Only caged orgasms from now on?

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    How so? You're saying what constitutes a reward? I would agree with that.
     
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    You know you can avoid retrograde ejaculations if you use an device with an insert?.
     
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    Please tell Miss Amanda
    Please tell Miss Amanda
     
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    Well for example there are those subs who take pleasure in their partners orgasm. They experience it vicariously through them.
    It was a topic of discussion here recently and quite a few people agreed.
     
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    I agree Miss Amanda. It is quite pleasurable on the rare occasion just to be used as a pleasure toy. And not to be concerned about one's own pleasure.
     
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    Well then you just need to adjust your attitude about it.
     
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    Or find a suitable teacher or trainer to adjust my attitude
     
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    Well that's one way of dealing with it I suppose. Men do tend to be far more malleable after some chastity. The trick is not only knowing how to modify their behaviour, it's also knowing what you want to achieve. That's not always obvious.
     
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    Yes, I'm aware of that, but not sure if investing in a new cage is a worthwhile purchase. Retrograde ejaculation causes me no pain or discomfort.
     
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    I agree with that. And I think there's an argument to be made that servitude itself is the reward, I just figured I'd do my best to bring up any possible things you hadn't thought of with your new arrangement :)
     
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    This is perfectly true. We have eliminated my erections nearly completely (had one back in March). If you ask any urologist, the only reason a man needs an erection is to impregnate a woman. That is it. Same with orgasms. A man can be perfectly healthy without either. The prostrate will occasionally purge itself if a man doesn't have an orgasm, so there is no danger if a man doesn't have orgasms.

    I feel a lot different about erections and orgasms now than I did when we started down this path. My wife and I both now feel that if pregnancy isn't the goal, then men should be trained not to use their penis during sex.

    After about a year of not using penis, I can honestly say I enjoy sex more now and my enjoyment of my wife's orgasms keeps intensifying. Quite a while back I hit the point where I enjoyed hers as much as mine. Now I enjoy hers more than I ever enjoyed mine. At least for me, the comment about experiencing orgasm vicariously through your partner has proven to be very true. I LOVE my wife's orgasms now. They last longer and feel so much better overall than mine ever did.
     
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    I'm in the exact same mindset.
    It gives me such an incredible high to worship my Wife/KH @n2toys while caged and LOVE when She has a very intense orgasm!
    We're continuing down the path of fewer orgasms for me and more and more for Her!!! :D
     
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