What are some good ways to test an online sub? I've been playing with an online sub for a couple of weeks and I think it's time to test his resolve. Any advice on tasks and how to verify is greatly appreciated. A little about him: He's a self proclaimed sissy He wears a cb3k He wears a bra, pantyhose and panties to work everyday under his clothes. He likes his little butt plug. He gets off on seeing women getting their butts beat (which I think he's being very disrespectful to the gender he desires to emulate) Thanks for the advice!
Do You the ability to Skype with Your sub? You could direct his actions and confirm his sissy clothing choices.
Managing online subs can be very challenging to say the least, and don't always work out well. I'm glad to hear its working for you so far. I did offer a suggestion previously where you send him a keyword or phrase, then have him send you pics of him and the written keyword within a certain timeframe. This way you can do spot inspections of him, and always keep him on his toes and test him. Its good that you have him in panties, pantyhose and a bra everday under his clothes, but agree you could go further. Have him keep nail polish on his toes, or start using only feminine products like soaps, shampoo, deodorant, lotions, etc. Wearing a bra under his clothes to work was the most challenging and nerve wrecking for my husband when I began to require it. This was a case where my spot inspections with the pic and keyword proved helpful. I read your post about the shopping trip. Have you done any more of them? I also agree that his enjoyment of seeing women spanked is disrespetcful and should be dealt with and corrected. PM me, or reach out to me in chat if you see me online and we could discuss this more. I have many years of experience dealing with a submissive husband with a lingerie fetish. Karen
This is an old post which i just read for the first time....but i felt that there was a lot of good ideas so i hope to revive it by responding.