it and welcome here
     
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    Welcome to our community. You certainly have an interesting lifestyle and I hope you find it helpful and enjoyable to be here.
     
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    Welcome to Chastity Mansion. You're among friends, here!
     
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    Welcome, I'm looking forward to hearing what you want to say.
     
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    Greetings Traveler! Welcome to The Mansion!!!
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Welcome to the mansion
     
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    WannaLockCock I'm your huckleberry!

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    Welcome to our community. Sounds like you have found your unicorn! Enjoy the ride! I'm not sure how well it will work for you though if she wants you locked 24/7 and you want to see other women. If she really "takes" to her role as your Domme and the one to control your ability to orgasm you may have to use other ways to please your female friends. I guess that would have to be worked out between you and your new Mistress. Have fun and enjoy.
     
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    Thanks for your reply! She has come to enjoy chastity because it's a kink of mine. We aren't doing it to prevent me from having sex, but to enhance our sex life. She's totally comfortable with me having sex with other people, and will unlock me for it if I happen to be able to work out a date in our busy schedule. I love the frustration of not getting to masturbate whenever I want, and the mentality of saving my sex drive for my wife and girlfriend.
     
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