Ooops what I wished for...

What have I wished for.......

since we started 06 Feb 2010 with me being locked up by my wife, she starts to be pretty serious about it now... the first few weeks were to adjust and get the right fitting, but now it seems like my days of masturbating are definately over. Last time she made me wait 7 days, and man that was tough!! But now it is 9 days since my last release/orgasm I am against the roof! Worst thing probably is: today is Monday which could well mean I have to wait another whole week until the weekend....

She said she had never realized how often men masturbate, and although I wasn't too naughty with 3-4 times a week, she firmly believes those days should be over now. Oooops what have I got myself into.....

To add to that she has read some articles (which I gave her to get to know a bit about this chastity thing) and now she has started giving me chores around the house for if I ever want to be releases again she says!

Last weekend she has told everything about what I believed was our little secret, to her best friend!!! Oh boy I am not sure how to feel about that, on the one hand I can't really be bothered as I know her well and trust this is safe with her, but you never now, as girls talk about EVERYTHING with each other and maybe soon they ALL know!!!

Meanwhile I have ordered myself a steel custom made device, to prevent (I hope) from pulling out completely, but perhaps I am going to regret this....

All I wanna do is to adore my wife and to give her the best oral sex and many many of the best orgasms. But with having young children I don't always get a chance for that either..

Now I know why they say 'Be careful what you wish for...."

 

After 11 days being locked up -it felt like nothing I had experienced ever before, incredibly horny all the time- my wife was in a good and energetic mood. I got to please her orally and then I was given my 'reward' for being a good boy around the house. A long blowjob and I got to cum in her mouth.. I even got a night sleep without my CB on.
It was kind of like an article she had been reading, I believe from Mistress Elise Sutton in which she describes the increase of time between a release, where within 3 months you are on 1 month, after that it rapidly goes towards 2-3 months. As we have just started it first was 7 days, now 11 days, and she seems quite comfy with me locked up.

Her best friend knows about my CB, the other day they were both giggling about me being so much aroused, when i (unexpected) walked in the room.

I have made some modifications to my CB3000 as for an anti-pull out, so no way I can have a quick wank. Soon my steel device custom made measurements will arrive, I am excited!!!

Right now I feel fine, not horny yet BUT I know it will come.

 

Just a quick update, as my wife has been reading some today, and she is now convinced I have to be locked up without release for a long initial period of 90 days!!! I thought she was kidding and mentioned that other women indicate at least to build up the period, but no she said 90 days it will be.....
Then she got all wet and wanted me to go down on her and she climaxed big time.
90 days where I went crazy last week at only 11 days!!! Guess I really have to stop watching porn etc to not make myself any hornier or I will never make it LOL

 

Thanks for the reply, its good to see I am not alone ;-)
Although her best friend knows, I don't think they will act as a team in teasing me, or have me clean her home. I believe her friend is a bit more vanilla, and although girls seem to discuss more details than men do, I don't think it is something she's really into, certainly not with me being her best friends man. But hey, I have experienced some surprises this last week so you never know.
My wife had also been reading about using dildo's, strap-ons etc. but she mentioned she's not into all that stuff, which I already knew.
But it's very cool (bit scary) to see her take on her role as a KH / Mistress now very seriously.

We had to go to a doctors' appointment this morning and as she didn't know what to expect, she unlocked me for this visit. When we got back home she went shopping, and forgot to lock me up. As my last orgasm was only 3 days ago and I do want to be a good boy, I locked myself up while she was out. When she came back I heard her yelling my name from outside! YOU HAVE BEEN PLAYING WITH YOURSELF HAVEN'T YOU!!!! I denied and said I locked myself up instead. She didnt believe me and needed to feel my balls to be sure. I think she was satisfied and left it with that.

Will keep you all posted on how we go.

 

Still i am not convinced that my wife really will take it up to the 90 days. Usually she enjoys playing with me, so will see how this goes when she is only on the 'oral' although she can have as many orgasms as she desires.

I am not pierced, i have read a bit about it recently, but i am not sure if that is what i want for the long term (rest of my life) once the PA is done there will always be that additional hole for urinating isn't it? Also i think at this stage it is too kinky for my wife.

