Read through the thread Lucy posted in regard to online chastity and end goal. Having been locked online and trying a hand at keyholding I think I can agree more often than not it isn't rewarding. Can't tell you how many lockees I've had stop communicating suddenly only to reach out to me the next day to say oh sorry the device was causing me problems I had to unlock. Meanwhile their emlalock session is still running as if they never unlocked. Why not reach out to your holder if you're having problems? I can unlock you. Quick to show how many toys you have but with health concerns no communication. And the session kept running. It's why I don't believe most long term lock up sessions online. That's just one example that's happened many times. On the flip side. Being a lockee you realize there's almost no female keyholders. The ones that's do exist online have so many subs you can't really expect an individualized session. And it's not a critique. It just is. I understand it. On the other hand I've found most male keyholders overbearing. Do I really need to send a verification pic every 45 minutes because you're horny? I have things to do, people to talk to to, meals to eat. Give it a rest. Lol sorry I've just found it frustrating. Felt like venting. Anyways, good luck. Really though, an in person keyholder has got to be the way to go. Am I crazy or have you experienced the same thing?