Omg....I just purchased my first cage! So excited and nervous!

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    #1 Thjeepster, Jul 31, 2018
    Hello

    Well I thought about it for a few weeks now and finally pulled the trigger and bought my first cage.

    I’m very excited and nervous too.

    I hope my gf will be my keyholder. I kinda mentioned I wanted to try something that was called a cage (she never heard of it before). She seemed interested while I talked about it while we fooled around. I told her it would help me stop masturbating and stop the random erections during work. I told her she could have my key and wear it. At that point I came so hard from us fooling around.
    But we haven’t talked about it since.
     
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    #2 guest 2942, Jul 31, 2018
    cool. let us know how it goes. Just keep your expectations in check and you should be good to go.
     
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    #3 LesterBallard, Aug 4, 2018
    Well done. Go slow with your girlfriend. This is all new to her and probably a bit weird. Give her time to get used to the idea. Sell the benefits of it, especially the benefits to her - increased attentiveness, focus on her needs etc.

    Good luck to you both.
     
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    #4 Mash2214, Aug 5, 2018
    @LesterBallard is right on track. Show how this is good for her. If she is getting benefits from you being Locked you may be in for a glorious ride. Hang on and have fun.
     
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    #5 Thjeepster, Aug 5, 2018
    Thank you all for the help!!! It’s well appreciated.

    What exactly do u think I should tell her and how should I sell it to her?

    Whst benefits should I mention to her?
     
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    #6 Locked in love, Aug 7, 2018
    Well, you already told her a bit about it so it shouldn't be a shock. How about presenting her with a key on a chain, explain to her what it's for and then tell her "I trust you enough to give you control over me and I hope it turns you on as much as it does me."
     
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    #7 keyheld, Aug 7, 2018
    Mistress Jules has a book for this on amazon, how to introduce your other half to chastity. One for men asking their OH to lock them up too.

    Take a look, well worth a read.
     
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    #8 Norcalguy09, Sep 11, 2018
    I’m also new to this. Just received my first cafe today. Good luck!
     
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    #9 Joey love, Sep 11, 2018
    Mistress Jules books are really good- not only as to what to say but what not to say. Definitely worth the read
     
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