I have ordered a steel device from http://spicesforlove.com/index.php?...id=190&zenid=42ef9d15289deae7bc00b4ead82b101f
which is custom made to my measurements, so hopefully it is a good fit. The CB3000 is a bit wide (when flacid) so this one will be only 31mm inside vs 35mm for the CB3000. They make me a solid ring instead of a hinged.

Ultimately I guess I'd like to go Lori #2C but they want $750 for that!!

 

Well another week has passed.. Meanwhile I received my new CD so we changed it, but that was all I got for a release... The device fits better as it is smaller compared to the CB3000 which just was too big. They say stainless steel is heavy, but I hardly notice it is there, very comfy.
Now for security it seems like there is still a possibility to pull out, although more difficult. So I have already ordered another device (yes I like to experiment LOL) from Steelworxx, again a little tighter and with the internal ring which should (they say) really make pulling out impossible. I say I won't pull out myself, because I like to be aroused and also I don't wanna be caught by my Wife.... but to be sure it is better to be more secured.
Over 15 days now without release, it seems like my wife/KH is following the advise by Elise Sutton, she describes for a new starter (so that the body / mind get used to it) to commence with 7 days, then 10 days, 14 days, 21 days, etc etc so that within 2/3months you are on 1 month Locked Up. Then it continues to as long as the KH wants to.
Not sure if this is what she is doing, as I also get all sorts of chores to do and she says IF YOU EVER WANT SOMETHING AGAIN.... you better do your chores....

 

90 days break-in period

20 days locked up so far... It is getting pretty tough now, we have only started like 2 months ago experimenting with chastity, and before that I was able and used to orgasms multiple times a week. Not anymore...

I was thinking that my Wife was slowly increasing times between a release, but now she has told me it will be 90 DAYS for the first period!!! That is what she apparently has read and she is determined to stick with that advise! Oh my......

Although it really excites me that she is now 'into it' it is also scary. 90 days is just so long if you're not used to it. Sometimes I feel like i give up on orgasms, like I don't need it anymore, but other times I am just so very very horny.

Has anyone similar experience on this break-in period of 90 days??

 

Yesterday evening my wife went to have a shower, and she got all ready for me to service her. As we have a 3 year old who is usually awake till late, we don't get many time to spend for erotic play during the week.. So anyway she was all horny and I got really excited giving her some good oral orgasms.
After she started teasing me, licking my balls and a bit of nipple play. She told me that me being chaste makes her so hot because now also she can't get it (intercourse), although she can obviously get me to give her oral sex.. She said 'a few more good orgasms for me and then you may get one'. This may look like anytime soon, but I know it can take a while because she is not in the mood fr it every day, also because of work and then kids time etc..

I know the article you mention from Lori's website, as I read it and actually gave it to her to read as well as some other articles. She is not big on reading, so I think she only read a few pages and must have picked up the 3 month period!

Today is my 22nd day and I feel aroused all the time now. Regarding the pulling out: trying hard I can manage to do so, but once I tried and 1 ball just slipped out! A bit painful and it took me 20 minutes to eventually manage to push it back through the ring (painful) so that taught me the lesson to NOT TRY it again!
My CD is pretty snug which is good, I have ordered a 40mm ring (42mm I'm on now) as during the day I hope will make things even a bit tighter.

Nighttime erections are okay, it wakes me up several times and I have to get out of bed for about 5 minutes. Only around 5am the erection (well, attempt) is harder than the others. The cage is good size so no erection but the part behind the ring is getting pretty big... not sure if this will ever decrease.

I feel I am getting at the stage now where I am constantly horny and feel what I am missing! I can watch porn and think "fuck I cannot have a quick wank anymore!!" which I always used to love.....

My new steel CD is underway from Steelworxx: cage is 2mm tighter than the current one, has a integrated lock (looks better and less bulky) and there's a separate ring that goes around the penis (tight) and then the whole package goes inside the cage to prevent pulling-out. I hope this ring is not too tight and that it will do it's job well!!!

