lol, it wont do you any good there!!! lmao, don't be scared, be excited!! lol go try it on, this is the start of the rest of your life!
I am that excited getting it on will require a demolishing team. My underwear has been soaked with hornyness for a week already. Its still there I will get brave soon I am sure.
you should try it on, the first time of locking will be amazing and you will wonder why it took so long for you to lock it on in the first place
I have agreed to wait till my better half is there to put it on. She has just text me she has bought a new pad lock. This massive turn of events is a bit of a shock tbh. She was not keen about the idea at all yesterday morning but I think she is beginning to realise how good it could be for her too.
lol, when my partner and I were first into chastity, we spent the first two weeks permanently horny, and wet! If she has any sense, she will grasp the chance with both hands. It was the best thing I ever did. Just be careful of size and fit and I would respectfully advise that you check for damage as well as hygiene at least daily for the first while. If it is painful, don't ignore it, you can get damaged really easily. Im not trying to scare you off, just trying to give advice based on my own experience. Tell her, she can expect lots of attention and loads of climaxes! My sub was an instant difference.
Thank you so much for the advice I have got 3 rings with this device so I am hoping for the best. Keep the advice coming lol. I have got the one in my pic.
Take a moment to disinfect it properly, check it for manufacturing flaws, and practice assembling it.
also use silicon lubricant as needed. Also make sure your balls stay inside the cock ring, I use a stocking to tie them off between the balls and the body, then remove the stocking once the ring is in place, usually one ball sits higher, push that one through first, if it does shrink back then you might have to try a smaller ring.
I fully understand your concerns, so, its a wise decision to have your Mistress with you and have her put it on and lock you up. I wish you the very best of luck.
I'm excited for you! Chastity is the best thing I've ever done. Good luck, take your time to get everything comfortable. It almost certainly won't be perfect the first time, I guess it IS like losing your virginity
Thank you for all this wonderful advice you are all so nice. A little update I have got the 50mm ring on thank god no one was watching me cos u all would have wet your knickers. I did this part by myself in a cold bath. After freezing my bits off and thinking about how sand is formed I thought YES I AM IN. Only to find my right ball had retracted. So there I was panicking cos I had got hard again. So there I was kneeling with my dick stuck under the cold tap my eyes shut thinking oh god oh god! Anyway I will keep u informed after the big (or small) lock in.
When I got mine, I was far from excited. Our main thing is T&D, not chastity. My wife wanted me to get the CB6Ks to eliminate my masturbation which was interfering with our T&D sessions. Not much fun to tease a guy who just masturbated an hour ago. I put mine on immediately but instead of having the problem of an erection that so many report, my penis went into hiding. I also ended up shaving my pubic hair near the areas where it was getting caught. It took be about 20 minutes to get it on the first time. Now it is a breeze to do. Enjoy it and do not feel that you have to live up to anyone else's idea of chastity play. I do not wear mine 24/7. Never wear it when I leave my house. I only wear it when I am home and my wife is away. It is not a contest to see who can wear it the longest or a rule book that you have to follow. Just enjoy it and use it in a way that works for you. I know that I had visions of wearing ti 24/7 until after wearing it for a few days but reality did not seem to want to cater to my fantasy. Enjoy.
I am also new to wearing a device full time and the difference in my attitude is amazing! My wife like most women is very understanding and has commented on how much she enjoys the 'new' me! My work colleagues miss me in the pub after work but I don't, I cant wait to get home to prepare the evening meal. In the past two months I have only had two orgasms and my wife has had seven! I not only feel better for it, I am better for it.
I'm waiting for my new jailbird to arrive. I had an old style houdini, but had trouble with the hinged ring pinching after 5-6 days of wear. I'm very excited !
Well as promised an update. Well I have had it on for almost 24hr now and boy it is heaven and hell. After several attempts on fitting it I was amazed how comfortable it was and my erections were stifled but not uncomfortable. Now the weight of it is a little heavy tbh especially in bed. I am not a good sleeper but I dropped off pretty fast. Then the famous night time hard on came and that is when I learned real torment then at 4am then at 630am and what torment it was. My other half has the keys and boy was I tempted to wake her up but somehow managed. Today I was Working and left with it on with no key and here I am. Not sure if I will be able to keep it on tomorrow though as I am in health care and work with the public and other colleagues. Anyway my other half has gone to work on a late shift so I remain trapped for now that's for sure. All u others starting out good luck and all u experienced keep the advice coming x
See you can do it not quite the problem you thought it was going to be. So maybe leave it off or have a very good look with it off but you will feel sore first before any real problems. Xx Wendy
Ok boys and girls it's officially I have had sex in the year 2014 OMG It was good. Locked back up now. Let's see what tomorrow brings. There is one thing about my state of mind the house has never looked tidier.