I am starting this thread so that we can put together a comprehensive list of where to go to actually help people. I would like this thread to be less of what you do, and more of where you go (mostly positive please) I want sites that actually have something to offer to help guide and motivate and support all of us. You can also include book reviews. So far my main source is: www.aboutflr.com 90% of everything I want out of my FLR with my wife is directly due to reading from this site. I like how they break down different levels of a Female Led Relationship (FLR) based on what you want to incorporate (the 5 food groups). There is an easy to follow 10 minute introduction or 60 minute FLR Guide. This site is free, but you have to complete courses to earn rights to certain things like communicating with others on the site. Courses require that you purchase an online book ($20) from amazon and put in a code on their website. For men there are several of these courses that you can take to earn points that reflect how dedicated to the idea of a FLR you are. The forums are very wonky and not organized in a way that makes sense to me, but I'm not on the site for the forum. The FLR Guide information in the sidelines on this site is all the reason you need to spend copious amounts of time on this site. If you are a man who has decided to commit more to your woman, this site will explain everything you need to know about how to make her feel valued. One word of warning, if you follow these instructions you will probably fall back in love with your wife. A repercussion of this is probably going to be more sex (seriously put it on a calendar and check for yourself), but you are going to be more sexually frustrated than ever because the first thing you have to do is stop masturbating. If you are a woman, this site will explain the benefits, and the steps you will need to take to make your FLR successful at any of the 5 levels. But seriously, if you aren't trying to have a level 3 FLR then you will never see the full benefit of this program. You need to have control over at least your mans free time, chores and sex (no masturbation) if you really want him to pay attention to you like he used to. If you want to control his money and life direction, then, as my wife puts it - If I wanted to be a single mother and make all of the decisions, then I wouldn't need you. But of course to each his/her own. www.shemakestherules.com This site is now associated with www.aboutflr.com but it is pretty much strictly a forum. To access this forum you must set up a user name and password. It is run by Queen Bee, and to access certain areas of the site you must become a verified woman $50 (explained: This makes it less casual and more serious) or man which costs $75 (there were so many that now her standard coaching fee is charged). Everyone who has done this has said that it is worth while. This service is done via video chat with Queen Bee herself who is a Certified Life Coach. This is a safe place for FLR discussion which is heavily monitored for language and content befitting of a woman to read. Too many grammatical errors or punctuation emogis can get you fined here, so best behavior boys/girls. This is a seriously respectable place. Kink needs to be kept in the Kink forum or you get edited or fined. There are forums dedicated to cooking, cleaning, relationships etc, There is a men only forum where all of the type of topics discussed here at chastity mansion seem to be kept, I haven't spent as much time on this site as I probably should. It has a ton of content, but the subject matter doesn't seem as organized as I would like it. There is even a thread about how difficult it is to find a place to post, if that tells you something. I suggest using the search. The people there are super nice and helpful. I haven't spoken directly with Queen Bee myself, but as soon as I got on she introduced herself, asked if I wanted to get verified, and suggested that if I wanted my wife to participate fuller I should ask her to join and speak with her for support. I thought that was super nice of her. She really likes suggesting porn addiction solutions. I don't disagree that porn is addictive, and so is masturbation, which can ruin a relationship. I think her forum is a great support supplement, but you aren't going to learn how to set up a FLR here. If you are a man this site has lots of forums with ideas about cleaning and cooking and general housework, and a great support from the male community in the men only forum. You will not have access to the women only area. If you are a woman there is a great support from this whole site. Men are required to be polite, and respectful. This is a safe place for you to get help from like minded women.