 

Tomorrow it will be 4 weeks since my last orgasm, so far I really have been counting the DAYS, but I think it is now time to start counting WEEKS.
It is a very strange experience being locked up; although I do want to orgasm so very badly, I also wouldn't want my wife/KH to actually unlock me and give it to me.... How can this be happening in my mind????
It is getting harder, also because I really wish to please my wife so much (sexually) and yet she isn't always interested in me giving her oral sex.... either she is not in the mood, tired, our daughter hangs around.... I really wished I was more "told to service her". She is very good in giving me all sort of chores around the house though...

What are your experiences with this, when your wife/KH isn't in the mood as much as you would like now that you are locked up? And what can we do about?
My wife is still in the learning period, and I don't want to aks her to unlock me, or to ask her for me to service her more...

 

Thanks Celtic Queen for your advice, I will certainly go that path and see how things develop. Last night we had a good conversation on me being in chastity, the first time really since I was locked up 31 March. So far I didn't know her feelings about all of this, I was thinking perhaps it is too kinky for her.

She told me it does turn her on, knowing that SHE is in control of what used to be MY toy. And it makes her feel much better now that she knows I cannot masturbate anymore "watching all these porn girls on the computer". Many times in the past when she was into making love, I wasn't in the mood or just tired, mainly because of this masturbating habit. So she is much happier now!
Also she loves me being so much more gentle and helpful these days, she can really tell the difference. I have to admit I do a lot of all the chores around the house now, which she obviously likes a lot. She thanked me for introducing this chastity thing to her.

Then she asked me if I wanted to be unlocked for the night..... A little confused if she really meant it, I said "but first you said it was going to be 3 months, then 1 month, and now..." She got angry then as it seemed I wasn't taking her role as KH serious. She told me "of course I was not going to unlock you, I was just teasing you". Ooops.....
After that I was permitted to give her some long oral sex, something she really enjoys. Of course I was trying to get hard and got really frustrated.

Finally we talked a little about this thing called "prostate milking" as for health reasons. She wanted to know why, and how, and she asked if that was something I would like her to do to me. I got a little bit shy then, as I always find it "weird" when it comes to me enjoying anal... But just now I have ordered us a NJoy Pure Wand as I am a little scared now that I may not be released any time soon and/or that my chastity will become permanent... Aaaaaaaarrrrggggg I long so much for an orgasm What have I started!!!

 

Have I cheated?

Well so far I have made it one full month being locked up! From 31/03 to today 01/05. Last week I was getting SOOO very horny constantly, that I just had to try this thing called milking. I / we had never done this before, so I just started experimenting for a while. There was no flow of prostate milk or whatever they name it, nothing. Only after when I had to pee, noticed what looked like it. Also afterwards I was much less horny, and my balls seemed to be smaller in size then before (my wife noticed that, but I was too scared to tell her about my experiment.....).
So was this what they call the milking thing???

That was about a week ago, now I am starting to become again horny as before, still very much uncertain about my wifes/KH plans. She has never been the girl that needs/wants to have orgasms all the time/every day, so perhaps it just doesn't come to her mind that I may well feel quite horny? I do tell her though.....

Next week I expect our ordered Njoy Pure Wand to be delivered, so I can introduce the milking thing to my wife. See what she thinks of this weird & kinky stuff that I come up with (I guess thats her opinion, but also I think she is willing to do it if thats what I want) al

 

Ok so, if you let's say just have been milked (prostate) would you still be able to have a normal orgasm (if you're allowed to) with plenty of 'normal sperm'? or has the milking reduced this so much that it would only be a little bit?

Thanks

 

Thanks for your reply. That milking release really made my horny feeling go away, still its not quite returned yet, although in total I've been locked up (without release) for 31 days. Cleaning I can manage to do with water/soap under the shower so should all be fine.
I introduced this chastity to my wife to stop me from masturbating (wasn't too bad with like 3 times/week) and because I liked the kinky idea of her being in control, a way to introduce a more FemDome attitude to her...

So far I haven't experienced to become submissive, something that many others seem to experience because of denial. I still argue with her as before (not too bad, but normal discussions) wouldn't know if that was to change if let's say I got add another month locked up because of argueing. Perhaps its just not in my personality.

She seems happy that I can't play with myself while watching other girls/porn, I think thats what makes it good for her.